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Tuesday, October 20, 2026 · in memory of Ben
Ukuzinikela okulandela iMisa — hhayi okungena esikhundleni sayo.
Ukuvulwa

Egameni likaYise, nelikaNyana, nelikaMoya oyiNgcwele. Uxolo lweNkosi uYesu Kristu malube nani nonke.

Ukuphenduka

Nkosi, usihlelele inceba. Kristu, usihlelele inceba. Nkosi, usihlelele inceba.

♪ “Nkosi Sihawukele (Organ & Cello)” — A song for Ben
Ilizwi likaThixo
Isifundo sokuqala · Ephesians 2:12-22
Bazalwana, ngelo xesha naningengabo bakaKristu, ningaphandle kwentlangano yakwaSirayeli, ningabantu abangaziyo iminqophiso yothembiso, ningenathemba, ningenaye uThixo ehlabathini. Kodwa ngoku, kuKristu Yesu, nina benikude nibe kufutshane ngeGazi likaKristu. Kuba yena unguxolo lwethu, owenze bobabini baba mnye, wawudiliza udonga olwahlulayo lolutshaba, ngokwenyama yakhe, ewuphelisa umthetho nemiyalelo yawo, ukuze adale kuye umntu omnye omtsha endaweni yabo babini, esenza uxolo, kwaye abuyisane bobabini noThixo, emzimbeni omnye, ngomnqamlezo, ebulala olutshaba ngawo. Weza washumayela uxolo kuni benikude, noxolo kwabo bebakufuphi, kuba ngaye bobabini sinofikelelo kuYise ngomoya omnye. Ngoko ke anisenabangeni nabahambi, kodwa ningabemi kunye nabangcwele, ningamalungu endlu kaThixo, eyakhelwe phezu kwesiseko sabapostile nabaprofeti, ekunguye uKristu Yesu ngokwakhe oyilitye eliyintloko. Ngaye isakhiwo siphela sibambene, sikhula sibe yitempile engcwele eNkosini; kuye nani nakhiwa kunye, nibe yindawo yokuhlala kaThixo ngoMoya.
INdumiso · Psalm 85:9ab-10, 11-12, 13-14
R. INkosi ithetha uxolo kubantu bayo. Ndiya kuva oko kukubhengezwa nguThixo; kuba iNkosi ibhengeza uxolo. Inene, usindiso lwayo lukufuphi kwabo bayoyikayo, uzuko luhlala ezweni lethu. R. INkosi ithetha uxolo kubantu bayo. Ububele nenyaniso ziya kuhlangana; ubulungisa noxolo ziya kuphuzana. Inyaniso iya kuhluma emhlabeni, ubulungisa buya kukhangela buvela ezulwini. R. INkosi ithetha uxolo kubantu bayo. INkosi ngokwayo iya kunika izinto zayo ezilungileyo; umhlaba wethu uya kuvelisa isivuno sawo. Ubulungisa buya kuhamba phambi kwayo, nosindiso lulandele ezinyathelweni zayo. R. INkosi ithetha uxolo kubantu bayo.
IVangeli · Luke 12:35-38
UYesu wathi kubafundi bakhe: “Bhinqani izinqe zenu, nikhanyise izibane zenu, nibe njengezicaka ezilindele ukubuya kwenkosi yazo emtshatweni, ukuze zivule kwangoko xa ifika ikhonkqoza. Banoyolo abo bakhonzi inkosi eya kubafumana bephaphile xa ifika. Inene, ndithi kuni, iya kuzibhinqa, ibahlalise etafileni, ize iqale ukubakhonza. Ukuba ithe yeza kumlindo wesibini okanye wesithathu, yaza yabafumana bekulungele ngolo hlobo, banoyolo abo bakhonzi.”
INkosi ithetha uxolo kubantu bayo.
Intshumayelo

Kukho imizuzu apho umhlaba ubonakala ungenanto, apho ukuthula kwendlu kunzima ukukuthwala. Mhlawumbi uke wema ecaleni kwesango okanye kwibala leenqwelo-moya, ubukele iindiza zisuka, ucinga ngaloo mntu uphakathi kwethu owayekuthanda ukubukela iinjini neempiko zazo zinyuka ziye esibhakabhakeni. UBenjamin Vo wayenalo olo thando. Wayengumfana owayejonga phezulu, engajongi nje iindiza, kodwa ejonga ubukhulu bukaThixo obufihlakeleyo kwiimfihlo zenzululwazi kunye nobuchwephesha. Wayengumfana owayethanda ukucacisa ngale ‘con chim airlines’ yakhe, ebonisa ukuba intliziyo yakhe yayingeyiyo nje eyobuchwephesha, kodwa eyayizaliswe lithemba elikhulu. UBen wayeyindoda encinci eyayikwazi ukuzibona iindiza zayo zibhabha ngaphaya kwamafu, njengokuba wayesoloko ecinga ngekamva elizele luvuyo.

Namhlanje, kwiNcwadi ka-Efese, uPawulos usicela ukuba sikhangele ngamehlo entliziyo. Uthi: 'Maye amehlo eentliziyo zenu akhanyiselwe, ukuze nazi ukuba liyintoni na ithemba elibangelwa kukubizwa kwakhe.' Amehlo entliziyo. Lawo ngamehlo angaboni nje izinto eziphathekayo, kodwa abona uthando lukaThixo olufihlakeleyo kuyo yonke imeko yobomi bethu. UBen wayengumfana owayenalo olo khanya. Wayengumfana owayenengqondo eqaqambileyo, kodwa ngaphezu kwako konke, wayenentliziyo eyayikwazi ukubona abanye.

Khumbula lo mfanekiso: uBen, eneminyaka eli-15, efuna ukunikela ngayo yonke imali yakhe yasebhange encinci ukunceda umalume wakhe uWilliam. Akazange ayiphule loo ngulube, akazange ayikhuphule imali, kodwa isipho sasingaphakathi entliziyweni yakhe. Ubenayo loo ntliziyo yayikwazi ukunikela ngayo yonke into ngaphandle kokubala. Loo ntliziyo yayicocekile, ingaphili ngemithetho yobuxoki yeli hlabathi, kodwa iphila ngenceba kaThixo. UBen wayengumfana owayethanda ukunika, owayethanda ukuba nomdla kwabanye, owayesoloko enoncumo olwaluthi, 'Ndikhona, ndiyakuthanda.'

KwiVangeli yanamhlanje, uYesu uthi: 'Gird your loins and light your lamps and be like servants who await their master’s return.' (Bhinqani izinqe zenu, nikhanyise izibane zenu, nibe njengezicaka ezilindele ukubuya kwenkosi yazo). Le ntsingiselo yokulinda ayiyiyo eyokulinda ngoloyiko, kodwa kukuhlala ulungele ukwamkela uthando oluza. UYesu uthi: 'Blessed are those servants whom the master finds vigilant on his arrival. Amen, I say to you, he will gird himself, have them recline at table, and proceed to wait on them.' (Nokuba uza kumlindo wesibini okanye wesithathu, bazukile abo bakhonzi). Mamele le nyaniso: uYesu akalindi nje ukuba sikhonze, kodwa uYesu uzimisele ukusikhonza. UBen, ngoku, usebukhoneni obo, apho uYesu emkhonza ngoxolo olungunaphakade.

Kodwa Alan, Thao, nawe Ryan mfowethu omncane, ndiyazi ukuba kule nyanga yesine emva kokuba uBen ebuyele kuThixo, iintlungu ziza ngamanye amaxesha njengomsinga ongaqondakaliyo. Kukho imibuzo eza ebusuku, kukho imizuzu apho uzibuza ukuba ngaba kukhona na eninokuze nako kwenza ngokwahlukileyo. Ndifuna ukuba uphulaphule inyaniso kaThixo namhlanje, kwaye uyivumele ingene nzulu entliziyweni yakho: akukho nqaku lokuthi uphosile okanye wenze kakubi. Ukugula akwanga kwenzeka ngenxa yezinto owazenzayo okanye ongazenzanga. UThixo akakubeki icala, kwaye noBen akakubeki icala kwaphela. Masikhuphe lo mthwalo wokuzisola emajukujukwini eentliziyo zenu namhlanje. Awuphosanga nto. Ubenze konke okusemandleni enu ngothando olungapheliyo. Ezinye izinto kulo mhlaba zenzeka ngaphandle kolawulo lwethu, ngaphandle kokuba nabani na enze impazamo. Niyinyaniso, nithandwa nguThixo ngokupheleleyo.

UYesu uthi: 'Musa ukoyika.' Lo ngumyalelo, kodwa ikwangulwazi oluphilisayo. UBen akalahlekanga. Usemkhono kaThixo, apho akukho ntlungu, apho akukho zifo, apho kukho kuphela uthando olungenasiphelo. UBen ukhangele phantsi kuwe Ryan, kwaye akakushiye. Xa udlala okanye ucinga ngekamva, yazi ukuba uBen ukuthembile, ukuthandile, kwaye usakuthanda kakhulu. UBen usengumntwana ononcumo, usengumntwana ocinga ngekamva, usengumntwana okhathalayo.

Namhlanje, masithathe oku: uBen wayengumfana owafunda ukunika. Masifunde nathi ukunika—ukunika iintlungu zethu kuThixo, ukunika ithemba lethu kuye, kwaye ukunika uthando lwethu kwabo basijikelezileyo. UBen akakho nje kwimbali yenu; ukwikhona apho uThixo enza khona yonke into ibe ntsha. Uthando lwakho, Ben, lusaqhubeka luhamba emhlabeni, lusaqhubeka lukhanya, kwaye lusaqhubeka lukhumbuza wonke umntu okwaziyo ukuba uThixo uyamthanda umntwana wakhe ngaphezu kwayo yonke into.

Kukho amandla amakhulu ekuncedeni abanye. Njengokuba uBen wayenalo olo nqweno lokunika, kwaye njengokuba umsebenzi wamanzi acocekileyo eCà Mau uqhubeka ukhumbuza ihlabathi ngobubele bakhe, nani qhubekani niphila ngaloo ndlela. Niphilele uRyan, niphilele ukukhanya, niphilele ukuba uBen wayengumfana owafundisa ihlabathi ukuba uthando lukhulu kunako konke. Hamba ke namhlanje ukhululekile emthwalweni wokuzisola. Bamba isandla sikaYesu, uthembe ukuba uYisease usezintliziyweni zenu, kwaye uBen ulala ngokuthula ekhanyeni likaThixo, esikhangela sonke ngovuyo olungunaphakade. Amen.

Ukuzindla
♪ “Ubuhle Bendalo (Version A)” — A song for Ben
Izicelo

For the intentions entrusted to Ben on our prayer wall:

“Hheyi Ben - Bengikuphupha kakhulu. Ngethemba ukuthi uyazijabulisa laphaya ezulwini. Sicela usibhekele umndeni wethu. Khumbula ukuza uzosibingelela nsuku zonke. Sikukhumbula kakhulu!” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, ebuthongweni uHuy ukubonile uza kumvakashela, kukunika umthandazo wokuba niphinde nitholane. Kwangathi uNkulunkulu angawamukela umthandazo wakho, uBen ajabulele ukuthula okuphakade eceleni kukaNkulunkulu. Uma kungenzeka, sicela uphinde uze ungivakashele emaphuphweni alandelayo, noma kungaba nje ukubingelela noma ukumamatheka okumnandi njengakuqala.”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, mfana wami omnandi, ngikukhumbula kakhulu. Ngiyabonga ngokuvakashela mina no-Chú Chris izolo ebusuku. Uthe ukubone undiza ngenqwelomoya—ukhululekile, ujabule, futhi unamandla lapho phezulu. Lapha phansi, mina nomama wakho sikhala nsuku zonke. Ingxenye yenhliziyo yami ifile ngokuphelele ngaphandle kwakho, Ben. Sicela usiqaphe, uthandazele umama wakho, umfowenu u-Ryan, kanye nami, futhi usinike amandla okuqhubeka. Sikuthanda kuze kube phakade.” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, ebuthongweni uHuy ukubonile uza kumvakashela, kukunika umthandazo wokuba niphinde nitholane. Kwangathi uNkulunkulu angawamukela umthandazo wakho, uBen ajabulele ukuthula okuphakade eceleni kukaNkulunkulu. Uma kungenzeka, sicela uphinde uze ungivakashele emaphuphweni alandelayo, noma kungaba nje ukubingelela noma ukumamatheka okumnandi njengakuqala.”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Namuhla sekuyizinsuku eziyi-100 ungekho. Ngikukhumbula kakhulu Ben. Zizwe ukhululekile ukuza uvakashele noma nini! Sizobonana mngani! Ngikuthanda kakhulu!” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, namuhla u-M uye e-Cam Ranh ukuyolungisa amaphepha, wadlula e-Cam Ranh Airport. Khona manjalo izingxoxo ngezindiza zika-Ben zabuya emqondweni, ngikhumbula izinkumbulo eziningi ngo-Ben (u-M uzozigcina ziyimfihlo kakaka). Ganyane elincane, ukucabanga ngawe kungenza ngiphatheke kabi kakhulu. Hamba uye ezindaweni u-Ben afuna ukuya kuzo futhi ungakhohlwa ukuhlale ukhumbula umndeni wakithi, ngikuthanda kakhulu mfowethu. Sengathi... !!!!!!!!!”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Kwenzekeni ndodana yami? Sekudlule izinyanga ezintathu wasishiya. Ngikukhumbula kakhulu umzimba wami wonke ubuhlungu. Umama uyakhala nsuku zonke manje... Sizokwenzenjani manje Ben? Sicela usikhulekele.” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“We Ben, uRafael Rizzo nomfowabo omncane uBen baludinga ngempela usizo lwakho njengamanje. Sicela ubabusise ngempilo enhle futhi ubanike amandla okudlula kulokhu ndawonye. Sicela ugade nempilo kaBrandon noFlor futhi. Ngikukhumbula kakhulu impela. Ngiyazi ukuthi uphezulu ezulwini usigadile sonke. Noma nini lapho ukwazi khona, udlule uzosivakashela, angithi? Ngiyakuthanda futhi ngikukhumbula kakhulu!” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.

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Umkhuleko WeNkosi

Ngosizo loMsindisi futhi sifundiswe yimfundiso yaphezulu, silokotha sithi:

Baba wethu osezulwini, malingcweliswe igama lakho; umbuso wakho mawuze, intando yakho mayenziwe emhlabeni njengasezulwini. Siphe namuhla isinkwa sethu semihla ngemihla, usithethelele izono zethu, njengoba nathi sibathethelela abasonayo; ungasifaki ekulingweni, kodwa usikhulule ebubini. Amen.

Ubudlelwane boMoya
Nkosi yam uYesu, ndiyakholwa ukuba ukhona ngenene kwiSakramente eNgcwele. Ndiyakuthanda ngaphezu kwazo zonke izinto, kwaye ndinqwenela ukukwamkela emphefumlweni wam. Njengoko ndingenako ukukwamkela ngoku kwiSakramente, nceda uze kum ngokomoya entliziyweni yam. Ndiyakwamkela njengokungathi sele ulapha, kwaye ndizibophelela ngokupheleleyo kuwe. Ungaze undivumele ndohlukane nawe. Amen.
Ingoma Yokuhlanganyela
♪ “Sinkwa Sokuphila (Version A)” — A song for Ben
Isiphelo

INkosi mayisikelele, isigcine, kwaye isinike uxolo lwayo. Hamba ngoxolo.

✝ May almighty God bless you: the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Amen.

Ingoma Yokuvala
♪ “Sihamba Nawe (Version B - Organ & Cello)” — A song for Ben
Izinsuku Zakudala
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