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Friday, October 16, 2026 · in memory of Ben
Ukuzinikela okulandela iMisa — hhayi okungena esikhundleni sayo.
Ukuvulwa

Egameni likaYise, neloNyana, neloMoya oyiNgcwele. Amen. UYesu Kristu, owasithandayo waza wasikhulula ezonweni zethu, makabe nani nonke.

Isicelo soxolo

Nkosi, hamba nathi kule ndlela yosizi. (Nkosi, sicelele inceba.) Kristu, wena ungumthombo wethemba lethu. (Kristu, sicelele inceba.) Nkosi, wena uyamazi umntu ngamnye ngamagama. (Nkosi, sicelele inceba.)

♪ “Nkosi Sihawukele (Organ & Cello)” — A song for Ben
Ilizwi likaThixo
Isifundo sokuqala · Ephesians 1:11-14
Bazalwana noodade bethu: Kuye uKristu senziwa ilifa, simiselwe ngokokuthanda kukaThixo, owenza yonke into ngokwecebo lakhe, ukuze sibe ludumo lozuko lwakhe, thina ebesithembe uKristu kuqala. Kuye nani, enivile ilizwi lenyaniso, iVangeli yosindiso lwenu, naza nakholwa kuye, natywinwa ngoMoya oyiNgcwele othenjisiweyo, ongumqondiso welifa lethu lokuqala, de kufike ukukhululwa kwabantu bakaThixo, kube ludumo lozuko lwakhe.
Indumiso · Psalm 33:1-2, 4-5, 12-13
R. Ndinoyolo isizwe esinyulwe nguYehova ukuba sibe lilifa lakhe. Thokozani nina balungileyo ngenxa kaYehova; ukudunyiswa kufanelekile kwabanentliziyo ethe tye. Dumisani uYehova ngohadi; mbethe ngoluhadi lweentambo ezilishumi. R. Ndinoyolo isizwe esinyulwe nguYehova ukuba sibe lilifa lakhe. Kuba lilungile ilizwi likaYehova, kwaye yonke imisebenzi yakhe ithembekile. Uthanda ubulungisa nokulunga; umhlaba uzaliswe luthando lukaYehova. R. Ndinoyolo isizwe esinyulwe nguYehova ukuba sibe lilifa lakhe. Inoyolo intlanga enoYehova njengoThixo wayo, abantu abanyulelwe ukuba babe lilifa lakhe. UYehova ukhangele phantsi esuka ezulwini; uyabona bonke abantu. R. Ndinoyolo isizwe esinyulwe nguYehova ukuba sibe lilifa lakhe.
IVangeli · Luke 12:1-7
Ngelo xesha: Isihlwele esikhulu sasibuthene, kangangokuba babenyathelana. UYesu waqala ukuthetha kubafundi bakhe, wathi: 'Qaphelani igwele, elikukuzenzisa kwabaFarisi. Akukho nto ifihlakeleyo engezuvezwa, nento efihliweyo engezuaziwa. Ngoko ke konke enikuthethileyo ebumnyameni kuya kuviwa ekukhanyeni, nento eniyisebeze ngasemva kweengcango ezivaliweyo iya kumenyezelwa phezu kwezindlu. Ndithi kuni, bahlobo bam, musani ukuboyika abo babulala umzimba, kodwa emva koko bengenako ukwenza nto yimbi. Ndiza kunibonisa lowo nimoyikayo. Moyikeni lowo unamandla okubulala nokuphosa eGehena; ewe, ndithi kuni, moyikeni lowo. Akuthengiswa ntiyaka zintlanu ngemali encinci? Noko ke akukho nanye kubo elityalwe nguThixo. Kwanenwele zentloko yenu zibalwe zonke. Musani ukoyika. Nixabiseke ngaphezu kwentaka ezininzi.'
Ndinoyolo isizwe esinyulwe nguYehova ukuba sibe lilifa lakhe.
Intshumayelo

Kukho imizuzu apho ubomi bubonakala ngathi buphila ngesantya esikhawulezayo, apho izinto esizithandayo, izicwangciso zethu, kunye neminqweno yethu ibonakala ikwindawo enye. Cinga ngaloo mzuzu xa uBenjamin Vo wayehlala phantsi, ejonge iimephu zeenqwelo-moya, okanye esenza ikhowudi yomdlalo wakhe kwikhompyutha yakhe. Wayengumfana owayenomdla ongapheliyo, esakha ikamva lakhe ngengqondo eqaqambileyo eyayikwazi ukubona ngaphaya kwento ebonwa ngamehlo. Wayethanda ukucacisa ngale ‘con chim airlines’ yakhe, ebonisa ukuba intliziyo yakhe yayingeyiyo nje eyobuchwephesha, kodwa eyayizaliswe lithemba elikhulu. UBen wayeyindoda encinci eyayikwazi ukuzibona iindiza zayo zibhabha ngaphaya kwamafu, njengokuba wayesoloko ecinga ngekamva elizele luvuyo.

Namhlanje, kwiNcwadi ka-Efese, uPawulos usikhumbuza inyaniso enzulu: 'In Christ we were also chosen, destined in accord with the purpose of the One who accomplishes all things.' (Kuye uKristu, senziwa ilifa, simiselwe ngokokuthanda kukaThixo). Le nyaniso isikhumbuza ukuba uBen, nangona iminyaka yakhe yayimfutshane, wayengowakhe uThixo ngaphambi kokuba umhlaba ubekho. Wayengumntwana owayephila ngoxolo lukaKristu. Wayengumfana owayephulaphula, owayenika, owayezama ukwenza uthando lube yinto ebonakalayo.

KwiVangeli yanamhlanje kaLuka, uYesu uthi: 'Are not five sparrows sold for two small coins? Yet not one of them has escaped the notice of God. Even the hairs of your head have all been counted.' (Akukho nanye kubo elityalwe nguThixo). Lo mfanekiso weentaka ezincinci usixelela ukuba uThixo akajongi nje imihlaba okanye iinkwenkwezi; Ujonge umntu ngamnye. Ujonge wena, Alan. Ujonge wena, Thao. Ujonge wena, Ryan. Xa ucinga ngaloo mboniso kaBen esesemncinci, xa wayecinga ngokunika yonke imali yasebhange encinci yakhe ukuba incede umalume wakhe uWilliam, uyaqonda ukuba uThixo wayemazi uBen ngaphakathi nasezintliziyweni zakhe. Wayengazange ayiphule loo ngulube yemali, yayisengcamango yentliziyo yakhe emsulwa, kodwa loo nqaku lokuba umntwana omncane kangaka abe nomnqweno wokunikela ngayo yonke into yakhe ngaphandle kokubala kuyasityhilela ukuba intliziyo kaBen yayingenabuzoweni, yayizaliswe luthando olunyulu lukaThixo.

Masimi apha ixesha elincinci… Masicinge ngendlela ubomi bukaBen obabuzaliswe ngayo kukukhanya. Wayengumfana owayethanda ukuhleka, owayejonga uyise ngamehlo okumncoma, owayeyazi ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuba ngumntu owabelana ngovuyo nabanye. Wayengumntwana owayenovelwano olukhulu. Kwaye namhlanje, ndifuna ukuthetha nawe Alan, nawe Thao, nawe Ryan mfowethu omncane, ngendlela enyanisekileyo. Ndiyazi ukuba umthwalo wosizi uyamfulathela umntu ebusuku. Kukho imibuzo eza ithi, 'Kutheni?' Kukho amaxesha apho uzibuza ukuba ngaba kukhona na eninokukwenza ngcono. Ndifuna ukuba uphulaphule inyaniso kaThixo namhlanje, kwaye uyivule intliziyo yakho: akukho nqaku lokuthi uphosile okanye wenze kakubi. Ukugula akwanga kwenzeka ngenxa yezinto owazenzayo okanye ongazenzanga. UThixo akakubeki icala, kwaye noBen akakubeki icala kwaphelela. Masikhuphe lo mthwalo wokuzisola emajukujukwini eentliziyo zenu namhlanje. Awuphosanga nto. Ubenze konke okusemandleni enu ngothando olungapheliyo. Ezinye izinto kulo mhlaba zenzeka ngaphandle kolawulo lwethu, ngaphandle kokuba nabani na enze impazamo. Niyinyaniso, nithandwa nguThixo ngokupheleleyo.

UYesu uthi: 'Do not be afraid. You are worth more than many sparrows.' (Musani ukoyika). Eli lizwi aliyomthetho, liyisithembiso. UBen akalahlekanga; usebukhoneni obukhulu boMthombo wothando. Uthi xa ucinga ngaye, ucinga ngaloo ntwana enemfesane, umfana owayephethe ukukhanya okukhulu kangaka. UBen ukhangele phantsi kuwe Ryan, kwaye akakushiye. Xa udlala okanye ucinga ngekamva, yazi ukuba uBen ukuthembile, ukuthandile, kwaye usakuthanda kakhulu. Hamba ke namhlanje ukhululekile emthwalweni wokuzisola. Bamba isandla sikaYesu, uthembe ukuba uYisease usezintliziyweni zenu, kwaye uBen ulala ngokuthula ekhanyeni likaThixo, esikhangela sonke ngovuyo olungunaphakade. UBen usafundisa, usafunda, kwaye usathanda. Ubumsulwa bakhe, uthando lwakhe, kunye nalo mbono wakhe we-'con chim airlines'—zonke ezi zinto zihlala zikhanya phambi koThixo. UBen akakho nje kwimbali yenu; ukwikhona apho uThixo enza khona yonke into ibe ntsha. Uthando lwakho, Ben, lusaqhubeka luhamba emhlabeni, lusaqhubeka lukhanya, kwaye lusaqhubeka lukhumbuza wonke umntu okwaziyo ukuba uThixo uyamthanda umntwana wakhe ngaphezu kwayo yonke into. Hlalani neli themba. Hlalani nolu thando. UBen ukhona, uyaqhubeka, kwaye uya kuhlala ephila kuthando lukaThixo olungapheliyo. Amen.

Ukuzindla
♪ “Ubuhle Bendalo (Version A)” — A song for Ben
Izicelo

For the intentions entrusted to Ben on our prayer wall:

“Ben, ebuthongweni uHuy ukubonile uza kumvakashela, kukunika umthandazo wokuba niphinde nitholane. Kwangathi uNkulunkulu angawamukela umthandazo wakho, uBen ajabulele ukuthula okuphakade eceleni kukaNkulunkulu. Uma kungenzeka, sicela uphinde uze ungivakashele emaphuphweni alandelayo, noma kungaba nje ukubingelela noma ukumamatheka okumnandi njengakuqala.”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, mfana wami omnandi, ngikukhumbula kakhulu. Ngiyabonga ngokuvakashela mina no-Chú Chris izolo ebusuku. Uthe ukubone undiza ngenqwelomoya—ukhululekile, ujabule, futhi unamandla lapho phezulu. Lapha phansi, mina nomama wakho sikhala nsuku zonke. Ingxenye yenhliziyo yami ifile ngokuphelele ngaphandle kwakho, Ben. Sicela usiqaphe, uthandazele umama wakho, umfowenu u-Ryan, kanye nami, futhi usinike amandla okuqhubeka. Sikuthanda kuze kube phakade.” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, ebuthongweni uHuy ukubonile uza kumvakashela, kukunika umthandazo wokuba niphinde nitholane. Kwangathi uNkulunkulu angawamukela umthandazo wakho, uBen ajabulele ukuthula okuphakade eceleni kukaNkulunkulu. Uma kungenzeka, sicela uphinde uze ungivakashele emaphuphweni alandelayo, noma kungaba nje ukubingelela noma ukumamatheka okumnandi njengakuqala.”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Namuhla sekuyizinsuku eziyi-100 ungekho. Ngikukhumbula kakhulu Ben. Zizwe ukhululekile ukuza uvakashele noma nini! Sizobonana mngani! Ngikuthanda kakhulu!” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, namuhla u-M uye e-Cam Ranh ukuyolungisa amaphepha, wadlula e-Cam Ranh Airport. Khona manjalo izingxoxo ngezindiza zika-Ben zabuya emqondweni, ngikhumbula izinkumbulo eziningi ngo-Ben (u-M uzozigcina ziyimfihlo kakaka). Ganyane elincane, ukucabanga ngawe kungenza ngiphatheke kabi kakhulu. Hamba uye ezindaweni u-Ben afuna ukuya kuzo futhi ungakhohlwa ukuhlale ukhumbula umndeni wakithi, ngikuthanda kakhulu mfowethu. Sengathi... !!!!!!!!!”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Kwenzekeni ndodana yami? Sekudlule izinyanga ezintathu wasishiya. Ngikukhumbula kakhulu umzimba wami wonke ubuhlungu. Umama uyakhala nsuku zonke manje... Sizokwenzenjani manje Ben? Sicela usikhulekele.” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“We Ben, uRafael Rizzo nomfowabo omncane uBen baludinga ngempela usizo lwakho njengamanje. Sicela ubabusise ngempilo enhle futhi ubanike amandla okudlula kulokhu ndawonye. Sicela ugade nempilo kaBrandon noFlor futhi. Ngikukhumbula kakhulu impela. Ngiyazi ukuthi uphezulu ezulwini usigadile sonke. Noma nini lapho ukwazi khona, udlule uzosivakashela, angithi? Ngiyakuthanda futhi ngikukhumbula kakhulu!” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Hhey Ben - Ngikukhumbula kakhulu. Ngikhale usuku lonke izolo, ngithemba ukuthi namuhla kuzoba ngcono. Sicela uhole umndeni wakithi kulobu buhlungu... Kukhona umfana oneminyaka engu-14 osanda kuhamba emhlabeni ngo-August 12... Igama lakhe ngu-Phero Aden Vo - mfune, mhlawumbe ningaba abangani... Sicela usithandazele mina nomama ukuze sibe nempilo enhle namandla. Ngiyakuthanda futhi ngiyakukhumbula Ben” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.

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Umkhuleko WeNkosi

Ngosizo loMsindisi futhi sifundiswe yimfundiso yaphezulu, silokotha sithi:

Baba wethu osezulwini, malingcweliswe igama lakho; umbuso wakho mawuze, intando yakho mayenziwe emhlabeni njengasezulwini. Siphe namuhla isinkwa sethu semihla ngemihla, usithethelele izono zethu, njengoba nathi sibathethelela abasonayo; ungasifaki ekulingweni, kodwa usikhulule ebubini. Amen.

Ubudlelwane boMoya
Yesu wam, ndiyakholwa ukuba ukhona kwiSakramente eliNgcwele. Ndiyakuthanda ngaphezu kwayo yonke into, kwaye ndinqwenela ukukwamkela emphefumlweni wam. Ekubeni ndingenako ngoku ukukwamkela kwiSakramente, nceda uze kum ngomoya nangothando. Ndikwamkela njengokuba ukhona, kwaye ndizibophelela kuwe ngokupheleleyo. Ungaze undivumele ndahluke kuwe. Amen.
Ingoma Yokuhlanganyela
♪ “Sinkwa Sokuphila (Version A)” — A song for Ben
Isiphelo

Ngamana uThixo onamandla onke angasigcina ngoxolo lwakhe, kwaye uBen angasikhumbuza ngalo lonke ixesha ukuba sithandwa nguThixo. Amen.

✝ May almighty God bless you: the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Amen.

Ingoma Yokuvala
♪ “Sihamba Nawe (Version B - Organ & Cello)” — A song for Ben
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