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Isikhumbuzo sikaSaint Martin waseTours, uBhishophu

Wednesday, November 11, 2026 · in memory of Ben
Ukuzinikela okulandela iMisa — hhayi okungena esikhundleni sayo.
Ukuvulwa

Egameni likaYise, nelikaNyana, nelikaMoya oyingcwele. Makube noxolo lweNkosi yethu uYesu Kristu, uthando lukaThixo, kunye nokudibana koMoya oyingcwele nani nonke.

Ukuguquka

Nkosi, ube nenceba kuthi. Kristu, ube nenceba kuthi. Nkosi, ube nenceba kuthi.

♪ “Nkosi Sihawukele (Organ & Cello)” — A song for Ben
ILizwi likaThixo
Isifundo sokuqala · Titus 3:1-7
Sithandwa: Bakhumbuze ukuba bathobele abalawuli namagunya, babe nentobelo, babe nako ukwenza wonke umsebenzi olungileyo. Mabanganyelisi mntu, babe noxolo, babe nengqiqo, bebonisa ububele obupheleleyo kubo bonke abantu. Kuba nathi ngaphambili sasisizidenge, singathobeli, silahlekile, sikhonza iinkanuko nezinto ezininzi ezisithokozisayo, siphila ngobubi nangomona, sizithiya, sithiyana. Kodwa xa kwavela ububele nothando lukaThixo uMsindisi wethu, kungekhona ngenxa yemisebenzi yobulungisa esiyenzileyo thina, kodwa ngenxa yenceba yakhe, usisindisile ngokuhlamba kokuzalwa ngokutsha nangokuhlaziywa nguMoya oyingcwele, awawuthululela kuthi ngobutyebi ngoYesu Kristu uMsindisi wethu, ukuze sithethelelwe ngobabalo lwakhe, sibe ngendlalifa ngethemba lobomi obungunaphakade.
INdumiso · Psalm 23:1b-3a, 3bc-4, 5, 6
INkosi ingumalusi wam; andisayi kuswela nto. Emadlelweni aluhlaza indinika ukuphumla; ecaleni kwamanzi apholileyo indikhokela; iyawuhlaziya umphefumlo wam. INkosi ingumalusi wam; andisayi kuswela nto. Indikhokela ezindleleni ezilungileyo ngenxa yegama layo. Nangona ndihamba entilini yethunzi lokufa, andoyiki bubi, kuba unam; intonga yakho nodondolo lwakho ziyandinika isibindi. INkosi ingumalusi wam; andisayi kuswela nto. Undilungisele itafile phambi kweentshaba zam; undithambisa intloko ngeoli; indebe yam iyaphuphuma. INkosi ingumalusi wam; andisayi kuswela nto. Ububele nenceba kuphela okundilandelayo yonke imihla yobomi bam; ndiya kuhlala endlwini yeNkosi imihla ngemihla. INkosi ingumalusi wam; andisayi kuswela nto.
IVangeli · Luke 17:11-19
Njengoko uYesu eqhubeka nohambo lwakhe lokuya eYerusalem, wahamba phakathi kweSamariya neGalile. Xa wayengena elali, wadibana nabaqhenketha abalishumi. Bema kude kuye, baphakamisa amazwi abo, besithi, 'Yesu, Mfundisi! Yiba nenceba kuthi!' Uthe akubabona, wathi kubo, 'Hambani nizibonise kubabingeleli.' Kwathi besahamba, baphiliswa. Omnye wabo, akubona ukuba uphilisiwe, wabuya, edumisa uThixo ngelizwi elikhulu; wawa phantsi ezinyaweni zikaYesu, wambulela. WayengumSamariya. UYesu waphendula wathi, 'Abalishumi abacociwe, akunjalo? Baphi abanye abalithoba? Akubuyanga namnye kubo ukuzozukisa uThixo, ngaphandle kwalo wasemzini?' Wathi kuye, 'Suka uhambe; ukholo lwakho lukusindisile.'
INkosi ingumalusi wam; andisayi kuswela nto.
Intshumayelo

Cinga ngomzuzu apho ubona umntu ehamba endleleni, emva koko emisa, ejika, kwaye ebuyela emva ngenxa yokuba intliziyo yakhe igcwele kukubulela. UBenjamin Vo wayeyiqonda le ndlela yokubona ubomi. Wayengumfana owayejonga izinto ezincinci ngamehlo okumangaliseka—nokuba yayikukubona inqwelo-moya i-Boeing 737 isuka emhlabeni, okanye ukucinga ngamaqhinga amatsha e-'con chim airlines' yakhe eyayimenza agcigcise futhi amomotheke ngalo lonke ixesha ethetha ngayo nobawo wakhe. Wayengumfana owayenengqondo eqaqambileyo eyayikwazi ukubala imigama yendiza, kodwa intliziyo yakhe yayihlala ivulekele ukubulela. Namhlanje, njengoko sikhumbula uSaint Martin waseTours, umfundisi owathi wahlula ingubo yakhe ukuze ancede umhlwempu, sikhunjuzwa ukuba inyaniso yethu ayikho kwizinto ezinkulu esizenzayo, kodwa kukuba ngabakhonzi abathobekileyo ababulelayo.

KwiNcwadi kaTitus namhlanje, sifunda amazwi asikhumbuza indlela yokuphila: 'Kodwa xa kwavela ububele nothando lukaThixo uMsindisi wethu… usisindisile, kungekhona ngenxa yemisebenzi yobulungisa esiyenzileyo thina, kodwa ngenxa yenceba yakhe.' Masiyimele kancinci le ndinyana… UPawulos uthetha ngobabalo oluvela kuThixo olusifundisayo ukuba siphile ngokuzeyisa nangokunyaniseka. UBen wayengumfana owayeyiqonda le nto. Wayengumfana owayenengqondo enkulu, kodwa owayehlala enentliziyo ethembekileyo, owayehlonipha abazali bakhe, kwaye owayehlala elungele ukunika ngaphandle kokubala. Wayengumfana owayengaziboni njengomntu omkhulu, kodwa njengomntwana kaThixo owayefuna ukwenza okulungileyo.

Kodwa masiyimele inyaniso namhlanje ngaphambi kokuba siye phambili. Alan noThao, nawe Ryan mfowethu omncane, ndiyazi ukuba kule minyane minne idlulileyo ukususela ngowe-13 kuJuni 2026, iintlungu ziza ngamanye amaxesha ngendlela embi kakhulu, zikushiya ungazi nokuba ume ngaphi. Kukho amandla emphefumlo aphelileyo, kukho ubusuku obude lapho ukungabikho kukaBen kwenza ikhaya libe ngenye indlela. Kukho ukudinwa okungafani nokudinwa komzimba; kukudinwa komphefumlo. Mamele kakuhle, Alan noThao: uThixo akakubeki icala. UBen akakubeki icala. Ezo zifo aziziswanga zizinto owazenzayo okanye ongazenzanga. Kweli hlabathi, kukho izinto ezenzeka ngaphandle kolawulo lomntu, ngaphandle kwempazamo yomzali. Awuphosanga nto. Uthando lwakho lwalucocekile, lwaluphelele, kwaye uBen wayesazi ukuba unothando olungaka kubazali bakhe nakuRyan. Khipha elo litye lokuzisola ezintliziyweni zenu namhlanje. UBen akajongi iziphoso; ujonge phezulu kuThixo, kwaye uqhubeka esithi kuwe: 'Ba, Mama, musani ukukhala kakhulu, ndikhuselekile.'

KwiVangeli yanamhlanje, uYesu usixelela ngamakhuta alishumi aphiliswayo. Kodwa ngumnye kuphela obuyayo ukuza kubulela. UYesu ubuza: 'Abalishumi abacociwe, akunjalo? Baphi abanye abalithoba?' Masiyimele kancinci le ndinyana… UYesu akabhaleli mthetho wokubulela; ubonisa indlela intliziyo ephilileyo ephendula ngayo kububele. UBen wayengumfana owayeyazi le nto. Khumbula lowo mzuzu apho uBen, eneminyaka elishumi elinesihlanu, waxelela abazali bakhe ukuba wayezimisele ukunikela ngayo yonke imali yasebhange yakhe encinci ukuze ancede umalume wakhe uWilliam owayehlaselwe zizifo. Akazange ayiphule loo ngulube, akazange ayikhuphule imali leyo, kodwa isipho sasingaphakathi entliziyweni yakhe: umntwana owayeselula kodwa onentliziyo enkulu eyayifuna ukunceda wonke umntu ngaphandle kokucingela yena. Oku kukunika okungenamkhawulo, oku kuthando olungaphaya kwemida yeli hlabathi. UBen wayengumntwana owayephila ngokubulela, owayesazi ukuba yonke into ayinikwayo yayisisipho esivela kuThixo.

Ryan, mfowethu okhoyo apha, ndifuna uthathe oku nawe. UBen akakushiye. Ukhona ecaleni kwakho, eqhubeka ekusebenza njengesikhokelo sothando. UBen wayengumfana owayenenqgondo enkulu yezibalo nolwazi, kodwa ikratshi lakhe elikhulu kwakuwukuba ngumntwana omhle owayehlonipha abazali bakhe. UBen uya kuhlala ekukhuthaza, nangona ungamboni ngamehlo, kodwa uya kumva entliziyweni yakho. Uthando lwenu njengabazalwana luyinto engunaphakade. Xa uziva usodwa, khumbula ukuba uBen ukhona, uyaqhubeka, kwaye uya kuhlala ephila kuthando lukaThixo olungapheliyo. UBen akakho nje kwimbali yenu; ukwikhona apho uThixo enza khona yonke into ibe ntsha.

Masithathe oku namhlanje: uBen wasishiya isipho sothando olungapheliyo. Kwisikhumbuzo sesidlo sasezulwini, lapho indlu kaThixo izele khona ngabantu abavela kude nakufi, masime nathi namhlanje siqinisekile ukuba ubomi bukaBen abuphelanga ethuneni. Usemthekweni wasezulwini, apho i-'con chim airlines' yakhe ibhabha ngokuphakamileyo phambi kobuso bukaThixo. Hamba ke namhlanje uphumle, uthembe ukuba uThixo uyakuthanda, kwaye uBen ulinda wena ngoncumo lwakhe oluqhelekileyo. Uthando lwakho, Ben, lusaqhubeka luhamba emhlabeni, lusaqhubeka lukhanya, kwaye lusaqhubeka lukhumbuza wonke umntu okwaziyo ukuba uThixo uyamthanda umntwana wakhe ngaphezu kwayo yonke into. Hlalani neli themba. Hlalani nolu thando. UBen ukhona, uyaqhubeka, kwaye uya kuhlala ephila kuthando lukaThixo olungapheliyo. Amen.

Ukuzindla
♪ “Ubuhle Bendalo (Version A)” — A song for Ben
Izicelo

For the intentions entrusted to Ben on our prayer wall:

“Nha Trang, mhlaka 31/10/2026, uMinh ucabanga kakhulu ngawe, Ben. Ngiyakukhumbula futhi ngiyakuthanda!!!”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Heyi Ben - mina nawe siyakukhumbula kakhulu. Ngikubone izikhathi ezimbalwa emaphusheni ami emasontweni adlule! Woza uzosibingelela nsuku zonke kulungile?” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ngicabanga ngawe mngane wami! Dlula uzosho sawubona noma nini lapho ungakwazi khona, kulungile? Ngiyakuthanda Ben”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Hheyi Ben - Bengikuphupha kakhulu. Ngethemba ukuthi uyazijabulisa laphaya ezulwini. Sicela usibhekele umndeni wethu. Khumbula ukuza uzosibingelela nsuku zonke. Sikukhumbula kakhulu!” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, ebuthongweni uHuy ukubonile uza kumvakashela, kukunika umthandazo wokuba niphinde nitholane. Kwangathi uNkulunkulu angawamukela umthandazo wakho, uBen ajabulele ukuthula okuphakade eceleni kukaNkulunkulu. Uma kungenzeka, sicela uphinde uze ungivakashele emaphuphweni alandelayo, noma kungaba nje ukubingelela noma ukumamatheka okumnandi njengakuqala.”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, mfana wami omnandi, ngikukhumbula kakhulu. Ngiyabonga ngokuvakashela mina no-Chú Chris izolo ebusuku. Uthe ukubone undiza ngenqwelomoya—ukhululekile, ujabule, futhi unamandla lapho phezulu. Lapha phansi, mina nomama wakho sikhala nsuku zonke. Ingxenye yenhliziyo yami ifile ngokuphelele ngaphandle kwakho, Ben. Sicela usiqaphe, uthandazele umama wakho, umfowenu u-Ryan, kanye nami, futhi usinike amandla okuqhubeka. Sikuthanda kuze kube phakade.” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, ebuthongweni uHuy ukubonile uza kumvakashela, kukunika umthandazo wokuba niphinde nitholane. Kwangathi uNkulunkulu angawamukela umthandazo wakho, uBen ajabulele ukuthula okuphakade eceleni kukaNkulunkulu. Uma kungenzeka, sicela uphinde uze ungivakashele emaphuphweni alandelayo, noma kungaba nje ukubingelela noma ukumamatheka okumnandi njengakuqala.”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Namuhla sekuyizinsuku eziyi-100 ungekho. Ngikukhumbula kakhulu Ben. Zizwe ukhululekile ukuza uvakashele noma nini! Sizobonana mngani! Ngikuthanda kakhulu!” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.

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Umkhuleko WeNkosi

Ngosizo loMsindisi futhi sifundiswe yimfundiso yaphezulu, silokotha sithi:

Baba wethu osezulwini, malingcweliswe igama lakho; umbuso wakho mawuze, intando yakho mayenziwe emhlabeni njengasezulwini. Siphe namuhla isinkwa sethu semihla ngemihla, usithethelele izono zethu, njengoba nathi sibathethelela abasonayo; ungasifaki ekulingweni, kodwa usikhulule ebubini. Amen.

Ubudlelwane boMoya
Nkosi yam uYesu Kristu, ndikholwa ukuba ukhona ngokwenene kuSakramente oNgcwele. Ndikuthanda ngaphezu kwako konke, kwaye ndinqwenela ukukwamkela emphefumlweni wam. Ekubeni ndingenakukwamkela ngoku ngokwasemzimbeni, nceda uze kum ngomoya. Ndikwamkela njengokungathi sele ulapha, ndize ndimanyane nawe ngokupheleleyo. Ungaze undivumele ndahlukane nawe. Amen.
Ingoma Yokuhlanganyela
♪ “Sinkwa Sokuphila (Version A)” — A song for Ben
Isiphelo

INkosi mayisisikelele, isilondoloze ebubini, isikhokelele ebomini obungunaphakade. Amen.

✝ May almighty God bless you: the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Amen.

Ingoma Yokuvala
♪ “Sihamba Nawe (Version B - Organ & Cello)” — A song for Ben
Izinsuku Zakudala
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