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Thursday, October 22, 2026 · in memory of Ben
Ukuzinikela okulandela iMisa — hhayi okungena esikhundleni sayo.
Isivulo

Egameni likaYise, neloNyana, neloMoya oyiNgcwele. Makube noxolo lwenkosi yethu uYesu Kristu lube nani nonke.

Isicelo soxolo

Nkosi, usivele inceba. Kristu, usivele inceba. Nkosi, usivele inceba.

♪ “Nkosi Sihawukele (Organ & Cello)” — A song for Ben
Ilizwi likaThixo
Isifundo sokuqala · Ephesians 3:14-21
Bazalwana, ndiguqa phambi kukaYise, ekuthiwa ngaye zonke iintsapho ezulwini nasemhlabeni, ukuba aninike ngokobutyebi bozuko lwakhe ukuba nime ngenkani ngamandla ngoMoya wakhe kumntu waphakathi, ukuba uKristu ahlale ezintliziyweni zenu ngokukholwa; ukuze nibe neengcambu nisekelwe eluthandweni, nibe nako ukuqonda nabo bonke abangcwele ukuba liyintoni na ububanzi, nobude, nobude, nobunzulu, nokwazi uthando lukaKristu olugqithise ukwazi, ukuze nizaliswe ngako konke ukuzala kukaThixo. Ke kuye onako ukwenza ngaphezu kwako konke esikucelayo okanye esikucingayo, ngamandla asebenzayo phakathi kwethu, kuye makubekho uzuko eBandleni nakuKristu Yesu, kuzo zonke izizukulwana, kude kuse ephakadeni. Amen.
Indumiso · Psalm 33:1-2, 4-5, 11-12, 18-19
R. Umhlaba uzele bububele beNkosi. Thabangani, nina balungileyo, eNkosini; ukudunyiswa ngabathe tye kufanelekile. Bulelani eNkosini ngohadi; yimbeni iindumiso zayo ngohadi olunamalungu alishumi. R. Umhlaba uzele bububele beNkosi. Kuba ilizwi leNkosi lithe tye, kwaye yonke imisebenzi yayo ithembekile. Ithanda ubulungisa nokulunga; umhlaba uzele bububele beNkosi. R. Umhlaba uzele bububele beNkosi. Kodwa icebo leNkosi lime ngonaphakade; ukucinga kwentliziyo yayo, kuzo zonke izizukulwana. Inoyolo isizwe esinguThixo waso yiNkosi, abantu ebazikhethele ilifa layo. R. Umhlaba uzele bububele beNkosi. Kodwa amehlo eNkosi aphezu kwabo bayoyikayo, phezu kwabo banethemba ebubele bayo, ukubahlangula ekufeni nokubagcina nasezilambeni. R. Umhlaba uzele bububele beNkosi.
IVangeli · Luke 12:49-53
UYesu wathi kubafundi bakhe: 'Ndize kuwisa umlilo emhlabeni, kwaye ndinqwenela ukuba sele uvutha! Kukho ubhaptizo ekufuneka ndibhaptizwe ngalo, kwaye ndixhalabile de lufezeke! Ngaba ucinga ukuba ndize kuzisa uxolo emhlabeni? Hayi, ndithi kuni, kodwa kunoko ukwahlukana. Ukususela ngoku, indlu yabantu abahlanu iya kwahlukana, abathathu ngokuchasene nababini nababini ngokuchasene nabathathu; utata uya kwahlukana nonyana wakhe, unyana noyise, umama nentombi yakhe, intombi nonina, umamazala nomolokazana wakhe, umolokazana nomamazala wakhe.'
Umhlaba uzele bububele beNkosi.
Intshumayelo

Kukho imizuzu apho ubomi bujongeka njengendiza esemhlabeni, ilinde ukuba amaphiko ayo avuleke, ilinde umzuzu wokuba umoya ovuthuzayo uyiphakamise iye kude apho iliso lomntu lingenakufikelela khona. UBenjamin Vo wayengumfana owayeyithanda kakhulu loo mbono. Khumbula indlela awayethanda ngayo ukubukela iinqwelo-moya, indlela awayecinga ngayo nge-'con chim airlines' yakhe, encuma kwaye egigitheka xa ethetha ngalo mbono wakhe. Kwakungenguye nje umntwana odlalayo; wayeyindoda encinci eyayibona ububanzi behlabathi, eyayibona ukuba ubomi bunokubhabha kude, bunokufikelela kwiindawo ezintsha, kwaye bunokuba yinto enkulu kunokuba singayicinga apha emhlabeni. UBen wayengumfana owayephethe ukukhanya okukhulu, enqwenela ukubona izinto zihamba kakuhle kwabo bonke abamngqongileyo.

Namhlanje, kwiNcwadi ka-Efese, uPawulos usicela ukuba sikhangele ngamehlo entliziyo. Uthi: 'Ndikunqulo phambi kukaYise, ukuba aninike ngokobutyebi bozuko lwakhe ukuba nime ngenkani ngamandla ngoMoya wakhe kumntu waphakathi.' Masiyimele kancinci le ndinyana… Awuthi uThixo wasikhangela kuphela esenza kakuhle. Uthi uKristu uya kuhlala ezintliziyweni zethu ngokukholwa, ukuze nibe neengcambu nisekelwe eluthandweni. UBen wayeyazi le nyaniso ngendlela yakhe ethuleyo. Wayengumfana owayenengqondo eqaqambileyo, kodwa ngaphezu kwako konke, wayenentliziyo eyayikwazi ukubona abanye. Khumbula umfanekiso kaBen, lowo mntwana owayezimiseleyo ukunikela ngayo yonke imali yakhe yasebhange encinci ukunceda umalume wakhe uWilliam owayehlaselwe yimivumbo. Wayengazange ayiphule loo ngulube yemali, yayingekho imfuneko yokuba ayiphule ngenxa yokuba umalume wayene-inshurensi. Kodwa loo mnikelo wangoqobo, lowo mbono womntwana owayezimiseleyo ukunikela ngako konke okwakhe ngaphandle kokubala, usixelela ukuba uBen wayenesipho esikhulu sothando olungenamiqathango. Loo mnikelo wawungumfanekiso wothando lukaKristu olungaphezulu kolwazi.

KwiVangeli yanamhlanje, uYesu uthi: 'Ndize kuwisa umlilo emhlabeni, kwaye ndinqwenela ukuba ububele sele uvutha!' Lo mhlaba ubuthathaka, ubuthathaka phambi kokubandezeleka, ubuthathaka phambi kokulahlekelwa ngumntu omthandayo. UYesu uyazi ukuba ubomi buhlala buphakathi kwemfazano, phakathi kwabathandekayo abahlulwa ngukufa okanye ngemeko yobomi. Kodwa uYesu akazanga ukuba asishiye sodwa kulo mhlaba unomlilo. Uze ukuba asivuthelele ngomoya wakhe, ukuba asomeleze xa iintlungu zisisongela.

Alan, Thao, nawe Ryan mfowethu omncane, ndiyazi ukuba kule minyane minne idlulileyo ukususela ngowe-13 kuJuni 2026, iintlungu ziza ngamanye amaxesha ngendlela embi kakhulu. Kukho amandla emphefumlo aphelileyo, kukho ubusuku obude lapho ukungabikho kwesitulo sikaBen okanye ukungaphulaphuli kwakhe amabanga ayethethwa nguyise kubangela isikhewu esingazalisekiyo. Kodwa mamela le nyaniso namhlanje: uThixo akamlibalanga uBen, kwaye akakubalelanga nani. Kwizinto ezenzekayo ebudeni bokugula, abazali abaninzi bazithwala ngokwabo umthwalo wokuzisola: 'Ngaba kukhona endinokukwenza ngcono? Ngaba ndiphosile?' Mamele kakuhle, Alan noThao: uThixo akakubeki icala. UBen akakubeki icala. Ezo zifo aziziswanga zizinto owazenzayo okanye ongazenzanga. Kweli hlabathi, kukho izinto ezenzeka ngaphandle kolawulo lomntu, ngaphandle kwempazamo yomzali. Awuphosanga nto. Uthando lwakho lwalucocekile, lwaluphelele, kwaye uBen wayesazi ukuba unothando olungaka kubazali bakhe nakuRyan. Khipha elo litye lokuzisola ezintliziyweni zenu namhlanje. UBen akajongi iziphoso; ujonge phezulu kuThixo, kwaye uqhubeka esithi kuwe: 'Ba, Mama, musani ukukhala kakhulu, ndikhuselekile.'

Ryan, mfowethu omncane, ndiyazi ukuba ukhumbula uBen kakhulu. Xa ucinga ngemidlalo yenu, ngale roller coaster enayikhwela ngeziganeko ezimnandi, yazi ukuba uBen akakushiye. Ukhona ecaleni kwakho, eqhubeka ekusebenza njengesikhokelo sothando. UBen wayengumfana owayenenqgondo enkulu yezibalo ne-AI, kodwa ikratshi lakhe elikhulu kwakuwukuba ngumntwana omhle owayehlonipha abazali bakhe. UBen uya kuhlala ekukhuthaza, nangona ungamboni ngamehlo, kodwa uya kumva entliziyweni yakho. Uthando lwenu njengabazalwana luyinto engunaphakade.

Masithathe oku namhlanje: uBen wasishiya isipho sothando esingapheliyo. Kwisikhumbuzo sabangcwele abasifundisa ukuba nibe nesibindi sokuma ngenxa kaKristu, masime nathi namhlanje siqinisekile ukuba ubomi bukaBen abuphelanga ethuneni. Usemthekweni wasezulwini, apho i-'con chim airlines' yakhe ibhabha ngokuphakamileyo phambi kobuso bukaThixo. Hamba ke namhlanje uphumle, uthembe ukuba uThixo uyakuthanda, kwaye uBen ulinda wena ngoncumo lwakhe oluqhelekileyo. UBen akakho nje kwimbali yenu; ukwikhona apho uThixo enza khona yonke into ibe ntsha. Uthando lwakho, Ben, lusaqhubeka luhamba emhlabeni, lusaqhubeka lukhanya, kwaye lusaqhubeka lukhumbuza wonke umntu okwaziyo ukuba uThixo uyamthanda umntwana wakhe ngaphezu kwayo yonke into. Hlalani neli themba. Hlalani nolu thando. UBen ukhona, uyaqhubeka, kwaye uya kuhlala ephila kuthando lukaThixo olungapheliyo. Amen.

Ukuzindla
♪ “Ubuhle Bendalo (Version A)” — A song for Ben
Imithandazo yabantu

For the intentions entrusted to Ben on our prayer wall:

“Hheyi Ben - Bengikuphupha kakhulu. Ngethemba ukuthi uyazijabulisa laphaya ezulwini. Sicela usibhekele umndeni wethu. Khumbula ukuza uzosibingelela nsuku zonke. Sikukhumbula kakhulu!” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, ebuthongweni uHuy ukubonile uza kumvakashela, kukunika umthandazo wokuba niphinde nitholane. Kwangathi uNkulunkulu angawamukela umthandazo wakho, uBen ajabulele ukuthula okuphakade eceleni kukaNkulunkulu. Uma kungenzeka, sicela uphinde uze ungivakashele emaphuphweni alandelayo, noma kungaba nje ukubingelela noma ukumamatheka okumnandi njengakuqala.”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, mfana wami omnandi, ngikukhumbula kakhulu. Ngiyabonga ngokuvakashela mina no-Chú Chris izolo ebusuku. Uthe ukubone undiza ngenqwelomoya—ukhululekile, ujabule, futhi unamandla lapho phezulu. Lapha phansi, mina nomama wakho sikhala nsuku zonke. Ingxenye yenhliziyo yami ifile ngokuphelele ngaphandle kwakho, Ben. Sicela usiqaphe, uthandazele umama wakho, umfowenu u-Ryan, kanye nami, futhi usinike amandla okuqhubeka. Sikuthanda kuze kube phakade.” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, ebuthongweni uHuy ukubonile uza kumvakashela, kukunika umthandazo wokuba niphinde nitholane. Kwangathi uNkulunkulu angawamukela umthandazo wakho, uBen ajabulele ukuthula okuphakade eceleni kukaNkulunkulu. Uma kungenzeka, sicela uphinde uze ungivakashele emaphuphweni alandelayo, noma kungaba nje ukubingelela noma ukumamatheka okumnandi njengakuqala.”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Namuhla sekuyizinsuku eziyi-100 ungekho. Ngikukhumbula kakhulu Ben. Zizwe ukhululekile ukuza uvakashele noma nini! Sizobonana mngani! Ngikuthanda kakhulu!” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, namuhla u-M uye e-Cam Ranh ukuyolungisa amaphepha, wadlula e-Cam Ranh Airport. Khona manjalo izingxoxo ngezindiza zika-Ben zabuya emqondweni, ngikhumbula izinkumbulo eziningi ngo-Ben (u-M uzozigcina ziyimfihlo kakaka). Ganyane elincane, ukucabanga ngawe kungenza ngiphatheke kabi kakhulu. Hamba uye ezindaweni u-Ben afuna ukuya kuzo futhi ungakhohlwa ukuhlale ukhumbula umndeni wakithi, ngikuthanda kakhulu mfowethu. Sengathi... !!!!!!!!!”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Kwenzekeni ndodana yami? Sekudlule izinyanga ezintathu wasishiya. Ngikukhumbula kakhulu umzimba wami wonke ubuhlungu. Umama uyakhala nsuku zonke manje... Sizokwenzenjani manje Ben? Sicela usikhulekele.” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“We Ben, uRafael Rizzo nomfowabo omncane uBen baludinga ngempela usizo lwakho njengamanje. Sicela ubabusise ngempilo enhle futhi ubanike amandla okudlula kulokhu ndawonye. Sicela ugade nempilo kaBrandon noFlor futhi. Ngikukhumbula kakhulu impela. Ngiyazi ukuthi uphezulu ezulwini usigadile sonke. Noma nini lapho ukwazi khona, udlule uzosivakashela, angithi? Ngiyakuthanda futhi ngikukhumbula kakhulu!” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.

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Umkhuleko WeNkosi

Ngosizo loMsindisi futhi sifundiswe yimfundiso yaphezulu, silokotha sithi:

Baba wethu osezulwini, malingcweliswe igama lakho; umbuso wakho mawuze, intando yakho mayenziwe emhlabeni njengasezulwini. Siphe namuhla isinkwa sethu semihla ngemihla, usithethelele izono zethu, njengoba nathi sibathethelela abasonayo; ungasifaki ekulingweni, kodwa usikhulule ebubini. Amen.

Umnqophiso womoya
Yesu wam, ndiyakholwa ukuba ukhona kule Ntsikelelo yeSakramente. Ndiyakuthanda ngaphezu kwayo yonke into, kwaye ndinqwenela ukukwamkela emphefumlweni wam. Ekubeni ndingenakukwamkela ngoku ngokwesiSakramente, nceda uze kum ngokomoya entliziyweni yam. Ndiyakwamkela njengokungathi sele ufikile, ndize ndizimanye nawe ngokupheleleyo. Ungaze undivumele ndahluke kuwe. Amen.
Ingoma Yokuhlanganyela
♪ “Sinkwa Sokuphila (Version A)” — A song for Ben
Isiphelo

Makube nani uxolo lukaThixo olugqithise ukuqonda konke, kwaye makukhanyise ubuso bakhe phezu kwenu. Amen.

✝ May almighty God bless you: the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Amen.

Ingoma Yokuvala
♪ “Sihamba Nawe (Version B - Organ & Cello)” — A song for Ben
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