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Tuesday, November 3, 2026 · in memory of Ben
Ukuzinikela okulandela iMisa — hhayi okungena esikhundleni sayo.
Ukungena

Igama likaYise, nelikaNdodana, nelikaMoya Oyingcwele. Makube kuxolo nobubele bukaThixo uBawo noNkosi yethu uYesu Kristu phezu kwenu nonke namhlanje.

Ububele

Nkosi, yiba nobubele ngathi. Kristu, yiba nobubele ngathi. Nkosi, yiba nobubele ngathi.

♪ “Nkosi Sihawukele (Piano & Strings)” — A song for Ben
EliLizwi
Isifundo sokuQala · Filipi 2:5-11
Bazalwana, yibani nalo moya ukhoyo kuKristu Yesu, owathi, nakuba ayemile kwimo kaThixo, akazange abone ukulingana noThixo njengempahla yokubanjwa ngamandla; kodwa wazihluba ngokwakhe, wathatha imo yesicaka, waba ngowafana nabantu; kwaye ekufumanekeni emeni njengomuntu, wazithoba ngokwakhe, waba yisiva kude kuse kufeni, ukufa kusemnqamlezweni. Ngenxa yoko uThixo wamphakamisa kakhulu, wamnika igama elingaphezu kwawo onke amagama, ukuba egameni likaYesu onke amadolo agobe, awasezulwini, nawasemhlabeni, nawaphantsi komhlaba; kwaye zonke iilwimi zivume ukuba uYesu Kristu yiNkosi, kube yinkazimlo kaThixo uBawo.
IHubo Lokubuyisela · IHubo 22:26b-27, 28-30ab, 30e, 31-32
Ndiyakudumisa, Nkosi, phakathi kwebandla labantu bakho. Ndiza kuzalisa izibhambathiso zam phambi kwabo abamoyikayo. Abaswelayo baya kudla bahluthe; abo bafuna iNKOSI baya kuyidumisa: “Makube nemihlali ezintliziyweni zenu ngonaphakade!” Ndiyakudumisa, Nkosi, phakathi kwebandla labantu bakho. Zonke the bempela zehlabathi ziya kukhumbula zibuyele eNKOSINI; zonke iintsapho zeentlanga ziya kugoba phambi kwakhe. Ndiyakudumisa, Nkosi, phakathi kwebandla labantu bakho. Kuba ubukumkani yeyeNKOSI, kwaye ulawula iintlanga. Yena yedwa baya kugoba phambi kwakhe bonke abalele emhlabeni. Ndiyakudumisa, Nkosi, phakathi kwebandla labantu bakho. Ku yena umphefumlo wam uya kuphila; inzalo yam iya kumkhonza. Isizukulwane esizayo masixelelwe ngeNKOSI, ukuze bazise kubantu abangazalwanga nokuba yintoni ubulungisa awayibonisayo. Ndiyakudumisa, Nkosi, phakathi kwebandla labantu bakho.
Ivangeli · Luka 14:15-24
Omnye wababehleli naye ekutyeni wathi kuye: “Unoyolo lowo uya kudla isidlo eBukumkanini bukaThixo.” Wathi ke yena kuye: “Umntu wenza isidlo esikhulu, wamema abaninzi. Ngelixa lesidlo wafuna isicaka sakhe ukuba sithi kubamenyiweyo: ‘Zisani, yonke into isilungile ngoku.’ Kodwa bonke ngamnye baqala ukuzithethelela. Owokuqala wathi kuye: ‘Ndithuthe isiza, kufanele ndiye kusihlolisisa; ndiyakucela, ndixolele.’ Omnye wathi: ‘Ndithuthe iinkomo ezintlanu zamajoki, ndisendleleni ndiye kuzivavanya; ndiyakucela, ndixolele.’ Omnye wathi: ‘Ndandisanda kutshata umfazi, ngenxa yoko andinakukwazi ukuza.’ Saza isicaka sabika le nto enkosini yaso. Waza umnini-ndlu waba nombengo, wathi sicakeni sakhe: ‘Phuma msinyane uye ezitratweni nasezindleleni zedolophu, uzise apha amahlwempu, nezibhola, nabaphofu, nezimbabazane.’ Sathi isicaka: ‘Nkosi, oko ukuyaleleyo kwenziwe, kwaye kusekho nendawo.’ Wathi ke umnini-ndlu kwisicaka: ‘Phuma uye ezindleleni nasemiqokweni, uqutywe abantu ukuba beze kuzaliswa indlu yam. Kuba ndithi kuni, akukho namnye kulabo madoda amenyiweyo oya kukha angeneliseke sisidlo sam.’”
Ndiyakudumisa, Nkosi, phakathi kwebandla labantu bakho.
Isifundo

Cinga ngetafile ende elungiselelwe kakuhle ekhaya, apho izitulo zivuliwe, amapleti abekwe ngocwangco, kwaye konke sekulungele ukwamkela abantu. Kodwa xa ixesha lifika lokuhlala, umyezo uhlala ungenamntu ngenxa yokuba abamenyiweyo bexakekile ngezinto zabo. KwiVangeli yanamhlanje, uYesu usibonisa umfanekiso wendoda eyenza isidlo esikhulu, eyandulela abantu ukuba beze. Kodwa lowo uthengiweyo umhlaba, lowo uthenge izinkomo, lowo usand’ ukutshata, bonke bayazibona izizathu zokungaya. Bagcwele zizinto ezincinci zeli hlabathi kangangokuba balibala ubukhulu besidlo esibekwe phambi kwabo.

Kule minyaka yobomi bethu, uBenjamin Vo wayezazi kakuhle izinto ezifana nalezo. Wayengumfana owayenengqondo eqaqambileyo yezibalo nolwazi lwezixhobo zekhompyutha, umntwana owayephila ubomi ngokuzimisela okuphelele, kanye njengaleyo ‘con chim airlines’ awayethanda ukuyihlekisa ngayo nobawo wakhe ngoncumo olumsulwa lwezindiza ezihamba phezulu. Kodwa ngaphezu kwako konke ukufunda nokusebenza, uBen wayeneentliziyo eyayibona ukuba yintoni eyona nto ibalulekileyo. Khumbula indlela awayehlekisa ngayo ngala maxesha omnandi xa ubawo wakhe wayemlumkisa ngezinto ezinye, kodwa yena wayenomdla wokuzama yonke into ngesibindi esithambileyo.

Kodwa ukuthetha ngothando olunjalo kusizisa kwelinye icala lobomi, kwicala eliba nzima ukulithwala ngamanye amaxesha. Alan noThao, nawe Ryan mfowethu omncane, ndiyazi ukuba kule minyane minne idlulileyo ukususela ngowe-13 kuJuni 2026, iintlungu ziza ngamanye amaxesha ngendlela embi kakhulu, zikushiya ungazi nokuba ume ngaphi. Kukho amandla emphefumlo aphelileyo, kukho ubusuku obude lapho ukungabikho kwesitulo sikaBen okanye ukungaphulaphuli kwakhe amabanga ayethethwa nguyise kubangela isikhewu ngaphandle kwesaziso. Kukho amaxesha apho ukuziva usodwa kuhlasela ngaphandle kwesaziso, kwaye umthwalo wokulahlekelwa uba nzima kakhulu ukuba ungathwalwa.

Mamela le nyaniso namhlanje, mhlawumbi ngendlela odinga ngayo ukuyiva ngoku: uThixo akamlibalanga uBen, kwaye akakubalelanga nani. Kwizinto ezenzekayo ebudeni bokugula kwabantwana, abazali abaninzi bazithwala ngokwabo umthwalo onzima kakhulu wokuzisola: 'Ngaba kukhona endinokukwenza ngcono? Ngaba ndiphosile?' Mamele kakuhle, Alan noThao: uThixo akakubeki icala. UBen akakubeki icala. Ezo zifo aziziswanga zizinto owazenzayo okanye ongazenzanga. Kweli hlabathi, kukho izinto ezenzeka ngaphandle kolawulo lomntu, ngaphandle kwempazamo yomzali. Awuphosanga nto. Uthando lwakho lwalucocekile, lwaluphelele, kwaye uBen wayesazi ukuba unothando olungaka kubazali bakhe nakuRyan. Khipha elo litye lokuzisola ezintliziyweni zenu namhlanje. UBen akajongi iziphoso; ujonge phezulu kuThixo, kwaye uqhubeka esithi kuwe: 'Ba, Mama, musani ukukhala kakhulu, ndikhuselekile.'

KwiNcwadi kaPawulos kwabaseFilipi, uPawulos usixelela amazwi kaYesu okuzithoba: 'Owayesefundeni sikaThixo, akazange athathe ukulingana noThixo njengento yokubambelela ngamandla, kodwa waziphoxa, wathatha imilo yesicaka, waba ngowabantu.' Masiyimele kancinci le ndinyana… UYesu akazange aziphakamise phezulu; wazithoba kwade kwaba sekufeni, kwade kwaba sekufeni emnqamlezweni. UBen wayenaleyo mfanekiso entliziyweni yakhe. Khumbula indlela awayezimise ngayo ukuba abe ngumntwana olungileyo, owayezimisela ukunceda abanye ngentliziyo yakhe yonke — njengalowo mzuzu lapho uBen wayefuna ukunikela ngemali yakhe yasebhange encinci ukunceda umalume wakhe uWilliam, ethetha ngothando olungenamkhawulo ngaphandle kokuba akhumbule ukuba yimalini eyayikhona, kodwa efuna nje ukunikela konke okwakhe.

Ryan, mfowethu okhoyo apha, ndifuna uthathe oku nawe. UBen akakushiye. Ukhona ecaleni kwakho, eqhubeka ekusebenza njengesikhokelo sothando. UBen wayengumfana owayenenqgondo enkulu yezibalo, kodwa ikratshi lakhe elikhulu kwakuwukuba ngumntwana omhle owayehlonipha abazali bakhe. UBen uya kuhlala ekukhuthaza, nangona ungamboni ngamehlo, kodwa uya kumva entliziyweni yakho. Uthando lwenu njengabazalwana luyinto engunaphakade. Xa uziva usodwa, khumbula ukuba uBen ukhona, uyaqhubeka, kwaye uya kuhlala ephila kuthando lukaThixo olungapheliyo.

Masithathe oku namhlanje: uBen wasishiya isipho sothando olungapheliyo. Kwisikhumbuzo sesidlo sasezulwini, lapho indlu kaThixo izele khona ngabantu abavela kude nakufi, masime nathi namhlanje siqinisekile ukuba ubomi bukaBen abuphelanga ethuneni. Usemthekweni wasezulwini, apho i-'con chim airlines' yakhe ibhabha ngokuphakamileyo phambi kobuso bukaThixo. Hamba ke namhlanje uphumle, uthembe ukuba uThixo uyakuthanda, kwaye uBen ulinda wena ngoncumo lwakhe oluqhelekileyo. UBen akakho nje kwimbali yenu; ukwikhona apho uThixo enza khona yonke into ibe ntsha. Uthando lwakho, Ben, lusaqhubeka luhamba emhlabeni, lusaqhubeka lukhanya, kwaye lusaqhubeka lukhumbuza wonke umntu okwaziyo ukuba uThixo uyamthanda umntwana wakhe ngaphezu kwayo yonke into. Hlalani neli themba. Hlalani nolu thando. UBen ukhona, uyaqhubeka, kwaye uya kuhlala ephila kuthando lukaThixo olungapheliyo. Amen.

Ukuzindla
♪ “Ubuhle Bendalo (Version B)” — A song for Ben
Izicelo

For the intentions entrusted to Ben on our prayer wall:

“Ngicabanga ngawe mngane wami! Dlula uzosho sawubona noma nini lapho ungakwazi khona, kulungile? Ngiyakuthanda Ben”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Hheyi Ben - Bengikuphupha kakhulu. Ngethemba ukuthi uyazijabulisa laphaya ezulwini. Sicela usibhekele umndeni wethu. Khumbula ukuza uzosibingelela nsuku zonke. Sikukhumbula kakhulu!” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, ebuthongweni uHuy ukubonile uza kumvakashela, kukunika umthandazo wokuba niphinde nitholane. Kwangathi uNkulunkulu angawamukela umthandazo wakho, uBen ajabulele ukuthula okuphakade eceleni kukaNkulunkulu. Uma kungenzeka, sicela uphinde uze ungivakashele emaphuphweni alandelayo, noma kungaba nje ukubingelela noma ukumamatheka okumnandi njengakuqala.”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, mfana wami omnandi, ngikukhumbula kakhulu. Ngiyabonga ngokuvakashela mina no-Chú Chris izolo ebusuku. Uthe ukubone undiza ngenqwelomoya—ukhululekile, ujabule, futhi unamandla lapho phezulu. Lapha phansi, mina nomama wakho sikhala nsuku zonke. Ingxenye yenhliziyo yami ifile ngokuphelele ngaphandle kwakho, Ben. Sicela usiqaphe, uthandazele umama wakho, umfowenu u-Ryan, kanye nami, futhi usinike amandla okuqhubeka. Sikuthanda kuze kube phakade.” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, ebuthongweni uHuy ukubonile uza kumvakashela, kukunika umthandazo wokuba niphinde nitholane. Kwangathi uNkulunkulu angawamukela umthandazo wakho, uBen ajabulele ukuthula okuphakade eceleni kukaNkulunkulu. Uma kungenzeka, sicela uphinde uze ungivakashele emaphuphweni alandelayo, noma kungaba nje ukubingelela noma ukumamatheka okumnandi njengakuqala.”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Namuhla sekuyizinsuku eziyi-100 ungekho. Ngikukhumbula kakhulu Ben. Zizwe ukhululekile ukuza uvakashele noma nini! Sizobonana mngani! Ngikuthanda kakhulu!” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, namuhla u-M uye e-Cam Ranh ukuyolungisa amaphepha, wadlula e-Cam Ranh Airport. Khona manjalo izingxoxo ngezindiza zika-Ben zabuya emqondweni, ngikhumbula izinkumbulo eziningi ngo-Ben (u-M uzozigcina ziyimfihlo kakaka). Ganyane elincane, ukucabanga ngawe kungenza ngiphatheke kabi kakhulu. Hamba uye ezindaweni u-Ben afuna ukuya kuzo futhi ungakhohlwa ukuhlale ukhumbula umndeni wakithi, ngikuthanda kakhulu mfowethu. Sengathi... !!!!!!!!!”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Kwenzekeni ndodana yami? Sekudlule izinyanga ezintathu wasishiya. Ngikukhumbula kakhulu umzimba wami wonke ubuhlungu. Umama uyakhala nsuku zonke manje... Sizokwenzenjani manje Ben? Sicela usikhulekele.” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.

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Umkhuleko WeNkosi

Ngosizo loMsindisi futhi sifundiswe yimfundiso yaphezulu, silokotha sithi:

Baba wethu osezulwini, malingcweliswe igama lakho; umbuso wakho mawuze, intando yakho mayenziwe emhlabeni njengasezulwini. Siphe namuhla isinkwa sethu semihla ngemihla, usithethelele izono zethu, njengoba nathi sibathethelela abasonayo; ungasifaki ekulingweni, kodwa usikhulule ebubini. Amen.

Ubudlelwane
Nkosi yam uYesu Kristu, ndiyakholwa ukuba ukhona kwiSakramente Eyingcwele yaseAltar. Ndiyakuthanda ngaphezu kwento zonke, kwaye ndinqwenela ukuba nawe emphefumlweni wam. Njengoko ndingenako ngoku ukwamkela kwiSakramente, nceda uze emphefumlweni wam ngendlela yomoya. Ndiyakwamkela njengokuba sele ndikhona, kwaye ndihlanganiswe nawe ngokuphelele; musa ukundivumela ukuba ndahlukane nawe nanini na. Amen.
Ingoma Yokuhlanganyela
♪ “Sinkwa Sokuphila (Version B)” — A song for Ben
Isibusiso

Ngamana uxolo lukaThixo olunika ukuqonda konke lungagcina iintliziyo zenu nengqondo yenu kuKristu Yesu. Amen.

✝ May almighty God bless you: the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Amen.

Ingoma Yokuvala
♪ “Sihamba Nawe (Version A - Piano & Strings)” — A song for Ben
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