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Wednesday, October 14, 2026 · in memory of Ben
Ukuzinikela okulandela iMisa — hhayi okungena esikhundleni sayo.
Ukuvula

Igama likaThixo uSomandla, uYise, uNyana, noMoya Oyingcwele libe nawe. Makube uxolo lukaKristu lube nani nonke enibuthene apha namhlanje ukuba siphefumle elizwini lakhe.

Uxolo

Nkosi, yiba nenceba kuthi. Kristu, yiba nenceba kuthi. Nkosi, yiba nenceba kuthi.

♪ “Nkosi Sihawukele (Organ & Cello)” — A song for Ben
Lizwi
Isifundo sokuqala · Galati 5:18-25
Bazalwana: Ukuba nikhokelwa nguMoya, aniphantsi komthetho. Kaloku imisebenzi yenyama iyabonakala, eyileyo: ukuba ngamanxila, ukungcola, ukuzibandakanya kwizinto ezimbi, unqulo lwezithombe, ubuvakalisi, intiyo, ukulwa, umona, ukucaphuka, ubugovu, ukwahlukana, amaqela, umona, ukuphuza kakhulu, imibhiyozo emibi, enjenjalo. Ndiyanixwayisa, njengoko ndanixwayisa ngaphambili, ukuba abo benza ezi zinto abayi kuyidla ilifa uBukumkani bukaThixo. Ngokwahlukileyo koko, iziqhamo zoMoya luthando, uvuyo, uxolo, ukunyamezela, ububele, ukuba nobubele, ukuthembeka, ubulali, ukuzibamba. Asikho isohlwayo esichasene nezi zinto. Kaloku abo bangabakaKristu Yesu bayibethelele inyama yabo neminqweno yayo. Ukuba siphila ngoMoya, masilandele uMoya.
INdumiso · I Ndumiso 1:1-2, 3, 4, 6
R. Abo bakulandelayo, Nkosi, baya kuba nokukhanya kobomi. Ubusisekile umntu ongahambiyo ngeluleko labangendawo, ongemi endleleni yezoni, ongahlali kwindibano yabaswela intlonipho, Onyenyela emthethweni kaNELIKA olungiselela umthetho wakhe imini nobusuku. R. Abo bakulandelayo, Nkosi, baya kuba nokukhanya kobomi. Unjengomthi otyalwe kufutshane namanzi abhabhabhayo, Ovelisa iziqhamo zawo ngexesha lawo, aqabane lawo angaze abune. Konke akwenzayo kuyaphumelela. R. Abo bakulandelayo, Nkosi, baya kuba nokukhanya kobomi. Akunjalo kwabangendawo, akunjalo; banjengomoya oqhubela kude uthuli. Kuba uNELIKA uyalinda indlela yabalungisa, kanti indlela yabangendawo iyatshabalala. R. Abo bakulandelayo, Nkosi, baya kuba nokukhanya kobomi.
IVangeli · Luka 11:42-46
Nkosi yathi: “Yeha nina baFarisi! Nihlawula amashumi eziqholo zezityalo zonke zentsimi, kanti anikhathali ngobulungisa nothando lukaThixo. Kwakuqale kwafuneka nenze ezi zinto, ningashiyanga nezinye. Yeha nina baFarisi! Nithanda izihlalo eziphezulu ezindlwini zesikhungo nemibuliso ezintengweni. Yeha nina! Ninje ngamangcwaba angabonwayo abantu abahamba ngawo bengazi.” Kaza kwabakho omnye wabachazi bomthetho owaphendula wathi: “Mfundisi, ngala mazwi usinyembela nathi.” Yathi yona: “Yeha nani bachazi bomthetho! Nibhokoxa abantu ngemithwalo enzima ukuyithwala, kanti nina aniyichukumisi nangenxa yomnwe wenu.”
Abo bakulandelayo, Nkosi, baya kuba nokukhanya kobomi.
Isifundo

Kukho umzuzu ongasemva kwemini apho ilanga liqala ukuzika, kwaye imithunzi emide iqala ukuthabathela indawo ukukhanya kwemini. Kule ngokuhlwa, xa ujonge efestiteleni, ubona nje izinto ezijikelezileyo zithula, kwaye indlu ibonakala inzima kakhulu kunokuba yayinjalo kusasa. Ucinga ngaloo mboniso omnandi womntwana wakho, uBenjamin, xa wayehleli etafileni yakhe ebusuku, ejonge iincwadi zezibalo okanye ephendla iimephu zeenqwelo-moya, enomdla wokwazi yonke into eyenzekayo kweli hlabathi. Wayengumfana owayengonwabisi nje ngobuchule bakhe, kodwa ngenxa yokuba intliziyo yakhe yayizele kukuqonda okukhulu nothando olungazenzisiyo. Namhlanje, kwiNcwadi kaGalati, uPawulos usibeka phambi kwento enzulu kakhulu: 'Inqaku lokuqala lilelokuba, ukuba siyakhokelwa nguMoya, asiphantsi komthetho.' Uqhuba athi iziqhamo zoMoya luthando, uvuyo, uxolo, ukunyamezela, ububele, ukuba nobubele, ukuthembeka, nobulali. Apha, umpostile akathethi nje ngezinto zangaphandle; uthetha ngendlela intliziyo yethu eboshwa ngayo kukuzama ukulawula zonke iingozi, kukuzama ukuba yiyo yonke into kubantu abasithandayo ukuze kungabikho nto imbi eyenzekayo. Nisenze konke okusemandleni enu, Alan noThao. Nizanile ngothando olungenamiqathango, olunzulu, olungazigciniyo nto. Kodwa ihlabathi linamendu alo, kwaye zintlungu eziqhekeza imiphefumlo yethu ngendlela esingayiqondiyo.

KwiVangeli yanamhlanje kaLuka, uYesu ukhankanya amazwi abuhlungu kakhulu kubafundi bomthetho nabaFarisi. Uthi: 'Nimisa imithwalo kubantu ekunzima ukuyithwala, kwaye nina aniyichukumisi nangenxa yomnwe wenu.' Lo mfanekiso womthwalo onzima usikhumbuza ubunzima bokuba ngumntu phantsi kweli hlabathi. Ubomi buhlala busibeka imithwalo enzima kakhulu, ngakumbi xa umntu othandekayo ehamba. Kule nyanga yesine emva kokuba uBen ebuyele ekhaya kuThixo, kukho imizuzu apho umthwalo wokulahlekelwa uziva unzima kakhulu. Ucinga ngaloo mboniso kaBen esesemncinci, xa wayecinga ngokunika yonke imali yasebhange encinci yakhe ukuba incede umalume wakhe uWilliam owayehlaselwe zizifo. Akazange ayiphule loo ngulube yemali, yayisengcamango yentliziyo yakhe emsulwa, kodwa loo nqaku lokuba umntwana omncane kangaka abe nomnqweno wokunikela ngayo yonke into yakhe ngaphandle kokubala kuyasityhilela ukuba intliziyo kaBen yayingenabuzoweni, yayizaliswe luthando olunyulu lukaThixo.

Masimi apha ixesha elincinci… Masicinge ngendlela ubomi bukaBen obabuzaliswe ngayo kukukhanya. Wayengumfana owayethanda ukuhleka, owayejonga uyise ngamehlo okumncoma, owayeyazi ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuba ngumntu owabelana ngovuyo nabanye. Kwakunye nomnqweno wakhe wokwakha i-‘con chim airlines’ yakhe, eyayiziindiza zamaphupha akhe, uBen wayesixelela ukuba umphefumlo womntwana awuyeki ukubhabha. Kwaye namhlanje, ndifuna ukuthetha nawe Alan, nawe Thao, nawe Ryan mfowethu omncane, ngendlela enyanisekileyo. Ndiyazi ukuba umthwalo wosizi uyamfulathela umntu ebusuku. Kukho imibuzo eza ithi, 'Kutheni?' Kukho amaxesha apho uzibuza ukuba ngaba kukhona na eninokukwenza ngcono. Ndifuna ukuba uphulaphule inyaniso kaThixo namhlanje, kwaye uyivumele ingene nzulu entliziyweni yakho: akukho nqaku lokuthi uphosile okanye wenze kakubi. Ukugula akwanga kwenzeka ngenxa yezinto owazenzayo okanye ongazenzanga. UThixo akakubeki icala, kwaye noBen akakubeki icala kwaphelela. Masikhuphe lo mthwalo wokuzisola emajukujukwini eentliziyo zenu namhlanje. Awuphosanga nto. Ubenze konke okusemandleni enu ngothando olungapheliyo. Ezinye izinto kulo mhlaba zenzeka ngaphandle kolawulo lwethu, ngaphandle kokuba nabani na enze impazamo. Niyinyaniso, nithandwa nguThixo ngokupheleleyo.

UYesu uthi kwabo babesenza imithetho kodwa bengekho eluthandweni, 'Nibe nobulungisa nothando lukaThixo.' Ubulungisa bukaThixo asisisiqwenga somthetho esixinzelelayo; lububele obukukhululayo. UBen akalahlekanga; usebukhoneni obukhulu boMthombo wothando. Uthi xa ucinga ngaye, ucinga ngaloo ntwana enemfesane, umfana owayephethe ukukhanya okukhulu kangaka. UBen ukhangele phantsi kuwe Ryan, kwaye akakushiye. Xa udlala okanye ucinga ngekamva, yazi ukuba uBen ukuthembile, ukuthandile, kwaye usakuthanda kakhulu. Hamba ke namhlanje ukhululekile emthwalweni wokuzisola. Bamba isandla sikaYesu, uthembe ukuba uYisease usezintliziyweni zenu, kwaye uBen ulala ngokuthula ekhanyeni likaThixo, esikhangela sonke ngovuyo olungunaphakade. Amen.

Ukuzindla
♪ “Ubuhle Bendalo (Version A)” — A song for Ben
Izicelo

For the intentions entrusted to Ben on our prayer wall:

“Ben, ebuthongweni uHuy ukubonile uza kumvakashela, kukunika umthandazo wokuba niphinde nitholane. Kwangathi uNkulunkulu angawamukela umthandazo wakho, uBen ajabulele ukuthula okuphakade eceleni kukaNkulunkulu. Uma kungenzeka, sicela uphinde uze ungivakashele emaphuphweni alandelayo, noma kungaba nje ukubingelela noma ukumamatheka okumnandi njengakuqala.”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, mfana wami omnandi, ngikukhumbula kakhulu. Ngiyabonga ngokuvakashela mina no-Chú Chris izolo ebusuku. Uthe ukubone undiza ngenqwelomoya—ukhululekile, ujabule, futhi unamandla lapho phezulu. Lapha phansi, mina nomama wakho sikhala nsuku zonke. Ingxenye yenhliziyo yami ifile ngokuphelele ngaphandle kwakho, Ben. Sicela usiqaphe, uthandazele umama wakho, umfowenu u-Ryan, kanye nami, futhi usinike amandla okuqhubeka. Sikuthanda kuze kube phakade.” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, ebuthongweni uHuy ukubonile uza kumvakashela, kukunika umthandazo wokuba niphinde nitholane. Kwangathi uNkulunkulu angawamukela umthandazo wakho, uBen ajabulele ukuthula okuphakade eceleni kukaNkulunkulu. Uma kungenzeka, sicela uphinde uze ungivakashele emaphuphweni alandelayo, noma kungaba nje ukubingelela noma ukumamatheka okumnandi njengakuqala.”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Namuhla sekuyizinsuku eziyi-100 ungekho. Ngikukhumbula kakhulu Ben. Zizwe ukhululekile ukuza uvakashele noma nini! Sizobonana mngani! Ngikuthanda kakhulu!” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, namuhla u-M uye e-Cam Ranh ukuyolungisa amaphepha, wadlula e-Cam Ranh Airport. Khona manjalo izingxoxo ngezindiza zika-Ben zabuya emqondweni, ngikhumbula izinkumbulo eziningi ngo-Ben (u-M uzozigcina ziyimfihlo kakaka). Ganyane elincane, ukucabanga ngawe kungenza ngiphatheke kabi kakhulu. Hamba uye ezindaweni u-Ben afuna ukuya kuzo futhi ungakhohlwa ukuhlale ukhumbula umndeni wakithi, ngikuthanda kakhulu mfowethu. Sengathi... !!!!!!!!!”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Kwenzekeni ndodana yami? Sekudlule izinyanga ezintathu wasishiya. Ngikukhumbula kakhulu umzimba wami wonke ubuhlungu. Umama uyakhala nsuku zonke manje... Sizokwenzenjani manje Ben? Sicela usikhulekele.” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“We Ben, uRafael Rizzo nomfowabo omncane uBen baludinga ngempela usizo lwakho njengamanje. Sicela ubabusise ngempilo enhle futhi ubanike amandla okudlula kulokhu ndawonye. Sicela ugade nempilo kaBrandon noFlor futhi. Ngikukhumbula kakhulu impela. Ngiyazi ukuthi uphezulu ezulwini usigadile sonke. Noma nini lapho ukwazi khona, udlule uzosivakashela, angithi? Ngiyakuthanda futhi ngikukhumbula kakhulu!” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Hhey Ben - Ngikukhumbula kakhulu. Ngikhale usuku lonke izolo, ngithemba ukuthi namuhla kuzoba ngcono. Sicela uhole umndeni wakithi kulobu buhlungu... Kukhona umfana oneminyaka engu-14 osanda kuhamba emhlabeni ngo-August 12... Igama lakhe ngu-Phero Aden Vo - mfune, mhlawumbe ningaba abangani... Sicela usithandazele mina nomama ukuze sibe nempilo enhle namandla. Ngiyakuthanda futhi ngiyakukhumbula Ben” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.

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Umkhuleko WeNkosi

Ngosizo loMsindisi futhi sifundiswe yimfundiso yaphezulu, silokotha sithi:

Baba wethu osezulwini, malingcweliswe igama lakho; umbuso wakho mawuze, intando yakho mayenziwe emhlabeni njengasezulwini. Siphe namuhla isinkwa sethu semihla ngemihla, usithethelele izono zethu, njengoba nathi sibathethelela abasonayo; ungasifaki ekulingweni, kodwa usikhulule ebubini. Amen.

Ubudlelwane
Nkosi yam Yesu Kristu, ndiyakholwa ukuba ukho kwiSakramente eliCewele leAltare. Ndikuthanda ngaphezu kwazo zonke izinto, kwaye ndinqwenela ukuba nawe emphefumlweni wam. Njengoko ndingenako ngoku ukwamkela kwiSakramente, nceda uze emphefumlweni wam ngokomoya. Ndiyakwamkela njengokuba sele ufikile, ndizidibanisa nawe ngokupheleleyo; ungalokothi uvumele ukuba ndahlulwe nawe. Amen.
Ingoma Yokuhlanganyela
♪ “Sinkwa Sokuphila (Version A)” — A song for Ben
Isivalo

UThixo uSomandla akusikelele kwaye akugcine, akuvule la mehlo ukuba ubone ukukhanya kwakhe kuyo yonke imihla yobomi bakho. Amen.

✝ May almighty God bless you: the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Amen.

Ingoma Yokuvala
♪ “Sihamba Nawe (Version B - Organ & Cello)” — A song for Ben
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