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Isikhumbuzo sikaSaint Leo Omkhulu, uPapa noGqirha weCawa

Tuesday, November 10, 2026 · in memory of Ben
Ukuzinikela okulandela iMisa — hhayi okungena esikhundleni sayo.
Isivulo

Egameni likaYise, nelikaNyana, nelikaMoya oyiNgcwele. Makube noxolo lweNkosi yethu uYesu Kristu kuni nonke.

Ukuguquka

Nkosi, siquleke imithandazo yethu kuwe. Kristu, sicele inceba yakho. Nkosi, yiba nenceba kuthi.

♪ “Nkosi Sihawukele (Organ & Cello)” — A song for Ben
Ilizwi likaThixo
Isifundo sokuqala · Titus 2:1-8, 11-14
Othandiweyo: Thetha oko kuhambelana nemfundiso ephilileyo, ukuba amadoda amadala abe nokuzeyisa, abe nesidima, abe nengqondo, abe namandla okholo, eluthandweni, nakunyamezelo. Ngokufanayo, abafazi abadala mabaziphathe ngendlela eyiyo, bangabi ngabanyelisi, bangabi ngamakhoboka ewayini, bafundise okulungileyo, ukuze baqeqeshe abafazi abancinci ukuba bathande amadoda abo nabantwana babo, babe nokuzeyisa, babe bamsulwa, babe ngabakhathaleli bamakhaya abo, baphantsi kwamadoda abo, ukuze ilizwi likaThixo linganyeliswa. Ngokufanayo, uze ukhuthaze amadoda aselula ukuba azeyise, uzibonakalise njengomzekelo wezenzo ezilungileyo kuzo zonke izinto, unyaniseke ekufundiseni kwakho, ube nesidima, ube nentetho ephilileyo engenakugxekwa, ukuze ochanene nawe adane, engenanto imbi angayithetha ngathi. Kuba ubabalo lukaThixo luvakalisiwe, lusindisa bonke, lusifundisa ukuba silahle iindlela ezingamahlazo kunye neminqweno yehlabathi, kwaye siphile ngokuzeyisa, ngokusesikweni, nangokuzinikela kweli xesha, njengoko silindele ithemba elisikelelweyo, ukubonakala kobuqaqawuli bukaThixo omkhulu noMsindisi wethu uYesu Kristu, owazinikelayo ngenxa yethu ukuze asikhulule kuko konke ukungaphathi kakuhle, aze azihlambululele abantu abangabakhe, abanomdla wokwenza okulungileyo.
INdumiso · Psalm 37:3-4, 18 and 23, 27 and 29
R. Usindiso lwabalungileyo luvela eNkosini. Themba eNkosini wenze okulungileyo, ukuze uhlale elizweni kwaye wondliwe ngokukhuselekileyo. Thatha ubumnandi eNkosini, kwaye uya kukunika izicelo zentliziyo yakho. R. Usindiso lwabalungileyo luvela eNkosini. INkosi iyalinda ubomi babo abanentliziyo epheleleyo; ilifa labo lihlala ngonaphakade. Ngenxa yeNkosi iinyathelo zomntu zenziwa ziqine, kwaye iyayivuma indlela yakhe. R. Usindiso lwabalungileyo luvela eNkosini. Jikela kude ebubini wenze okulungileyo, ukuze uhlale ngonaphakade; abalungileyo baya kulidla ilifa ilizwe kwaye bahlale kulo ngonaphakade. R. Usindiso lwabalungileyo luvela eNkosini.
IVangeli · Luke 17:7-10
UYesu wathi kubapostile: 'Ngubani na phakathi kwenu oya kuthi kumkhonzi wakhe osanda kubuya ekulimeni okanye ekwaluseni izimvu entsimini, "Yiza apha kwangoko uhlale etafileni"? Akayi kuthi na kunoko, "Lungisa into yokuba nditye. Nxiba i-apron yakho undilungiselele ndide nditye ndisele. Emva koko uya kutya nawe”? Ngaba unombulelo kuloo mkhonzi kuba wenze oko wayeyalelwe kona? Kunjalo ke nani. Xa nenze konke eniyaliweyo, yithini, "Singabakhonzi abangenanzuzo; senze oko besinyanzelekile ukuba sikwenze."'
Usindiso lwabalungileyo luvela eNkosini.
Intshumayelo

Cinga ngomzuzu apho ubukele indiza isuka emhlabeni, inyuka ngokukhawuleza, ide ibe yindawo encinci nje esibhakabhakeni. UBenjamin Vo wayengumfana owayeyithanda kakhulu loo nto. Wayenengqondo eqaqambileyo eyayikwazi ukubala imigama yendiza, eyayiyila i-'con chim airlines' yakhe ngoncumo olusuka entliziyweni, kwaye wayeyiqonda into yokuba ubomi, njengendiza, bunemida yabo kodwa bunamandla amakhulu okuhamba kude. Namhlanje, njengoko sikhumbula uSaint Leo Omkhulu, umfundisi owathi wakhusela inyaniso yeCawa ngexesha elinzima, sikhunjuzwa ukuba inyaniso yethu ayikho kwizinto ezinkulu esizenzayo, kodwa kukuba ngabakhonzi abathobekileyo.

KwiNcwadi kaTitus namhlanje, sifunda amazwi asikhumbuza indlela yokuphila: 'For the grace of God has appeared, saving all and training us to reject godless ways.' Masiyimele kancinci le ndinyana… UPawulos uthetha ngobabalo oluvela kuThixo olusifundisayo ukuba siphile ngokuzeyisa nangokunyaniseka. UBen wayengumfana owayeyiqonda le nto. Wayengumfana owayenengqondo enkulu, kodwa owayehlala enentliziyo ethembekileyo, owayehlonipha abazali bakhe, kwaye owayehlala elungele ukunika ngaphandle kokubala. Wayengumfana owayengaziboni njengomntu omkhulu, kodwa njengomntwana kaThixo owayefuna ukwenza okulungileyo.

Kodwa masiyimele inyaniso namhlanje ngaphambi kokuba siye phambili. Alan noThao, nawe Ryan mfowethu omncane, ndiyazi ukuba kule minyane minne idlulileyo ukususela ngowe-13 kuJuni 2026, iintlungu ziza ngamanye amaxesha ngendlela embi kakhulu, zikushiya ungazi nokuba ume ngaphi. Kukho amandla emphefumlo aphelileyo, kukho ubusuku obude lapho ukungabikho kukaBen kwenza ikhaya libe ngenye indlela. Kukho ukudinwa okungafani nokudinwa komzimba; kukudinwa komphefumlo. Mamele kakuhle, Alan noThao: uThixo akakubeki icala. UBen akakubeki icala. Ezo zifo aziziswanga zizinto owazenzayo okanye ongazenzanga. Kweli hlabathi, kukho izinto ezenzeka ngaphandle kolawulo lomntu, ngaphandle kwempazamo yomzali. Awuphosanga nto. Uthando lwakho lwalucocekile, lwaluphelele, kwaye uBen wayesazi ukuba unothando olungaka kubazali bakhe nakuRyan. Khipha elo litye lokuzisola ezintliziyweni zenu namhlanje. UBen akajongi iziphoso; ujonge phezulu kuThixo, kwaye uqhubeka esithi kuwe: 'Ba, Mama, musani ukukhala kakhulu, ndikhuselekile.'

KwiVangeli yanamhlanje, uYesu usixelela amazwi anzulu: 'When you have done all you have been commanded, say, We are unprofitable servants; we have done what we were obliged to do.' Masiyimele kancinci le ndinyana… UYesu akathethi ngokuzithoba okungaphelelanga. Uthetha ngokwamkela ukuba yonke into esiyenzayo, lonke uthando esilunika abanye, luvela kuThixo. UBen wayengumfana owayeyazi le nto. Khumbula lowo mzuzu apho uBen, eneminyaka elishumi elinesihlanu, waxelela abazali bakhe ukuba wayezimisele ukunikela ngayo yonke imali yasebhange yakhe encinci ukuze ancede umalume wakhe uWilliam owayehlaselwe zizifo. Akazange ayiphule loo ngulube, akazange ayikhuphule imali leyo, kodwa isipho sasingaphakathi entliziyweni yakhe: umntwana owayeselula kodwa onentliziyo enkulu eyayifuna ukunceda wonke umntu ngaphandle kokucingela yena. Oku kukunika okungenamkhawulo, oku kuthando olungaphaya kwemida yeli hlabathi.

Ryan, mfowethu okhoyo apha, ndifuna uthathe oku nawe. UBen akakushiye. Ukhona ecaleni kwakho, eqhubeka ekusebenza njengesikhokelo sothando. UBen wayengumfana owayenenqgondo enkulu yezibalo nolwazi, kodwa ikratshi lakhe elikhulu kwakuwukuba ngumntwana omhle owayehlonipha abazali bakhe. UBen uya kuhlala ekukhuthaza, nangona ungamboni ngamehlo, kodwa uya kumva entliziyweni yakho. Uthando lwenu njengabazalwana luyinto engunaphakade. Xa uziva usodwa, khumbula ukuba uBen ukhona, uyaqhubeka, kwaye uya kuhlala ephila kuthando lukaThixo olungapheliyo.

Masithathe oku namhlanje: uBen wasishiya isipho sothando olungapheliyo. Kwisikhumbuzo sesidlo sasezulwini, lapho indlu kaThixo izele khona ngabantu abavela kude nakufi, masime nathi namhlanje siqinisekile ukuba ubomi bukaBen abuphelanga ethuneni. Usemthekweni wasezulwini, apho i-'con chim airlines' yakhe ibhabha ngokuphakamileyo phambi kobuso bukaThixo. Hamba ke namhlanje uphumle, uthembe ukuba uThixo uyakuthanda, kwaye uBen ulinda wena ngoncumo lwakhe oluqhelekileyo. UBen akakho nje kwimbali yenu; ukwikhona apho uThixo enza khona yonke into ibe ntsha. Uthando lwakho, Ben, lusaqhubeka luhamba emhlabeni, lusaqhubeka lukhanya, kwaye lusaqhubeka lukhumbuza wonke umntu okwaziyo ukuba uThixo uyamthanda umntwana wakhe ngaphezu kwayo yonke into. Hlalani neli themba. Hlalani nolu thando. UBen ukhona, uyaqhubeka, kwaye uya kuhlala ephila kuthando lukaThixo olungapheliyo. Amen.

Ukuzindla
♪ “Ubuhle Bendalo (Version A)” — A song for Ben
Izicelo

For the intentions entrusted to Ben on our prayer wall:

“Nha Trang, mhlaka 31/10/2026, uMinh ucabanga kakhulu ngawe, Ben. Ngiyakukhumbula futhi ngiyakuthanda!!!”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Heyi Ben - mina nawe siyakukhumbula kakhulu. Ngikubone izikhathi ezimbalwa emaphusheni ami emasontweni adlule! Woza uzosibingelela nsuku zonke kulungile?” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ngicabanga ngawe mngane wami! Dlula uzosho sawubona noma nini lapho ungakwazi khona, kulungile? Ngiyakuthanda Ben”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Hheyi Ben - Bengikuphupha kakhulu. Ngethemba ukuthi uyazijabulisa laphaya ezulwini. Sicela usibhekele umndeni wethu. Khumbula ukuza uzosibingelela nsuku zonke. Sikukhumbula kakhulu!” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, ebuthongweni uHuy ukubonile uza kumvakashela, kukunika umthandazo wokuba niphinde nitholane. Kwangathi uNkulunkulu angawamukela umthandazo wakho, uBen ajabulele ukuthula okuphakade eceleni kukaNkulunkulu. Uma kungenzeka, sicela uphinde uze ungivakashele emaphuphweni alandelayo, noma kungaba nje ukubingelela noma ukumamatheka okumnandi njengakuqala.”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, mfana wami omnandi, ngikukhumbula kakhulu. Ngiyabonga ngokuvakashela mina no-Chú Chris izolo ebusuku. Uthe ukubone undiza ngenqwelomoya—ukhululekile, ujabule, futhi unamandla lapho phezulu. Lapha phansi, mina nomama wakho sikhala nsuku zonke. Ingxenye yenhliziyo yami ifile ngokuphelele ngaphandle kwakho, Ben. Sicela usiqaphe, uthandazele umama wakho, umfowenu u-Ryan, kanye nami, futhi usinike amandla okuqhubeka. Sikuthanda kuze kube phakade.” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, ebuthongweni uHuy ukubonile uza kumvakashela, kukunika umthandazo wokuba niphinde nitholane. Kwangathi uNkulunkulu angawamukela umthandazo wakho, uBen ajabulele ukuthula okuphakade eceleni kukaNkulunkulu. Uma kungenzeka, sicela uphinde uze ungivakashele emaphuphweni alandelayo, noma kungaba nje ukubingelela noma ukumamatheka okumnandi njengakuqala.”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Namuhla sekuyizinsuku eziyi-100 ungekho. Ngikukhumbula kakhulu Ben. Zizwe ukhululekile ukuza uvakashele noma nini! Sizobonana mngani! Ngikuthanda kakhulu!” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.

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Umkhuleko WeNkosi

Ngosizo loMsindisi futhi sifundiswe yimfundiso yaphezulu, silokotha sithi:

Baba wethu osezulwini, malingcweliswe igama lakho; umbuso wakho mawuze, intando yakho mayenziwe emhlabeni njengasezulwini. Siphe namuhla isinkwa sethu semihla ngemihla, usithethelele izono zethu, njengoba nathi sibathethelela abasonayo; ungasifaki ekulingweni, kodwa usikhulule ebubini. Amen.

Ubudlelwane boMoya
Nkosi yam uYesu, ndikholwa ukuba ukhona kwiSakramente eliNgcwele. Ndikuthanda ngaphezu kwako konke, kwaye ndinqwenela ukukwamkela emphefumlweni wam. Njengoko ngoku ndingenako ukukwamkela ngokwenyama, nceda uze kum ngokomoya. Ndikwamkela ngathi sele ulapha, kwaye ndizimanya nawe ngokupheleleyo. Ungaze undivumele ndahluke kuwe. Amen.
Ingoma Yokuhlanganyela
♪ “Sinkwa Sokuphila (Version A)” — A song for Ben
Isiphelo

Ngamana uThixo onamandla onke angakusikelela, akugcine, kwaye akukhokele kuxolo lwakhe olungapheliyo. Hamba ngoxolo.

✝ May almighty God bless you: the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Amen.

Ingoma Yokuvala
♪ “Sihamba Nawe (Version B - Organ & Cello)” — A song for Ben
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