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Sunday, September 13, 2026 · in memory of Ben
Ukuzinikela okulandela iMisa — hhayi okungena esikhundleni sayo.
Isivulo

Egameni likaYise, nelikaNyana, nelikaMoya oyiNgcwele. Makube noxolo lweNkosi yethu uYesu Kristu, uthando lukaThixo uYise, kunye nomanyano loMoya oyiNgcwele kuni nonke.

Isicelo senzebe

Nkosi, ube nenceba kuthi. Kristu, ube nenceba kuthi. Nkosi, ube nenceba kuthi.

♪ “Nkosi Sihawukele (Piano & Strings)” — A song for Ben
ILizwi likaThixo
Isifundo sokuqala · Sirach 27:30—28:7
Umsindo nenzondo zizinto ezilihlazo, kodwa isoni sizigcina ngokuqinileyo. Lowo uziphindezelayo uya kufumana impindezelo yeNkosi, kuba iyakukhumbula izono zakhe ngokweenkcukacha. Xolela ummelwane wakho ngenxa yokungabikho kwesisa; ngoko xa uthandaza, izono zakho ziya kuxolelwa. Ngaba umntu angagcina inzondo ngomnye aze alindele ukuphiliswa yiNkosi? Ngaba umntu angala inceba komnye onjengaye, aze afune uxolelo lwezono zakhe? Ukuba umntu onenyama ugcina umsindo, ngubani oya kuxolela izono zakhe? Khumbula imihla yakho yokugqibela, ubeke bucala ubutshaba; khumbula ukufa nokubola, kwaye uyeke ukona! Khumbula imithetho, musa ukumthiya ummelwane wakho; khumbula umnqophiso woPhezukonke, kwaye ungawuhoyi amaphoso.
Isifundo sesibini · Romans 14:7-9
Bazalwana noodade bethu: Akukho mntu kuthi uphilela yena, kwaye akukho mntu ufela yena. Kuba ukuba siphila, siphilela iNkosi, kwaye ukuba siyafa, sifela iNkosi; ngoko ke, nokuba siphila nokuba siyafa, singabakwaNkosi. Kuba kungenxa yoko uKristu wafayo wavuka, ukuze abe yiNkosi yabafileyo neyabaphilayo.
IVangeli · Matthew 18:21-35
UPetros wasondela kuYesu wambuza, 'Nkosi, ukuba umzalwana wam undonile, ndimele ndimxolele kangaphi? Amaxesha asixhenxe?' UYesu waphendula wathi, 'Ndithi kuwe, hayi amaxesha asixhenxe, kodwa amaxesha angamashumi asixhenxe anesixhenxe.' Kungenxa yoko ubukumkani bamazulu bunokufaniswa nokumkani owagqiba ekubeni alungise iincwadi nabakhonzi bakhe. Xa waqalayo ukubala, kwaziswa umkhonzi owayemtyala imali eninzi. Ngenxa yokuba wayengenandlela yakuyihlawula, inkosi yakhe yayalela ukuba athengiswe, kunye nomfazi wakhe, abantwana bakhe, nazo zonke iimpahla zakhe, ukuhlawula ityala. Ngoko ke, umkhonzi wawa phantsi, wamkhahlela wathi, 'Yiba nomonde kum, ndiya kukuhlawula yonke into.' Enovelwano, inkosi yaloo mkhonzi yamkhulula yamxolela netyala. Xa loo mkhonzi ephumile, wafumana omnye wabakhonzi abangamaqabane akhe owayemtyala imali encinane. Wamphatha ngamandla wamkrola intamo, esithi, 'Hlawula oko ukutyalayo.' Wawa ngamadolo, umkhonzi wakhe wambongoza wathi, 'Yiba nomonde kum, ndiya kukuhlawula.' Kodwa wala. Kunoko, wamfaka entolongweni umkhonzi wakhe de ahlawule ityala. Ngoko ke, xa abanye abakhonzi babonayo okwenzekileyo, bakhathazeka kakhulu, baya kunkosi yabo bayixelela yonke loo nto. Inkosi yakhe yamema yathi kuye, 'Mkhonzi mubi! Ndikuxolele lonke ityala lakho kuba ubundibongoza. Ngaba ubungamele ube nenceba kumkhonzi wakho, njengoko ndibe nenceba kuwe?' Ngoko ke, ngomsindo, inkosi yamnikela kwizicwangciso zokungcungcuthekisa de ahlawule lonke ityala. Ngaloo ndlela uYise wasemazulwini uya kwenza kuni, ngaphandle kokuba ngamnye wenu axolele umzalwana wakhe ukusuka entliziyweni yakhe.
INkosi inobubele nenceba, iyacotha ukunqumka kwaye inobubele obukhulu.
Intshumayelo

Khumbula umfanekiso onokuthi uwubone ngamehlo engqondo: uBenjamin Vo, esemncane, ehlezi ecaleni kukayise, bejongene nekhompyutha yakhe, bechaza indlela inkqubo entsha anokuyila ngayo. Ben wayengumfana owayethanda ukuhlela, ukwakha, nokubona indlela izinto ezisebenza ngayo. Wayenomdla wokwenza izinto ezintsha, ezo 'Con Chim Airlines' zakhe ezaziphaphatheka ezingqondweni zakhe eziqaqambileyo. Kodwa ngaphezu kwayo yonke loo ntlakanipho, into eyayimenza uBen abe nguBen yayikukuthamba kwentliziyo yakhe. Khumbula umzuzu apho uBen, eseyinkwenkwana nje, wathi kubazali bakhe ufuna ukunikela ngayo yonke imali yakhe yasebhange ukuze ancede umalume wakhe uWilliam. Akazange ayaphule leyo ngulube yemali, akazange ayikhuphule, kodwa into ebalulekileyo kukuba wayenikile. Wayenikele ngayo yonke into awayenayo. Le yimveliso yentliziyo enothando olumsulwa, intliziyo eyayikwazi ukuzidela ngaphandle kokungabaza.

Namhlanje, iLizwi likaThixo lisimemela kwinto enzima kakhulu: ukuxolela. UPetros ubuza uYesu, 'Nkosi, ukuba umntu undonile, ndimele ndimxolele kangaphi?' Kwaye uYesu uphendula ngesibalo esingapheliyo. Kodwa masithathe eli xesha simise kancane. UYesu ubalisa ngomkhonzi owayenetyala elikhulu, elingenakuhlawulwa. Inkosi yathi mayixolelwe yonke loo nto. Kodwa lo mkhonzi, xa ephuma, wabamba umhlobo wakhe owawumtyala imali encinci, wamkrola intamo, wamfaka entolongweni. Le yinyani ebuhlungu. Nathi maxa wambi, siphila ngolu hlobo. Sifumana inceba kaThixo, kodwa sibambelele kwinzondo okanye kumsindo kwabanye. USirach usixelela ngokucacileyo: 'Ngaba umntu onenyama angagcina inzondo, aze alindele ukuphiliswa yiNkosi?'

Bafowethu nodadewethu, masithethe inyaniso. Sekuphele iinyanga ezintathu uBen esishiye. Iinyanga ezintathu zokuziva ukuba indlu ithule kakhulu. Alan noThao, ndiyazi ukuba usizi luyinto enzima. Niyazibuza ukuba kwenzeke ntoni. Niyazibuza ukuba kutheni lo mfana owayephila ngothando, owayephila ngobubele, kufuneka ahambe ngolu hlobo. Niyazibuza ukuba kukhona na eninokukwenza ngcono. Ndicela niphulaphule: Ukugula akulona iphutha lenu. Akukho nto eniyenze ngendlela engalunganga. UThixo akakubeki icala, kwaye noBen akakubeki icala. Susa lowo mthwalo wokuzisola egxalabeni lakho. UBen wayekuthanda kakhulu. Wayekuthanda njengoba wayekuthanda ukulalela amabali kaBawo. Wayekuthanda njengoba wayekuthanda ukuhamba nawe, Ryan, kwi-roller coaster. Uthando lwakhe lwaluphelele.

Kukho inkolelo yokuba kufuneka sibe netyala ngokuthile ukuze sibe nentlungu. Kodwa uYesu, xa ebona indoda eyayizalwe iyimfama, wathi akukho mntu wonayo, akukho mntu wenza impazamo. Ubomi buhamba ngeendlela esingazaziyo. UBen wayeyindoda encane eyayakha isiseko sayo edwaleni. Ukholo lwakhe, ububele bakhe, uthando lwakhe—konke oku kwakuyisiseko esomeleleyo. Xa isiphango sezifo size, loo ndlu ayizange iwe, kuba yayakhiwe kakuhle. UBen usekhululekile ngoku. Akasabandezeleki. Usebanquet yasezulwini, ecaleni kukaSaint Carlo Acutis, owayenomoya ofanayo nowakhe. UBen usekhaya.

Ryan, mfowethu omncane, uBen uyamthanda. Ungalokothi uzive ungedwa. UBen uyaqhubeka ekukhathalele. Qhubeka uphila ngesibindi, ube ngumfana owayeyiyo—onemfesane, onobubele, nonesibindi. UBen uyaqhubeka ekhanya ngomsebenzi wakhe wothando, njengalo mthombo wamanzi eCà Mau, olethela ubomi kwabanye. Uthando lwakhe aluzange luphele; lusaqhubeka lugeza umhlaba njengolwandle olukhulu. Nani, Alan noThao, ningayeki ukuthanda. Nithandeke kakhulu nguThixo. UBen wayengumfana onikela ngayo yonke into yakhe. Nani, nikani konke usizi lwenu kuThixo. Musani ukuzama ukuluthwala lodwa. Vumelani uYesu ukuba abe lulwalwa lwenu. Xa uziva usizi, yithi: 'Nkosi, ndiyakuthanda, kwaye ndiyakuthemba.'

Benjamin, lala ngokuthula. Uthando lwakho lulukhanya olungasoze lwavaleleka. Uthando lwakho, njengaloo mthombo wamanzi, luyaqhubeka luhleli, lusaqhubeka lukhula, kwaye luyaqhubeka lukhanyisa iindlela zethu. Khumbula ukuba uBen uyaqhubeka esidumisela kuThixo, kwaye nathi, simele siphile ngaloo ndlela—ngothando olungagciniyo, ngoxolelo olungapheliyo, nangokholo olomeleleyo. Benjamin, lala ngokuthula.

Ukuzindla
♪ “Ubuhle Bendalo (Version B)” — A song for Ben
Izicelo

For the intentions entrusted to Ben on our prayer wall:

“We Ben, uRafael Rizzo nomfowabo omncane uBen baludinga ngempela usizo lwakho njengamanje. Sicela ubabusise ngempilo enhle futhi ubanike amandla okudlula kulokhu ndawonye. Sicela ugade nempilo kaBrandon noFlor futhi. Ngikukhumbula kakhulu impela. Ngiyazi ukuthi uphezulu ezulwini usigadile sonke. Noma nini lapho ukwazi khona, udlule uzosivakashela, angithi? Ngiyakuthanda futhi ngikukhumbula kakhulu!” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Hhey Ben - Ngikukhumbula kakhulu. Ngikhale usuku lonke izolo, ngithemba ukuthi namuhla kuzoba ngcono. Sicela uhole umndeni wakithi kulobu buhlungu... Kukhona umfana oneminyaka engu-14 osanda kuhamba emhlabeni ngo-August 12... Igama lakhe ngu-Phero Aden Vo - mfune, mhlawumbe ningaba abangani... Sicela usithandazele mina nomama ukuze sibe nempilo enhle namandla. Ngiyakuthanda futhi ngiyakukhumbula Ben” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Sawubona Ben, u-Trustin ukuvakashele namhlanje wakushiyela amakhadi ezindiza ambalwa—siwafaka ekamelweni lakho ngenxa yakho. Sicela uthandazele u-Trustin nomndeni wakhe ukuba bahlale bephilile futhi beqinile. Yiba yingelosi elondolozayo ku-Trustin naku-Ryan njengoba beqhubeka nesikole, ubasize ubaqondise ezinyathelweni zabo kuyo yonke iminyaka ezayo.” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, ngisebenze usuku lonke kwaze kwaba sebusuku, kodwa uma sengizolala ngivele ngikukhumbule, ngikhumbule nezinto esasivame ukuxoxa ngazo. Uma ngicabanga ngawe, ngizizwa ngidabuke kakhulu. Ben, hlala usibhekile futhi usikhulekela thina kanye no-Ryan, ngoba ubuhlungu bokulahlekelwa yingane bungaphezu kwanoma yini, Ben.”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, ubaba ukukhumbula kakhulu. No-Mommy naye. Sekuphele izinyanga ezingaphezu kwezimbili kodwa ubaba nomama basakhala nsuku zonke. Sisize sidlule kulokhu, ukuze sinakekele ingane yakithi.”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, uma ungakwazi, ngicela ungivakashele emaphusheni ami, Mnumzane Minh, noma ngabe ukubingelela nje noma ukumamatheka njengoba ubujwayele ukwenza lapho uthatha izithombe. Ngikukhumbula futhi ngikufisise kakhulu.”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben - sidingidinga isimangaliso lapha. Siyakukhumbula kakhulu futhi asilali kakhulu. URyan ufisa ukuba ubukhona, ikakhulukazi ngoMgqibelo ozayo ukuze nidlale naye inguqulo entsha yeProject Flight.” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben othandekayo, umalume wethu uThanh useshonile. Sicela umbheke futhi uthandazele ukuthi umphefumulo wakhe uthole ukuthula. Igama lakhe lobusanta nguPhêrô. Nkosi, ngiyabonga ngokuthumela uChu Thanh empilweni yami. Ngizohlala ngibonga ngesikhathi asichitha engifundisa izibalo emuva esikoleni esiphakeme.” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.

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Umkhuleko WeNkosi

Ngosizo loMsindisi futhi sifundiswe yimfundiso yaphezulu, silokotha sithi:

Baba wethu osezulwini, malingcweliswe igama lakho; umbuso wakho mawuze, intando yakho mayenziwe emhlabeni njengasezulwini. Siphe namuhla isinkwa sethu semihla ngemihla, usithethelele izono zethu, njengoba nathi sibathethelela abasonayo; ungasifaki ekulingweni, kodwa usikhulule ebubini. Amen.

Ubudlelwane boMoya
Nkosi yam uYesu Kristu, ndiyakholwa ukuba ukhona ngenene kwiSakramente eliNgcwele. Ndiyakuthanda ngaphezu kwako konke, kwaye ndilangazelela ukukwamkela emphefumlweni wam. Ekubeni ndingenakukwamkela ngoku ngokwasemzimbeni, nceda uze emphefumlweni wam ngokomoya. Njengokuba sele ukhona, ndiyakwamkela ndize ndizidibanise nawe ngokupheleleyo. Ungaze undivumele ndahluke kuwe. Amen.
Ingoma Yokuhlanganyela
♪ “Sinkwa Sokuphila (Version B)” — A song for Ben
Isiphelo

INkosi mayisikelele, isilondoloze, kwaye isikhanyisele ngobuso bayo. Hamba noxolo lweNkosi.

✝ May almighty God bless you: the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Amen.

Ingoma Yokuvala
♪ “Sihamba Nawe (Version A - Piano & Strings)” — A song for Ben
Izinsuku Zakudala
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