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Wednesday, October 21, 2026 · in memory of Ben
Ukuzinikela okulandela iMisa — hhayi okungena esikhundleni sayo.
Isiqalo

Egameni likaYise, nelikaNyana, nelikaMoya oyiNgcwele. Makube noxolo lwenkosi yethu uYesu Kristu kunye nani nonke.

Umthandazo wenceba

Nkosi, usivele inceba. Kristu, usivele inceba. Nkosi, usivele inceba.

♪ “Nkosi Sihawukele (Organ & Cello)” — A song for Ben
Ilizwi likaThixo
Isifundo sokuqala · Efese 3:2-12
Bazalwana noodade bethu: Nivile ngokuphathwa kobabalo lukaThixo olwanikwa mna ngenxa yenu, okokuba imfihlelo yaziswa mna ngesityhilelo, njengoko ndabhalayo kancinane ngaphambili. Xa nifunda oku, nani ningaqonda ukuqonda kwam kwimfihlo kaKristu, eyayingenziwa yaziwe kubantu kwizizukulwana ezinye, njengoko ngoku ityhilelwe kubapostile bakhe abangcwele nakubaprofeti ngoMoya, okokuba iintlanga zingamahlakani azuzayo, zibe ngamalungu omzimba omnye, zibe ngamahlakani kwidinga kuKristu Yesu ngeVangeli. Ndayenziwa umphathiswa wayo le nto ngesipho sobabalo lukaThixo, olwanikwa mna ngokusebenza kwamandla akhe. Kum, owona mncinci kubo bonke abangcwele, wanikwa olu bubele, ukuba ndishumayele kwizizwe ubutyebi bukaKristu obungenakubalwa, nokukhanyisa kubo bonke ukuba yintoni na ucwangciso lwemfihlelo leyo, eyayifihlakele kwiminyaka yakudala kuThixo owadala zonke izinto, ukuze ubulumko bukaThixo obuninzi ngoku bube yinto eyaziswayo ngeBandla kubaphathi nakubagunyaziweyo basezulwini. Oku kwakungokwenjongo engunaphakade awayifezayo kuKristu Yesu iNkosi yethu, ekuye esinako kuye ukuthetha ngesibindi nokufikelela ngokuzithemba ngokukholwa kuye.
INdumiso · Isaya 12:2-3, 4bcd, 5-6
R. Niya kukha amanzi ngovuyo kwimithombo yosindiso. UThixo ngokwenene ungumsindisi wam; ndizithembile, andoyiki. Amandla am nesibindi sam yiNkosi, kwaye yiyo umsindisi wam. Ngovuyo niya kukha amanzi emthonjeni wosindiso. R. Niya kukha amanzi ngovuyo kwimithombo yosindiso. Bulelani eNkosini, nibhengeze igama layo; phakathi kweentlanga yazisani izenzo zayo, vakalisani indlela eliphakamileyo ngayo igama layo. R. Niya kukha amanzi ngovuyo kwimithombo yosindiso. Dumisani iNkosi ngenxa yempumelelo yayo ebalaseleyo; makwazeke oku emhlabeni wonke. Khwazani ngovuyo, mzi weZiyon, kuba mkhulu phakathi kwenu oyiNgcwele kaSirayeli! R. Niya kukha amanzi ngovuyo kwimithombo yosindiso.
IVangeli · Luka 12:39-48
UYesu wathi kubafundi bakhe: 'Qinisani intliziyo ngoku: ukuba umninindlu ebesazi ukuba liza kufika ngaliphi na ilixa isela, ebesayi kuhlala elindile, engayivumi indlu yakhe ukuba iqhekezwe. Nani ke hlalani nilungile, kuba ngelixa ningalicingeliyo, uNyana woMntu uya kufika.' UPetros wathi, 'Nkosi, lo mzekelo uthetha ngathi na, okanye wonke umntu?' INkosi yaphendula yathi, 'Ngubani na ke umphathi othembekileyo noqiqayo, oya kubekwa yinkosi yakhe phezu kwezicaka zayo, ukuba azinike isabelo sokutya ngexesha elililo? Unoyolo olo sicaka, esiya kuthi inkosi yakhe ifike imfumane esenza njalo. Inene, ndithi kuni, iya kumbeka phezu kwayo yonke impahla yayo. Kodwa ukuba eso sicaka sathi entliziyweni yaso, "Inkosi yam ilibazisa ukuza," saza saqalisa ukubetha izicaka namadodana, nokutya nokusela nokunxila, inkosi yeso sicaka iya kufika ngemini engalindelwanga nangelixa elingaziwayo, iya kusohlwaya kakhulu, imabele indawo kunye nabangathembekanga. Eso sicaka besisazi intando yenkosi yaso, kodwa singazilungiselelanga, singenzanga ngokwentando yayo, siya kubethwa kakhulu; kwaye eso sicaka besingayazi intando yenkosi yaso, kodwa sisenza izinto ezifaneleyo ukubethwa kakhulu, siya kubethwa kancinci. Wonke umntu onikwe lukhulu, uya kubuzwa lukhulu; nalowo ubekwe lukhulu, uya kucelwa lukhulu nangaphezulu.'
Niya kukha amanzi ngovuyo kwimithombo yosindiso.
Intshumayelo

Kukho imizuzu apho ubomi bujongeka ngathi yincwadi evulekileyo, ezele ngamanani, iikhowudi, kunye nezicwangciso zekamva. Khumbula uBenjamin Vo, umfana owayehlala phambi kwekhompyutha yakhe, edala imidlalo, efunda iinkqubo ezinzima zika-AWS, kwaye ecinga ngendlela yokwakha inkampani yakhe yeenqwelo-moya, le 'con chim airlines' awayeyithanda kakhulu. Xa uBen wayethetha ngaloo nqwelo-moya, ubuso bakhe babukhanya ngoncumo olungenakuthelekiswa nanto. Wayengumfana owayebona ngaphaya kwesikrini, ebona ububanzi behlabathi, ebona ukuba ubomi bunokubhabha kude, bunokufikelela kwiindawo ezintsha, kwaye bunokuba yinto enkulu kunokuba singayicinga apha emhlabeni.

Namhlanje, kwiNcwadi ka-Efese, uPawulos usikhumbuza ngento enkulu kakhulu. Uthi: 'Kuye, owona mncinci kubo bonke abangcwele, wanikwa olu bubele, ukuba ndishumayele kwizizwe ubutyebi bukaKristu obungenakubalwa.' Ubutyebi obungenakubalwa. UBen wayeyazi le nyaniso ngendlela yakhe ethuleyo. Khumbula ukuba wayengumfana owayenengqondo eqaqambileyo, kodwa ngaphezu kwako konke, wayenentliziyo eyayikwazi ukubona abanye. Xa wayeneminyaka elishumi nanhlanje, unina noyise bakhumbula umnqweno wakhe wokunikela ngayo yonke imali yasebhange encinci yakhe ukunceda umalume wakhe uWilliam owayehlaselwe yimivumbo. Wayengazange ayiphule loo ngulube yemali, yayingekho imfuneko yokuba ayiphule ngenxa yokuba umalume wayene-inshurensi. Kodwa loo mnikelo wangoqobo, lowo mbono womntwana owayezimiseleyo ukunikela ngako konke okwakhe ngaphandle kokubala, usixelela ukuba uBen wayenesipho esikhulu sothando olungenamiqathango.

KwiVangeli yanamhlanje, uYesu usixelela ukuba sibe 'njengezicaka ezilindele ukubuya kwenkosi yazo.' Uthi: 'Blessed is that servant whom his master on arrival finds doing so.' (Nokuba uza kumlindo wesibini okanye wesithathu, bazukile abo bakhonzi). Mamele le nyaniso: uYesu akalindi nje ukuba sikhonze, kodwa uYesu uzimisele ukusikhonza. UBen, ngoku, usebukhoneni obo, apho uYesu emkhonza ngoxolo olungunaphakade. UBen wayengumfana owayehlala elungiselele, hayi ngokoyika, kodwa ngothando. Wayengumfana owayephila ngathi uYesu uza kufika ngalo naliphi na ixesha, kwaye wayefuna ukuba xa efika, amfumane enoncumo, enothando, kwaye enentliziyo evulekileyo.

Alan, Thao, nawe Ryan mfowethu omncane, ndiyazi ukuba kule minyane minne idlulileyo ukususela ngowe-13 kuJuni 2026, iintlungu ziza ngamanye amaxesha ngendlela embi kakhulu. Kukho amandla emphefumlo aphelileyo, kukho ubusuku obude lapho ukungabikho kwesitulo sikaBen okanye ukungaphulaphuli kwakhe amabanga ayethethwa nguyise kubangela isikhewu esingazalisekiyo. Kodwa mamela le nyaniso namhlanje: uThixo akamlibalanga uBen, kwaye akakubelanga nani. Kwizinto ezenzekayo ebudeni bokugula, abazali abaninzi bazithwala ngokwabo umthwalo wokuzisola: 'Ngaba kukhona endinokukwenza ngcono? Ngaba ndiphosile?' Mamele kakuhle, Alan noThao: uThixo akakubeki icala. UBen akakubeki icala. Ezo zifo aziziswanga zizinto owazenzayo okanye ongazenzanga. Kweli hlabathi, kukho izinto ezenzeka ngaphandle kolawulo lomntu, ngaphandle kwempazamo yomzali. Awuphosanga nto. Uthando lwakho lwalucocekile, lwaluphelele, kwaye uBen wayesazi ukuba unothando olungaka kubazali bakhe nakuRyan. Khipha elo litye lokuzisola ezintliziyweni zenu namhlanje. UBen akajongi iziphoso; ujonge phezulu kuThixo, kwaye uqhubeka esithi kuwe: 'Ba, Mama, musani ukukhala kakhulu, ndikhuselekile.'

Ryan, mfowethu omncane, ndiyazi ukuba ukhumbula uBen kakhulu. Xa ucinga ngemidlalo yenu, ngale roller coaster enayikhwela ngeziganeko ezimnandi, yazi ukuba uBen akakushiye. Ukhona ecaleni kwakho, eqhubeka ekusebenza njengesikhokelo sothando. UBen wayengumfana owayenenqgondo enkulu yezibalo ne-AI, kodwa ikratshi lakhe elikhulu kwakuwukuba ngumntwana omhle owayehlonipha abazali bakhe. UBen uya kuhlala ekukhuthaza, nangona ungamboni ngamehlo, kodwa uya kumva entliziyweni yakho. Uthando lwenu njengabazalwana luyinto engunaphakade.

Masithathe oku namhlanje: uBen wasishiya isipho sothando esingapheliyo. Kwisikhumbuzo sabangcwele abasifundisa ukuba nibe nesibindi sokuma ngenxa kaKristu, masime nathi namhlanje siqinisekile ukuba ubomi bukaBen abuphelanga ethuneni. Usemthekweni wasezulwini, apho i-'con chim airlines' yakhe ibhabha ngokuphakamileyo phambi kobuso bukaThixo. Hamba ke namhlanje uphumle, uthembe ukuba uThixo uyakuthanda, kwaye uBen ulinda wena ngoncumo lwakhe oluqhelekileyo. UBen akakho nje kwimbali yenu; ukwikhona apho uThixo enza khona yonke into ibe ntsha. Uthando lwakho, Ben, lusaqhubeka luhamba emhlabeni, lusaqhubeka lukhanya, kwaye lusaqhubeka lukhumbuza wonke umntu okwaziyo ukuba uThixo uyamthanda umntwana wakhe ngaphezu kwayo yonke into. Hlalani neli themba. Hlalani nolu thando. UBen ukhona, uyaqhubeka, kwaye uya kuhlala ephila kuthando lukaThixo olungapheliyo. Amen.

Ukuzindla
♪ “Ubuhle Bendalo (Version A)” — A song for Ben
Izicelo

For the intentions entrusted to Ben on our prayer wall:

“Hheyi Ben - Bengikuphupha kakhulu. Ngethemba ukuthi uyazijabulisa laphaya ezulwini. Sicela usibhekele umndeni wethu. Khumbula ukuza uzosibingelela nsuku zonke. Sikukhumbula kakhulu!” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, ebuthongweni uHuy ukubonile uza kumvakashela, kukunika umthandazo wokuba niphinde nitholane. Kwangathi uNkulunkulu angawamukela umthandazo wakho, uBen ajabulele ukuthula okuphakade eceleni kukaNkulunkulu. Uma kungenzeka, sicela uphinde uze ungivakashele emaphuphweni alandelayo, noma kungaba nje ukubingelela noma ukumamatheka okumnandi njengakuqala.”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, mfana wami omnandi, ngikukhumbula kakhulu. Ngiyabonga ngokuvakashela mina no-Chú Chris izolo ebusuku. Uthe ukubone undiza ngenqwelomoya—ukhululekile, ujabule, futhi unamandla lapho phezulu. Lapha phansi, mina nomama wakho sikhala nsuku zonke. Ingxenye yenhliziyo yami ifile ngokuphelele ngaphandle kwakho, Ben. Sicela usiqaphe, uthandazele umama wakho, umfowenu u-Ryan, kanye nami, futhi usinike amandla okuqhubeka. Sikuthanda kuze kube phakade.” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, ebuthongweni uHuy ukubonile uza kumvakashela, kukunika umthandazo wokuba niphinde nitholane. Kwangathi uNkulunkulu angawamukela umthandazo wakho, uBen ajabulele ukuthula okuphakade eceleni kukaNkulunkulu. Uma kungenzeka, sicela uphinde uze ungivakashele emaphuphweni alandelayo, noma kungaba nje ukubingelela noma ukumamatheka okumnandi njengakuqala.”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Namuhla sekuyizinsuku eziyi-100 ungekho. Ngikukhumbula kakhulu Ben. Zizwe ukhululekile ukuza uvakashele noma nini! Sizobonana mngani! Ngikuthanda kakhulu!” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, namuhla u-M uye e-Cam Ranh ukuyolungisa amaphepha, wadlula e-Cam Ranh Airport. Khona manjalo izingxoxo ngezindiza zika-Ben zabuya emqondweni, ngikhumbula izinkumbulo eziningi ngo-Ben (u-M uzozigcina ziyimfihlo kakaka). Ganyane elincane, ukucabanga ngawe kungenza ngiphatheke kabi kakhulu. Hamba uye ezindaweni u-Ben afuna ukuya kuzo futhi ungakhohlwa ukuhlale ukhumbula umndeni wakithi, ngikuthanda kakhulu mfowethu. Sengathi... !!!!!!!!!”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Kwenzekeni ndodana yami? Sekudlule izinyanga ezintathu wasishiya. Ngikukhumbula kakhulu umzimba wami wonke ubuhlungu. Umama uyakhala nsuku zonke manje... Sizokwenzenjani manje Ben? Sicela usikhulekele.” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“We Ben, uRafael Rizzo nomfowabo omncane uBen baludinga ngempela usizo lwakho njengamanje. Sicela ubabusise ngempilo enhle futhi ubanike amandla okudlula kulokhu ndawonye. Sicela ugade nempilo kaBrandon noFlor futhi. Ngikukhumbula kakhulu impela. Ngiyazi ukuthi uphezulu ezulwini usigadile sonke. Noma nini lapho ukwazi khona, udlule uzosivakashela, angithi? Ngiyakuthanda futhi ngikukhumbula kakhulu!” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.

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Umkhuleko WeNkosi

Ngosizo loMsindisi futhi sifundiswe yimfundiso yaphezulu, silokotha sithi:

Baba wethu osezulwini, malingcweliswe igama lakho; umbuso wakho mawuze, intando yakho mayenziwe emhlabeni njengasezulwini. Siphe namuhla isinkwa sethu semihla ngemihla, usithethelele izono zethu, njengoba nathi sibathethelela abasonayo; ungasifaki ekulingweni, kodwa usikhulule ebubini. Amen.

Ubudlelwane boMoya
Nkosi yam uYesu, ndiyakholwa ukuba ukhona kwesi Sakramente soBungcwele. Ndiyakuthanda ngaphezu kwako konke, kwaye ndinqwenela ukukwamkela emphefumlweni wam. Ekubeni ndingenako ngoku ukukwamkela kwiSakramente, nceda uze kum ngokomoya entliziyweni yam. Ndiyakwamkela njengokungathi sele ulapha, kwaye ndizimanya nawe ngokupheleleyo. Ungaze undivumele ndahlukane nawe. Amen.
Ingoma Yokuhlanganyela
♪ “Sinkwa Sokuphila (Version A)” — A song for Ben
Isiphelo

Ngamana uThixo onamandla onke angasithamsanqelisa, asigcine kuxolo lwakhe, kwaye asikhokele kwiindlela zakhe. Amen.

✝ May almighty God bless you: the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Amen.

Ingoma Yokuvala
♪ “Sihamba Nawe (Version B - Organ & Cello)” — A song for Ben
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