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Friday, November 6, 2026 · in memory of Ben
Ukuzinikela okulandela iMisa — hhayi okungena esikhundleni sayo.
Ukuvulwa

Egameni likaYise, neloNyana, neloMoya oyiNgcwele. Makube noxolo lweNkosi yethu uYesu Kristu kuni nonke.

Isicelo soxolo

Nkosi, usivele imfesane. Kristu, usivele imfesane. Nkosi, usivele imfesane.

♪ “Nkosi Sihawukele (Organ & Cello)” — A song for Ben
Ilizwi likaThixo
Isifundo sokuqala · Philippians 3:17—4:1
Bazalwana, hlalani nisenza njengam, nize nijonge abo bahamba ngokomzekelo esininika wona. Kuba baninzi, njengoko ndikholisa ukunithetha, kwaye ngoku ndinithetha ndize neenyembezi, abahamba bengabachasi bomnqamlezo kaKristu. Isiphelo sabo kukutshabalala. Uthixo wabo sisisu sabo, kwaye uzuko lwabo lukwi'hlazo' labo. Iingqondo zabo zixakeke ngezinto zasemhlabeni. Kodwa ubuzwe bethu busezulwini, apho sikwalinde khona uMsindisi, iNkosi uYesu Kristu. Uya kuwutshintsha umzimba wethu ophantsi ukuze ufane nomzimba wakhe ozukileyo ngamandla amenza akwazi ukuzithoba zonke izinto kuye. Ngoko ke, bazalwana bam, endibathandayo endibakhumbulayo, uvuyo lwam nesithsaba sam, yimani niqinile eNkosini, zintanda.
INdumiso · Psalm 122:1-2, 3-4ab, 4cd-5
R. Masihambe ngovuyo siye endlwini yeNkosi. Ndavuya xa bathi kum, 'Masiye endlwini yeNkosi.' Ngoku iinyawo zethu zimi emasangweni akho, Yerusalem. R. Masihambe ngovuyo siye endlwini yeNkosi. Yerusalem, eyakhiwe njengesixeko esinobunye obupheleleyo. Apho iintlanga zenyuka zisiya khona, iintlanga zeNkosi. R. Masihambe ngovuyo siye endlwini yeNkosi. Ngokomthetho wakwaSirayeli, ukubulela egameni leNkosi. Apho kukho izihlalo zomgwebo, izihlalo zendlu kaDavide. R. Masihambe ngovuyo siye endlwini yeNkosi.
IVangeli · Luke 16:1-8
UYesu wathi kubafundi bakhe, 'Indoda etyebileyo yayinomphathi owayetyholwa ngokuchitha impahla yayo. Yamema yathi kuye, "Yintoni le ndiyivayo ngawe? Nika ingxelo epheleleyo yokuphatha kwakho, kuba awusayi kuba ngumphathi wam kwakhona." Umphathi wathi kuye, "Ndiya kwenza ntoni ngoku, njengoko inkosi yam isusa isikhundla somphathi kum? Andinamandla okugrumba kwaye ndineentloni zokucela. Ndiyazi into endiya kuyenza ukuze, xa ndisusiwe ekuphatheni, bandamkele ezindlwini zabo." Wabiza amatyala enkosi yakhe omnye ngomnye. Kowokuqala wathi, "Utyala malini enkosini yam?" Waphendula wathi, "Imilinganiselo elikhulu yeoli yomnquma." Wathi kuye, "Nantsi incwadi yakho, hlala phantsi ngokukhawuleza ubhale eyama-50." Wathi komnye, "Wena utyala malini?" Waphendula wathi, "Imilinganiselo elikhulu yengqolowa." Wathi kuye, "Nantsi incwadi yakho; bhala eyama-80." Inkosi yancomeka loo mphathi unganyanisekanga ngokusebenza ngobulumko. Kuba abantwana beli hlabathi banobulumko ngakumbi ekusebenzelaneni nesizukulwana sabo kunabantwana bokukhanya.'
Masihambe ngovuyo siye endlwini yeNkosi.
Intshumayelo

Cinga ngemifanekiso yobomi bethu, leyo siyibona mihla leyo kwiikona zendlu yethu. Ngamanye amaxesha, kukho into encinci, into ebonakala ingenamsebenzi, kodwa ethetha lukhulu ngobomi bomntu esimthandayo. Cinga ngesitulo esingenamntu, okanye isibini sezihlangu esishiywe ngasemnyango, okanye mhlawumbi incwadi yamanqaku eyayibhalwe ngesandla esingcangcazelayo kodwa esinobukrelekrele. Ezi zinto azikho nje; ziyimbali yothando, ziyimbali yobomi obubalulekileyo. UBenjamin Vo wayengumfana owayenalo olo hlobo lobukrelekrele—ingqondo eyayihamba phambili kwi-AI nakwi-cloud infrastructure, kodwa intliziyo eyayihlala ikhumbula ukuba yintoni eyona nto ibalulekileyo. Khumbula indlela awayehlekisa ngayo ngala mava e-'con chim airlines' awayeyila entloko yakhe. Wayehlekisa, emomotheka, kwaye enika ubawo wakhe amabali ayengapheliyo. Kodwa ngaphezu kwako konke, wayengumfana owayenentliziyo eyayikwazi ukunika konke okwakhe ngenxa yabanye.

KwiNcwadi kaPawulos kwabaseFilipi namhlanje, uPawulos usixelela into enzulu kakhulu: 'Kodwa ubuzwe bethu busezulwini, apho sikwalinde khona uMsindisi, iNkosi uYesu Kristu.' Masiyimele kancinci le ndinyana… UPawulos akathethi ngendawo ekude kakhulu apho singazukuya khona. Uthetha ngobomi obuqala apha, obuqhubeka apho. UBen wayengumfana owayeyiqonda le nto. Wayengumfana owayengaphili nje ngezinto zeli hlabathi, kodwa owayezimisele ukunika konke okwakhe ngenxa yabanye. Khumbula lowo mzuzu apho uBen, esemncinci kakhulu, wayefuna ukunikela ngemali yakhe yasebhange encinci ukunceda umalume wakhe uWilliam owayehlaselwe zizifo. Akazange ayiphule loo ngulube, akazange ayikhuphule imali leyo, kodwa isipho sasingaphakathi entliziyweni yakhe: umntwana owayeselula kodwa onentliziyo enkulu eyayifuna ukunceda wonke umntu ngaphandle kokucingela yena. Oku kukunika okungenamkhawulo, oku kuthando olungaphaya kwemida yeli hlabathi.

Kodwa masiyimele inyaniso namhlanje ngaphambi kokuba siye phambili. Alan noThao, nawe Ryan mfowethu omncane, ndiyazi ukuba kule minyane minne idlulileyo ukususela ngowe-13 kuJuni 2026, iintlungu ziza ngamanye amaxesha ngendlela embi kakhulu, zikushiya ungazi nokuba ume ngaphi. Kukho amandla emphefumlo aphelileyo, kukho ubusuku obude lapho ukungabikho kwesitulo sikaBen okanye ukungaphulaphuli kwakhe amabanga ayethethwa nguyise kubangela isikhewu esingazalisekiyo. Kukho amaxesha apho ukuziva usodwa kuhlasela ngaphandle kwesaziso, kwaye umthwalo wokulahlekelwa uba nzima kakhulu ukuba ungathwalwa. Mamele kakuhle, Alan noThao: uThixo akakubeki icala. UBen akakubeki icala. Ezo zifo aziziswanga zizinto owazenzayo okanye ongazenzanga. Kweli hlabathi, kukho izinto ezenzeka ngaphandle kolawulo lomntu, ngaphandle kwempazamo yomzali. Awuphosanga nto. Uthando lwakho lwalucocekile, lwaluphelele, kwaye uBen wayesazi ukuba unothando olungaka kubazali bakhe nakuRyan. Khipha elo litye lokuzisola ezintliziyweni zenu namhlanje. UBen akajongi iziphoso; ujonge phewulu kuThixo, kwaye uqhubeka esithi kuwe: 'Ba, Mama, musani ukukhala kakhulu, ndikhuselekile.'

KwiVangeli yanamhlanje, uYesu usixelela ibali lomphathi owayekhohlakele kodwa owayekrelekrele. 'For the children of this world are more prudent in dealing with their own generation than the children of light.' Masiyimele kancinci le ndinyana… UYesu akathethi ngokukhohlakala kweli hlabathi, kodwa uthetha ngendlela esisebenzisa ngayo ubomi bethu. UBen wayengumfana owayekrelekrele, owayesebenzisa ubukrelekrele bakhe, kodwa wayengengomntwana weli hlabathi; wayengumntwana wokukhanya. Wayesebenzisa ubukrelekrele bakhe ukwakha ubuhlobo, ukunceda abanye, nokubonisa uthando. UBen akazange azame ukuzigcinela izinto; wayezama ukuzinika. Wayengumfana owayeyiqonda ukuba ubomi bunikwe thina ukuba sibusebenzise ngenxa yothando. Ryan, mfowethu okhoyo apha, ndifuna uthathe oku nawe. UBen akakushiye. Ukhona ecaleni kwakho, eqhubeka ekusebenza njengesikhokelo sothando. UBen wayengumfana owayenenqgondo enkulu yezibalo, kodwa ikratshi lakhe elikhulu kwakuwukuba ngumntwana omhle owayehlonipha abazali bakhe. UBen uya kuhlala ekukhuthaza, nangona ungamboni ngamehlo, kodwa uya kumva entliziyweni yakho. Uthando lwenu njengabazalwana luyinto engunaphakade.

Masithathe oku namhlanje: uBen wasishiya isipho sothando olungapheliyo. Kwisikhumbuzo sesidlo sasezulwini, lapho indlu kaThixo izele khona ngabantu abavela kude nakufi, masime nathi namhlanje siqinisekile ukuba ubomi bukaBen abuphelanga ethuneni. Usemthekweni wasezulwini, apho i-'con chim airlines' yakhe ibhabha ngokuphakamileyo phambi kobuso bukaThixo. Hamba ke namhlanje uphumle, uthembe ukuba uThixo uyakuthanda, kwaye uBen ulinda wena ngoncumo lwakhe oluqhelekileyo. UBen akakho nje kwimbali yenu; ukwikhona apho uThixo enza khona yonke into ibe ntsha. Uthando lwakho, Ben, lusaqhubeka luhamba emhlabeni, lusaqhubeka lukhanya, kwaye lusaqhubeka lukhumbuza wonke umntu okwaziyo ukuba uThixo uyamthanda umntwana wakhe ngaphezu kwayo yonke into. Hlalani neli themba. Hlalani nolu thando. UBen ukhona, uyaqhubeka, kwaye uya kuhlala ephila kuthando lukaThixo olungapheliyo. Amen.

Ukuzindla
♪ “Ubuhle Bendalo (Version A)” — A song for Ben
Izicelo

For the intentions entrusted to Ben on our prayer wall:

“Heyi Ben - mina nawe siyakukhumbula kakhulu. Ngikubone izikhathi ezimbalwa emaphusheni ami emasontweni adlule! Woza uzosibingelela nsuku zonke kulungile?” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ngicabanga ngawe mngane wami! Dlula uzosho sawubona noma nini lapho ungakwazi khona, kulungile? Ngiyakuthanda Ben”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Hheyi Ben - Bengikuphupha kakhulu. Ngethemba ukuthi uyazijabulisa laphaya ezulwini. Sicela usibhekele umndeni wethu. Khumbula ukuza uzosibingelela nsuku zonke. Sikukhumbula kakhulu!” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, ebuthongweni uHuy ukubonile uza kumvakashela, kukunika umthandazo wokuba niphinde nitholane. Kwangathi uNkulunkulu angawamukela umthandazo wakho, uBen ajabulele ukuthula okuphakade eceleni kukaNkulunkulu. Uma kungenzeka, sicela uphinde uze ungivakashele emaphuphweni alandelayo, noma kungaba nje ukubingelela noma ukumamatheka okumnandi njengakuqala.”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, mfana wami omnandi, ngikukhumbula kakhulu. Ngiyabonga ngokuvakashela mina no-Chú Chris izolo ebusuku. Uthe ukubone undiza ngenqwelomoya—ukhululekile, ujabule, futhi unamandla lapho phezulu. Lapha phansi, mina nomama wakho sikhala nsuku zonke. Ingxenye yenhliziyo yami ifile ngokuphelele ngaphandle kwakho, Ben. Sicela usiqaphe, uthandazele umama wakho, umfowenu u-Ryan, kanye nami, futhi usinike amandla okuqhubeka. Sikuthanda kuze kube phakade.” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, ebuthongweni uHuy ukubonile uza kumvakashela, kukunika umthandazo wokuba niphinde nitholane. Kwangathi uNkulunkulu angawamukela umthandazo wakho, uBen ajabulele ukuthula okuphakade eceleni kukaNkulunkulu. Uma kungenzeka, sicela uphinde uze ungivakashele emaphuphweni alandelayo, noma kungaba nje ukubingelela noma ukumamatheka okumnandi njengakuqala.”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Namuhla sekuyizinsuku eziyi-100 ungekho. Ngikukhumbula kakhulu Ben. Zizwe ukhululekile ukuza uvakashele noma nini! Sizobonana mngani! Ngikuthanda kakhulu!” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, namuhla u-M uye e-Cam Ranh ukuyolungisa amaphepha, wadlula e-Cam Ranh Airport. Khona manjalo izingxoxo ngezindiza zika-Ben zabuya emqondweni, ngikhumbula izinkumbulo eziningi ngo-Ben (u-M uzozigcina ziyimfihlo kakaka). Ganyane elincane, ukucabanga ngawe kungenza ngiphatheke kabi kakhulu. Hamba uye ezindaweni u-Ben afuna ukuya kuzo futhi ungakhohlwa ukuhlale ukhumbula umndeni wakithi, ngikuthanda kakhulu mfowethu. Sengathi... !!!!!!!!!”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.

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Umkhuleko WeNkosi

Ngosizo loMsindisi futhi sifundiswe yimfundiso yaphezulu, silokotha sithi:

Baba wethu osezulwini, malingcweliswe igama lakho; umbuso wakho mawuze, intando yakho mayenziwe emhlabeni njengasezulwini. Siphe namuhla isinkwa sethu semihla ngemihla, usithethelele izono zethu, njengoba nathi sibathethelela abasonayo; ungasifaki ekulingweni, kodwa usikhulule ebubini. Amen.

Umdibaniso womoya
Nkosi yam uYesu, ndiyakholwa ukuba ukhona kule Sakramente yothando. Ndiyakuthanda ngaphezu kwayo yonke into, kwaye ndinqwenela ukukwamkela emphefumlweni wam. Ekubeni ndingenakukwamkela ngoku kwiSakramente, nceda uze kum ngomoya nangothando. Ndiyakwamkela njengokungathi ukhona apha, kwaye ndizidibanisa nawe ngokupheleleyo. Ungaze undivumele ndahluke kuwe. Amen.
Ingoma Yokuhlanganyela
♪ “Sinkwa Sokuphila (Version A)” — A song for Ben
Isiphelo

INkosi mayisikelele, isigcine, kwaye isikhanyisele ngoxolo lwayo ngonaphakade. Amen.

✝ May almighty God bless you: the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Amen.

Ingoma Yokuvala
♪ “Sihamba Nawe (Version B - Organ & Cello)” — A song for Ben
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