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Saturday, September 26, 2026 · in memory of Ben
Ukuzinikela okulandela iMisa — hhayi okungena esikhundleni sayo.
Ukuvulwa

Egameni likaYise, nelikaNyana, nelikaMoya oyiNgcwele. Makube noxolo lweNkosi kunye nani nonke.

Isicelo soxolelo

Nkosi, ube nemfesane kuthi. Kristu, ube nemfesane kuthi. Nkosi, ube nemfesane kuthi.

♪ “Nkosi Sihawukele (Piano & Strings)” — A song for Ben
Ilizwi likaThixo
Isifundo sokuqala · Ecclesiastes 11:9—12:8
Thaba, mfana, kwiintsuku zobutsha bakho, intliziyo yakho mayikuvuyise kwiintsuku zobutsha bakho. Hamba ngeendlela zentliziyo yakho, nangokubona kwamehlo akho; kodwa yazi ukuba ngako konke oku, uThixo uya kukugweba. Susa usizi entliziyweni yakho, ususe ububi phambi kwakho, nangona ukusa kobutsha kudlula ngokukhawuleza. Khumbula uMdali wakho kwiintsuku zobutsha bakho, phambi kokuba iintsuku ezimbi zize, neminyaka isondele apho uya kuthi, andinavuyo kuyo; phambi kokuba ilanga libe mnyama, nenyanga, neenkwenkwezi, ngeli lixa amafu ebuyayo emva kwemvula; xa abagcini bendlu bangcangcazelayo, namadoda anamandla egobileyo, nabo bagayayo bengenanto ngenxa yokuba bembalwa, nabo bajonga ngeefestile beba ziimfama; xa iingcango zesitalato zivaliwe, nesandi sesingayo siphantsi; xa umntu elinde ukukhala kwentaka, kodwa iintombi zengoma zicinyiwe; xa umntu esoyika ukuphakama, neengozi esitalatweni; xa umthi we-almond udubula, nenkumbi isiba nobuvila, nesiqhamo se-caper singabi nampembelelo, kuba umntu esiya ekhaya lakhe laphakade, nabalili behamba ezitalatweni; phambi kokuba intambo yesilivere iqhawuke, nesitya segolide sophuke, nembiza yaphuke emthonjeni, ne-pulley eyaphukileyo iwele emthonjeni, nothuli lubuyele emhlabeni njengoko lwalunjalo, nomphefumlo ubuyele kuThixo owawunika. Izeze lezeze, utsho uQoheleth, konke kuli-zeze!
INdumiso · Psalm 90:3-4, 5-6, 12-13, 14 and 17
R. Esi thetshini nasizukulwaneni, Nkosi, ubusisikhuselo sethu. Ujika umntu abuyele eluthulini, usithi, 'Buyani, zizukulwana zabantu.' Kuba iminyaka eliwaka emehlweni akho injengezolo, ngeli lixa lidlulileyo, okanye njengomlindo wobusuku. R. Esi thetshini nasizukulwaneni, Nkosi, ubusisikhuselo sethu. Ubanika isiphelo ebuthongweni babo; ngentsasa elandelayo banjengengca etshintshayo, Ehluma ngokutsha ekuseni, kodwa ngokuhlwa iyabuna iyaphela. R. Esi thetshini nasizukulwaneni, Nkosi, ubusisikhuselo sethu. Sifundise ukubala iintsuku zethu ngokufanelekileyo, ukuze sifumane ubulumko bentliziyo. Buyela, Nkosi! Kude kube nini? Yiba nemfesane kubakhonzi bakho! R. Esi thetshini nasizukulwaneni, Nkosi, ubusisikhuselo sethu. Sisithise ngokusa ngobubele bakho, ukuze sidanduluke ngovuyo nangolwando kwiintsuku zethu zonke. Kwaye ngamana ukhathalelo lweNkosi uThixo wethu lungaba lolwethu; ube nempumelelo emsebenzini wezandla zethu kuthi! Yenza umsebenzi wezandla zethu ube nempumelelo! R. Esi thetshini nasizukulwaneni, Nkosi, ubusisikhuselo sethu.
IVangeli · Luke 9:43b-45
Ngeli lixa bonke bemangalisiwe yizenzo zakhe zonke, uYesu wathi kubafundi bakhe, 'Nikelani ingqalelo koko ndinixelela khona. UNyana woMntu uza kunikelwa ezandleni zabantu.' Kodwa abazange bakuqonde oku kuthetha; intsingiselo yoko yayifihlakele kubo ukuze bangakuqondi, kwaye babesoyika ukubuza ngale ntetho.
Esi thetshini nasizukulwaneni, Nkosi, ubusisikhuselo sethu.
Intshumayelo

Kukho umfanekiso othi cwaka, onokuthi uwubone ngeso lengqondo namhlanje. Cinga ngomntwana omncinci omi ecaleni kwesango, ebukele iindiza ezinkulu zinyuka ziye esibhakabhakeni. UBenjamin Vo wayengumfana owayethanda ukujonga phezulu. Wayengumfana owayenomdla ongenamida, umfana owayethanda ukwazi ukuba izinto zisebenza njani—ukusuka kwikhowudi yekhompyutha yakhe ukuya kwindlela ezindiza ngayo izindiza ezinkulu. Kodwa namhlanje, njengoko sijonga amazwi kaQoheleth, sikhunjuzwa ngento enzulu kakhulu: 'Khumbula uMdali wakho kwiintsuku zobutsha bakho.'

Qoheleth uthi, 'Konke kuli-zeze.' Ekuqaleni, la magama anokuziva enzima, mhlawumbi ngathi ayayicima imizamo yethu, amaphupha ethu, okanye ubomi obufutshane obufana nobukaBen. Kodwa makhe sime apha. Masithethe inyaniso. Sekuphele iinyanga ezintathu uBen esishiye. Alan noThao, ndiyazi ukuba indlu isenokuziva ithule ngendlela ebuhlungu kakhulu. Xa ucinga ngaloo mntwana owayesoloko enoncumo olukhanyisayo, owayethanda ukuhamba nehlabathi, kwaye owayesoloko ecinga ngabanye—njengaxa wayefuna ukunikela ngayo yonke imali yakhe yasebhange encinci ukuze ancede umalumele umalume wakhe uWilliam—akukho xesha lonyaka linokuzisa ukuthula ngokukhawuleza. Usizi alulandeli ikhalenda.

Ndicela uthathe lo mthwalo wokuzisola emajukujukwini eentliziyo zenu namhlanje. Akukho nqaku lokuthi uphosile okanye wenze kakubi. Ukugula akwanga kwenzeka ngenxa yezinto owazenzayo okanye ongazenzanga. UThixo akakubeki icala, kwaye noBen akakubeki icala. Masikhuphe lo mthwalo wokuzisola egxalabeni lakho. Awuphosanga nto. Ubenze konke okusemandleni enu ngothando olungapheliyo. UThixo akathumeli ukugula. Ezinye izinto zenzeka ngaphandle kolawulo lwethu, ngaphandle kokuba nabani na enze impazamo. Niyinyaniso, nithandwa nguThixo.

KwiVangeli, uYesu uthi kubafundi bakhe: 'Nikelani ingqalelo koko ndinixelela khona. UNyana woMntu uza kunikelwa ezandleni zabantu.' Abafundi babesoyika ukubuza, babengaqondi. Babesoyika intlungu, babesoyika ukulahlekelwa. Kodwa uYesu wayebalungiselela ukuba baqonde ukuba ukuhamba kwakhe kwakungelilo ukuphela, kodwa yayilindlela eya eluxolweni. UBen wayengumfana owayephila ngothando, kwaye ngoku, ubomi bakhe busikhumbuza ukuba ubomi bethu abupheleli apha emhlabeni. UBen utyalwe emhlabeni ngendlela yomzimba, kodwa uya kuvuka ngendlela yomoya—ngomzimba oqaqambileyo, onamandla, nowonwabileyo phambi koThixo.

Ryan, mfowethu omncane, uBen uyamthanda. Ungalokothi uzive ungedwa. UBen uyaqhubeka ekukhathalele. Qhubeka uphila ngesibindi, ube ngumfana owayeyiyo—onemfesane, onobubele, nonesibindi. UBen uyaqhubeka ekhanya ngomsebenzi wakhe wothando, njengaloo mthombo wamanzi eCà Mau, olethela ubomi kwabanye. Uthando lwakhe aluzange luphele; lusaqhubeka lukhanya njengolwandle olukhulu.

Nani, Alan noThao, ningayeki ukuthanda. Nithandeke kakhulu nguThixo. UBen wayengumfana onikela ngayo yonke into yakhe. Nani, nikani konke usizi lwenu kuThixo. Musani ukuzama ukuluthwala lodwa. Vumelani uYesu ukuba abe lulwalwa lwenu. Xa uziva usizi, yithi: 'Nkosi, ndiyakuthanda, kwaye ndiyakuthemba.' UBen uyaqhubeka esidumisela kuThixo. Uthando lwenu luyaqhubeka luhleli, lusaqhubeka lukhula, kwaye uBen uyaqhubeka ekhanya. Benjamin, lala ngokuthula. Uthando lwakho lulukhanya olungasoze lwavaleleka. Uthando lwakho, njengaloo mthombo wamanzi, luyaqhubeka luhleli, lusaqhubeka lukhula, kwaye luyaqhubeka lukhanyisa iindlela zethu. Khumbula ukuba uBen uyaqhubeka esidumisela kuThixo, kwaye nathi, simele siphile ngaloo ndlela—ngothando olungagciniyo, ngoxolelo olungapheliyo, nangokholo olomeleleyo. Benjamin, lala ngokuthula. Amen.

Ukuzindla
♪ “Ubuhle Bendalo (Version B)” — A song for Ben
Izicelo

For the intentions entrusted to Ben on our prayer wall:

“Ben, namuhla u-M uye e-Cam Ranh ukuyolungisa amaphepha, wadlula e-Cam Ranh Airport. Khona manjalo izingxoxo ngezindiza zika-Ben zabuya emqondweni, ngikhumbula izinkumbulo eziningi ngo-Ben (u-M uzozigcina ziyimfihlo kakaka). Ganyane elincane, ukucabanga ngawe kungenza ngiphatheke kabi kakhulu. Hamba uye ezindaweni u-Ben afuna ukuya kuzo futhi ungakhohlwa ukuhlale ukhumbula umndeni wakithi, ngikuthanda kakhulu mfowethu. Sengathi... !!!!!!!!!”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Kwenzekeni ndodana yami? Sekudlule izinyanga ezintathu wasishiya. Ngikukhumbula kakhulu umzimba wami wonke ubuhlungu. Umama uyakhala nsuku zonke manje... Sizokwenzenjani manje Ben? Sicela usikhulekele.” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“We Ben, uRafael Rizzo nomfowabo omncane uBen baludinga ngempela usizo lwakho njengamanje. Sicela ubabusise ngempilo enhle futhi ubanike amandla okudlula kulokhu ndawonye. Sicela ugade nempilo kaBrandon noFlor futhi. Ngikukhumbula kakhulu impela. Ngiyazi ukuthi uphezulu ezulwini usigadile sonke. Noma nini lapho ukwazi khona, udlule uzosivakashela, angithi? Ngiyakuthanda futhi ngikukhumbula kakhulu!” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Hhey Ben - Ngikukhumbula kakhulu. Ngikhale usuku lonke izolo, ngithemba ukuthi namuhla kuzoba ngcono. Sicela uhole umndeni wakithi kulobu buhlungu... Kukhona umfana oneminyaka engu-14 osanda kuhamba emhlabeni ngo-August 12... Igama lakhe ngu-Phero Aden Vo - mfune, mhlawumbe ningaba abangani... Sicela usithandazele mina nomama ukuze sibe nempilo enhle namandla. Ngiyakuthanda futhi ngiyakukhumbula Ben” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Sawubona Ben, u-Trustin ukuvakashele namhlanje wakushiyela amakhadi ezindiza ambalwa—siwafaka ekamelweni lakho ngenxa yakho. Sicela uthandazele u-Trustin nomndeni wakhe ukuba bahlale bephilile futhi beqinile. Yiba yingelosi elondolozayo ku-Trustin naku-Ryan njengoba beqhubeka nesikole, ubasize ubaqondise ezinyathelweni zabo kuyo yonke iminyaka ezayo.” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, ngisebenze usuku lonke kwaze kwaba sebusuku, kodwa uma sengizolala ngivele ngikukhumbule, ngikhumbule nezinto esasivame ukuxoxa ngazo. Uma ngicabanga ngawe, ngizizwa ngidabuke kakhulu. Ben, hlala usibhekile futhi usikhulekela thina kanye no-Ryan, ngoba ubuhlungu bokulahlekelwa yingane bungaphezu kwanoma yini, Ben.”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, ubaba ukukhumbula kakhulu. No-Mommy naye. Sekuphele izinyanga ezingaphezu kwezimbili kodwa ubaba nomama basakhala nsuku zonke. Sisize sidlule kulokhu, ukuze sinakekele ingane yakithi.”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, uma ungakwazi, ngicela ungivakashele emaphusheni ami, Mnumzane Minh, noma ngabe ukubingelela nje noma ukumamatheka njengoba ubujwayele ukwenza lapho uthatha izithombe. Ngikukhumbula futhi ngikufisise kakhulu.”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.

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Umkhuleko WeNkosi

Ngosizo loMsindisi futhi sifundiswe yimfundiso yaphezulu, silokotha sithi:

Baba wethu osezulwini, malingcweliswe igama lakho; umbuso wakho mawuze, intando yakho mayenziwe emhlabeni njengasezulwini. Siphe namuhla isinkwa sethu semihla ngemihla, usithethelele izono zethu, njengoba nathi sibathethelela abasonayo; ungasifaki ekulingweni, kodwa usikhulule ebubini. Amen.

Ubudlelwane boMoya
Nkosi yam, Yesu Kristu, ndiyakholwa ukuba ukhona ngenene kwiSakramente eNgcwele. Ndiyakuthanda ngaphezu kwayo yonke into, kwaye ndinqwenela ukukwamkela emphefumlweni wam. Ekubeni ndingenakukwamkela ngoku kwiSakramente, nceda uze kum ngokomoya. Ndiyamkela, njengokungathi sele ufikile, ndize ndizibophelele kuwe ngokupheleleyo. Ungaze undivumele ndahluke kuwe. Amen.
Ingoma Yokuhlanganyela
♪ “Sinkwa Sokuphila (Version B)” — A song for Ben
Isiphelo

Ngamana uthando lukaThixo, uxolo lweNkosi, kunye nobudlelwane boMoya oyiNgcwele bungahlala nani namhlanje naphakade. Amen.

✝ May almighty God bless you: the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Amen.

Ingoma Yokuvala
♪ “Sihamba Nawe (Version A - Piano & Strings)” — A song for Ben
Izinsuku Zakudala
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