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Saturday, October 31, 2026 · in memory of Ben
Ukuzinikela okulandela iMisa — hhayi okungena esikhundleni sayo.
Ukuvula

Egameni likaYise, nelikaNdodana, nelikaMoya oyingcwele. Makube nani, kwaye uThixo woxolo abe nani namhlanje.

Imfesane

Nkosi, yiba nenceba nathi. Kristu, yiba nenceba nathi. Nkosi, yiba nenceba nathi.

♪ “Nkosi Sihawukele (Piano & Strings)” — A song for Ben
Ilizwi
Isifundo sokuqala · KwabaseFilipi 1:18b-26
Bazalwana, naye wonke umzekelo, nokuba kukobuxoki nokuba kukonyaniso, uKristu uyashunyayelwa; kwaye kuloo nto ndiyavuya. Eneneni ndiya kuqhubeka ndisivuya; kuba ndiyazi ukuba le nto iya kuba yintsindiso kum ngemithandazo yenu nangoxhaso lomoya kaYesu Kristu. Ngokulindela kwam kwamkhulu nethemba lam, ukuba angekhe ndidanise ngantoni na, kodwa ngesibindi esiphelele, ngoku njengaminyonke, uKristu uya kukhuliswa emzimbeni wam, nokuba kungobomi nokuba kungokufa. Kuba kum ubomi nguKristu, kwaye ukufa kungenzuzo. Ukuba ndiyaqhubeka ndiphila enyameni, oko kuthetha umsebenzi ovelisayo kum. Kwaye andazi ukuba ndiya kukhetha ntoni na. Ndibanjwe phakathi kwezi zimbini. Ndinqwenela ukumka ndiye kuba noKristu, kuba oko kulungile kakhulu; kodwa ukuhlala kwam enyameni kuyimfuneko ngakumbi ngenxa yenu. Kwaye ndiyazi ngokuqinisekileyo oku, ukuba ndiya kuhlala ndize ndiqhubeke kwinkonzo yenu nonke, ukuze nikhule nibe nemivuyo elukholweni, ukuze ukugwagwisa kwenu kuKristu Yesu kuphuphume ngam xa ndibuyela kuni kwakhona.
INdumiso yokuphendula · INdumiso 42:2, 3, 5cdef
R. Umphefumlo wam unxanelwe uThixo ophilileyo. Njengexhala elilangazelela imisinga yamanzi, unjalo umphefumlo wam othi ukulangazelela wena, Thixo. R. Umphefumlo wam unxanelwe uThixo ophilileyo. Unxanelwe uThixo umphefumlo wam, uThixo ophilileyo; Ndiya kuza nini na ndize ndibonakale ebusweni bukaThixo? R. Umphefumlo wam unxanelwe uThixo ophilileyo. Ndaya nesihlwele, ndazikhokelela ngomkhosi endlwini kaThixo, Ngezwi luvuyo olukhulu nokubulela, nesiwele esigcina umthendeleko. R. Umphefumlo wam unxanelwe uThixo ophilileyo.
IVangeli · UTheko 14:1, 7-11
Kwaba ngomhla wesabatha uYesu waya kudla isidlo endlwini yomnye wabaphathi bafarisi, kwaye abantu babemjonga ngqo. Wathetha umzekelo kwabo babemenyiwe, ebonile indlela abakhetha ngayo izihlalo ezihloniphekileyo etafuleni, wathi: 'Xa umenywe ngumntu emshadweni, ungahlali esihlalweni esihloniphekileyo; hleze umntu ohlonipheke ngakumbi kunawe amenywe nguye, afike lowo ukumenyileyo wena naye, athi kuwe, "Nikela indawo yakhe lo mntu;" uze ke ngoku uqale ngeentloni ukuya kuthatha indawo ephantsi. Hayi ke, xa umenywe, yiya uthathe indawo ephantsi, ukuze xa afikayo lowo ukumenyileyo athi kuwe, "Mhlobo wam, nyukela phezulu." Uze ke ube nembeko phambi kwabo bonke abahleli nawe etafuleni. Kuba wonke oziphakamisayo uya kuthotshwa, kwaye ozithobayo uya kuphakanyiswa.'
Umphefumlo wam unxanelwe uThixo ophilileyo.
Isifundo

Kukho izinto ezibonakala zilula kakhulu emhlabeni, kodwa zithwala ubunzima obukhulu xa usima phambi kwazo. Cinga nje ngendawo yokuhlala etafileni, apho umntu ngamnye ekhetha khona isihlalo sakhe, apho umntu azibona ebalulekile khona ngokwasendleleni. Abantu bayajonga, bayabona ukuba ngubani ohlala phi, ngubani ofanele ukuhlonishwa, kwaye ngubani osayinwa njengomkhulu. Kule minyaka yobomi bethu, uBenjamin Vo wayezazi kakuhle ezo ndlela zokuhlala, engumntwana owayenengqondo eqaqambileyo yezibalo nolwazi, kodwa onezandla ezazithobekileyo ezazingafuni ukuziphakamisa phezulu ngaphezu kwabanye. UBen wayengumfana owayenenjongo enkulu, kodwa ekwaziyo ukuhlala phantsi ngokuzola, eyazi ukuba ubungcwele bukukuba ngumntwana phambi koThixo.

KwiVangeli yanamhlanje, uYesu ubona indlela abamenyiweyo abakhetha ngayo izihlalo ezihloniphekileyo kwisidlo somshado. Uyabajonga, aze athethe ngobulumko obujika yonke into: lowo uziphakamisayo uya kuthotshwa, kwayenedelelekayo, kodwa lowo uzithobayo uya kuphakanyiswa. Masiyimele kancinci le mfanekiso… UYesu akathethi nje ngemithetho yetafule okanye indlela yokuziphatha phambi kwabantu abakhulu. Uthetha ngentliziyo eguqukileyo. Uthetha ngendawo yokwenene apho umntu angenela khona ebomini bukaThixo, kungekhona ngamava okuzikhukhumeza, kodwa ngobubele bokuzithoba.

KwiNcwadi kaPawulos kwabaseFilipi namhlanje, uPawulos usixelela amazwi anzima kakhulu, amazwi aphuma entliziyweni ehluphekayo kodwa ethemba ngokuphelele: 'Kuba kum ubomi nguKristu, ukufa kungenzuzo.' Masiyimele le ndinyana… UPawulos ubhalela esentolongweni, eqonda ukuba ubomi bakhe busezandleni zikaThixo. Akoyiki kufa, kuba uyazi ukuba ukuba naye uKristu kuthetha ukuba ukwindawo ekhuselekileyo. UBenjamin Vo wayenezo ndlela zokholo. Kwiminyaka yakhe elishumi elinesihlanu emfushane, uBen wabonisa ukuba ubomi bakhe babungekho ekuzifuneleni yena wedwa, kodwa ekwazeni ukuba ungubani kuThixo. Khumbula indlela awayeyithanda ngayo indalo, indlela awayephila ngayo ngobuhle bokucinga ngezo nqwelo-moya zikhulu zibhabha phezulu, kanye njengaleyo ‘con chim airlines’ awayethanda ukuyihlekisa ngayo nobawo wakhe ngoncumo olumsulwa.

Kodwa ukuthetha ngothando olunjalo kusizisa kwelinye icala lobomi, kwicala eliba nzima ukulithwala ngamanye amaxesha. Alan noThao, nawe Ryan mfowethu omncane, ndiyazi ukuba kule minyane minne idlulileyo ukususela ngowe-13 kuJuni 2026, iintlungu ziza ngamanye amaxesha ngendlela embi kakhulu, zikushiya ungazi nokuba ume ngaphi. Kukho amandla emphefumlo aphelileyo, kukho ubusuku obude lapho ukungabikho kwesitulo sikaBen okanye ukungaphulaphuli kwakhe amabanga ayethethwa nguyise kubangela isikhewu esingazalisekiyo. Kodwa mamela le nyaniso namhlanje: uThixo akamlibalanga uBen, kwaye akakubalelanga nani.

Kwizinto ezenzekayo ebudeni bokugula, abazali abaninzi bazithwala ngokwabo umthwalo wokuzisola: 'Ngaba kukhona endinokukwenza ngcono? Ngaba ndiphosile?' Mamele kakuhle, Alan noThao: uThixo akakubeki icala. UBen akakubeki icala. Ezo zifo aziziswanga zizinto owazenzayo okanye ongazenzanga. Kweli hlabathi, kukho izinto ezenzeka ngaphandle kolawulo lomntu, ngaphandle kwempazamo yomzali. Awuphosanga nto. Uthando lwakho lwalucocekile, lwaluphelele, kwaye uBen wayesazi ukuba unothando olungaka kubazali bakhe nakuRyan. Khipha elo litye lokuzisola ezintliziyweni zenu namhlanje. UBen akajongi iziphoso; ujonge phezulu kuThixo, kwaye uqhubeka esithi kuwe: 'Ba, Mama, musani ukukhala kakhulu, ndikhuselekile.'

Ryan, mfowethu okhoyo apha, ndifuna uthathe oku nawe. UBen akakushiye. Ukhona ecaleni kwakho, eqhubeka ekusebenza njengesikhokelo sothando. UBen wayengumfana owayenenqgondo enkulu yezibalo ne-AI, kodwa ikratshi lakhe elikhulu kwakuwukuba ngumntwana omhle owayehlonipha abazali bakhe. UBen uya kuhlala ekukhuthaza, nangona ungamboni ngamehlo, kodwa uya kumva entliziyweni yakho. Uthando lwenu njengabazalwana luyinto engunaphakade. Xa uziva usodwa, khumbula ukuba uBen ukhona, uyaqhubeka, kwaye uya kuhlala ephila kuthando lukaThixo olungapheliyo.

Masithathe oku namhlanje: uBen wasishiya isipho sothando olungapheliyo. Kwisikhumbuzo salesi sidlo sasezulwini, masime nathi namhlanje siqinisekile ukuba ubomi bukaBen abuphelanga ethuneni. Usemthekweni wasezulwini, apho izinto zonke zintsha khona. Hamba ke namhlanje uphumle, uthembe ukuba uThixo uyakuthanda, kwaye uBen ulinda wena ngoncumo lwakhe oluqhelekileyo. UBen akakho nje kwimbali yenu; ukwikhona apho uThixo enza khona yonke into ibe ntsha. Uthando lwakho, Ben, lusaqhubeka luhamba emhlabeni, lusaqhubeka lukhanya, kwaye lusaqhubeka lukhumbuza wonke umntu okwaziyo ukuba uThixo uyamthanda umntwana wakhe ngaphezu kwayo yonke into. Hlalani neli themba. Hlalani nolu thando. UBen ukhona, uyaqhubeka, kwaye uya kuhlala ephila kuthando lukaThixo olungapheliyo. Amen.

Ukuzindla
♪ “Ubuhle Bendalo (Version B)” — A song for Ben
Izicelo

For the intentions entrusted to Ben on our prayer wall:

“Ngicabanga ngawe mngane wami! Dlula uzosho sawubona noma nini lapho ungakwazi khona, kulungile? Ngiyakuthanda Ben”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Hheyi Ben - Bengikuphupha kakhulu. Ngethemba ukuthi uyazijabulisa laphaya ezulwini. Sicela usibhekele umndeni wethu. Khumbula ukuza uzosibingelela nsuku zonke. Sikukhumbula kakhulu!” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, ebuthongweni uHuy ukubonile uza kumvakashela, kukunika umthandazo wokuba niphinde nitholane. Kwangathi uNkulunkulu angawamukela umthandazo wakho, uBen ajabulele ukuthula okuphakade eceleni kukaNkulunkulu. Uma kungenzeka, sicela uphinde uze ungivakashele emaphuphweni alandelayo, noma kungaba nje ukubingelela noma ukumamatheka okumnandi njengakuqala.”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, mfana wami omnandi, ngikukhumbula kakhulu. Ngiyabonga ngokuvakashela mina no-Chú Chris izolo ebusuku. Uthe ukubone undiza ngenqwelomoya—ukhululekile, ujabule, futhi unamandla lapho phezulu. Lapha phansi, mina nomama wakho sikhala nsuku zonke. Ingxenye yenhliziyo yami ifile ngokuphelele ngaphandle kwakho, Ben. Sicela usiqaphe, uthandazele umama wakho, umfowenu u-Ryan, kanye nami, futhi usinike amandla okuqhubeka. Sikuthanda kuze kube phakade.” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, ebuthongweni uHuy ukubonile uza kumvakashela, kukunika umthandazo wokuba niphinde nitholane. Kwangathi uNkulunkulu angawamukela umthandazo wakho, uBen ajabulele ukuthula okuphakade eceleni kukaNkulunkulu. Uma kungenzeka, sicela uphinde uze ungivakashele emaphuphweni alandelayo, noma kungaba nje ukubingelela noma ukumamatheka okumnandi njengakuqala.”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Namuhla sekuyizinsuku eziyi-100 ungekho. Ngikukhumbula kakhulu Ben. Zizwe ukhululekile ukuza uvakashele noma nini! Sizobonana mngani! Ngikuthanda kakhulu!” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, namuhla u-M uye e-Cam Ranh ukuyolungisa amaphepha, wadlula e-Cam Ranh Airport. Khona manjalo izingxoxo ngezindiza zika-Ben zabuya emqondweni, ngikhumbula izinkumbulo eziningi ngo-Ben (u-M uzozigcina ziyimfihlo kakaka). Ganyane elincane, ukucabanga ngawe kungenza ngiphatheke kabi kakhulu. Hamba uye ezindaweni u-Ben afuna ukuya kuzo futhi ungakhohlwa ukuhlale ukhumbula umndeni wakithi, ngikuthanda kakhulu mfowethu. Sengathi... !!!!!!!!!”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Kwenzekeni ndodana yami? Sekudlule izinyanga ezintathu wasishiya. Ngikukhumbula kakhulu umzimba wami wonke ubuhlungu. Umama uyakhala nsuku zonke manje... Sizokwenzenjani manje Ben? Sicela usikhulekele.” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.

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Umkhuleko WeNkosi

Ngosizo loMsindisi futhi sifundiswe yimfundiso yaphezulu, silokotha sithi:

Baba wethu osezulwini, malingcweliswe igama lakho; umbuso wakho mawuze, intando yakho mayenziwe emhlabeni njengasezulwini. Siphe namuhla isinkwa sethu semihla ngemihla, usithethelele izono zethu, njengoba nathi sibathethelela abasonayo; ungasifaki ekulingweni, kodwa usikhulule ebubini. Amen.

Ubudlelwane
Nkosi yam Yesuye Kristu, ndiyakholwa ukuba ukho kwiSakramente Eyingcwele yeAltare. Ndikuthanda ngaphezu kwento zonke, kwaye ndinqwenela ukuba nawe emphefumlweni wam. Njengoko ndingenako ngoku ukwamkela kwiSakramente, nceda uze emphefumlweni wam ngendlela yomoya. Ndiyamkela njengokuba sele ukhona, kwaye ndiyazibophelela kuwe ngokuphelele; musa ukundivumela ukuba ndahlukaniswe nawe naphakade. Amen.
Ingoma Yokuhlanganyela
♪ “Sinkwa Sokuphila (Version B)” — A song for Ben
Isigqumo

Ngamana uxolo lukaThixo olunqanda konke ukuqonda lungagcina iintliziyo zenu nengqondo zenu kuKristu Yesu. Makube njalo.

✝ May almighty God bless you: the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Amen.

Ingoma Yokuvala
♪ “Sihamba Nawe (Version A - Piano & Strings)” — A song for Ben
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