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NgoLwesihlanu weVeki ye-30 yexesha eliqhelekileyo

Friday, October 30, 2026 · in memory of Ben
Ukuzinikela okulandela iMisa — hhayi okungena esikhundleni sayo.
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Egameni likaYise, neloNyana, neloMoya oyiNgcwele. Makube noxolo nenceba kaThixo uYise neNkosi yethu uYesu Kristu kuni nonke.

Isicelo soxolo

Nkosi, usivele inceba. Kristu, usivele inceba. Nkosi, usivele inceba.

♪ “Nkosi Sihawukele (Piano & Strings)” — A song for Ben
Ilizwi likaThixo
Isifundo sokuqala · Philippians 1:1-11
UPawulos noTimoti, amakhoboka kaKristu Yesu, kubo bonke abangcwele kuKristu Yesu abaseFilipi, kunye nabaBhishophu kunye neediakoni: ubabalo kuni noxolo oluvela kuThixo uYise wethu neNkosi uYesu Kristu. Ndibulela kuThixo wam kuyo yonke inkumbulo yenu, ndithandaza ngalo lonke ixesha ngovuyo kuyo yonke imithandazo yam ngani nonke, ngenxa yobambiswano lwenu evangelini ukususela ngosuku lokuqala kude kube ngoku. Ndiqinisekile ngale nto, ukuba lowo waqalayo umsebenzi omhle kuni uya kuwufeza kude kube lusuku lukaKristu Yesu. Kulungile ukuba ndicinge ngolu hlobo ngani nonke, kuba ndinani entliziyweni yam, nina nonke eningamahlakani am kubabalo, ekuboshweni kwam nasekukhuselweni nasekuqinisekisweni kwevangeli. Kuba uThixo ungungqina wam, indlela endinilangazelela ngayo nonke ngothando lukaKristu Yesu. Kwaye lo ngumthandazo wam: ukuba uthando lwenu lukhule kakhulu nangakumbi elwazini nakulo lonke uhlobo lokuqonda, ukuze niquke oko kuxabisekileyo, ukuze nibe nyulu kwaye ningenasiphoso ngosuku lukaKristu, nizaliswe ziziqhamo zobulungisa eziza ngoYesu Kristu zodumo nendumiso kaThixo.
INdumiso · Psalm 111:1-2, 3-4, 5-6
R. Makhulu kakhulu amandla nemisebenzi yeNkosi! Ndiza kubulela kwiNKOSI ngentliziyo yam yonke kwibandla nasehlanganisweni yamalungisa. Mkhulu imisebenzi yeNKOSI, imnandi kuyo yonke imincili yayo. R. Makhulu kakhulu amandla nemisebenzi yeNkosi! Ubungangamsha nozuko ngumsebenzi wayo, nobulungisa bayo buma ngonaphakade. Yenze igama layo elikhulu ngemisebenzi yayo emangalisayo; inenceba kwaye inemfesane iNKOSI. R. Makhulu kakhulu amandla nemisebenzi yeNkosi! Inike ukutya kwabo bayoyikayo; iya kuhlala ikhumbula umnqophiso wayo. Yazisile abantu bayo amandla emisebenzi yayo, ibanika ilifa leentlanga. R. Makhulu kakhulu amandla nemisebenzi yeNkosi!
IVangeli · Luke 14:1-6
Ngosuku lwesabatha uYesu waya kutya endlwini yomnye wabaphathi bamaFarisi, kwaye abantu apho babemjongisisa. Phambi kwakhe kwakukho indoda ephethwe sisifo. UYesu wathetha kubafundi bomthetho nakumaFarisi ephendula, esithi, 'Ngaba kusemthethweni ukuphilisa ngomhla wesabatha okanye hayi?' Kodwa bathula; ngoko wayithatha indoda leyo, emva kokuba eyiphilisile, wayimukisa. Emva koko wathi kubo, 'Ngubani kuni, ukuba unyana wakhe okanye inkomo yakhe iwele emthonjeni, ongawelekiyo ayikhuphule ngoko nangoko ngomhla wesabatha?' Kodwa abazange bakwazi ukuphendula umbuzo wakhe.
Makhulu kakhulu amandla nemisebenzi yeNkosi!
Intshumayelo

Kukho imizuzu apho ubomi bujongeka njengendawo apho sifumana khona izinto ezincinci, eziqhelekileyo, kodwa ezithwala ubunzima obukhulu bentliziyo. Cinga nje ngomfanekiso oqhelekileyo: iinqwelo-moya ezincinci zephepha okanye ikhadi elinomfanekiso wenqwelo-moya ebekwe phezu kwetafile. UBenjamin Vo wayengumfana owayeyithanda kakhulu le nto. Wayengumfana owayejonga phezulu, engaboni nje ubumnyama okanye amafu, kodwa ebona amathuba. Wayeyindoda encinci eyayinezixhobo zokuqonda ikamva, eyayibona ukuba ubomi bunokubhabha kude, bunokufikelela kwiindawo ezintsha, kwaye bunokuba yinto enkulu kunokuba singayicinga apha emhlabeni. UBen wayengumfana owayephethe ukukhanya okukhulu, enqwenela ukubona izinto zihamba kakuhle kwabo bonke abamngqongileyo.

Namhlanje, kwiNcwadi kaPawulos kwabaseFilipi, uPawulos usixelela into enzulu: 'Ndiqinisekile ukuba lowo waqalayo umsebenzi omhle kuni uya kuwufeza.' Masiyimele kancinci le ndinyana… Awuthi uThixo uya kuqalisa into aze ayiyeke. Uthi uThixo uqhubeka esebenza, nangona thina singaboni, nangona thina siziva silahlekile. UBen wayengumsebenzi omuhle kaThixo. Wayengumfana owayenengqondo eqaqambileyo, kodwa ngaphezu kwako konke, wayenentliziyo eyayikwazi ukubona abanye. Khumbula indlela awayethanda ngayo ukuba nomdla kwabanye, indlela awayehlala enoncumo lwakhe olwaluthi, 'Ndikhona, ndiyakuthanda.' UBen wayengumfana owayewazi umthetho omkhulu kwaye wawuphila ngendlela yakhe ethuleyo kodwa enamandla.

Kodwa ukuthetha ngothando olunjalo kusizisa kwelinye icala lobomi, kwicala eliba nzima ukulithwala ngamanye amaxesha. KwiVangeli yanamhlanje, sibona uYesu esitya kwindlu yomFarisi, apho kukho indoda ephethwe sisifo. Abantu bayamjonga uYesu, befuna ukubona ukuba uya kwenza ntoni. UYesu uyayazi intliziyo yabo. Ubuza umbuzo othi: 'Ngaba kusemthethweni ukuphilisa ngomhla wesabatha?' Bathi cwaka. UYesu uyayithatha indoda leyo, uyayiphilisa, aze ayikhulule. Emva koko uthi: 'Ngubani kuni, ukuba unyana wakhe okanye inkomo yakhe iwele emthonjeni, ongawelekiyo ayikhuphule ngoko nangoko?'

Nanku umfanekiso wethu namhlanje: umthombo. Umthombo yindawo apho amanzi aphuma khona, apho ubomi buhlaziywa khona. UYesu ubuza ukuba, xa into esiyithandayo isemngciphekweni, ngaba siya kuhlala sijongile nje? Hayi. Siya kukhawuleza. Siya kukhulula. Kodwa nina, Alan noThao, nawe Ryan, ndiyazi ukuba kule minyane minne idlulileyo ukususela ngowe-13 kuJuni 2026, iintlungu ziza ngamanye amaxesha ngendlela embi kakhulu, zikushiya ungazi nokuba ume ngaphi. Kukho amandla emphefumlo aphelileyo, kukho ubusuku obude lapho ukungabikho kwesitulo sikaBen okanye ukungaphulaphuli kwakhe amabanga ayethethwa nguyise kubangela isikhewu esingazalisekiyo. Kodwa mamela le nyaniso namhlanje: uThixo akamlibalanga uBen, kwaye akakubalelanga nani.

Kwizinto ezenzekayo ebudeni bokugula, abazali abaninzi bazithwala ngokwabo umthwalo wokuzisola: 'Ngaba kukhona endinokukwenza ngcono? Ngaba ndiphosile?' Mamele kakuhle, Alan noThao: uThixo akakubeki icala. UBen akakubeki icala. Ezo zifo aziziswanga zizinto owazenzayo okanye ongazenzanga. Kweli hlabathi, kukho izinto ezenzeka ngaphandle kolawulo lomntu, ngaphandle kwempazamo yomzali. Awuphosanga nto. Uthando lwakho lwalucocekile, lwaluphelele, kwaye uBen wayesazi ukuba unothando olungaka kubazali bakhe nakuRyan. Khipha elo litye lokuzisola ezintliziyweni zenu namhlanje. UBen akajongi iziphoso; ujonge phezulu kuThixo, kwaye uqhubeka esithi kuwe: 'Ba, Mama, musani ukukhala kakhulu, ndikhuselekile.'

Nceda ukhumbule ukuba uRyan, nawe mntwana okhoyo apha, umntwana okhuliswe ngothando olukhulu, uBen akakushiye. Ukhona ecaleni kwakho, eqhubeka ekusebenza njengesikhokelo sothando. UBen wayengumfana owayenenqgondo enkulu yezibalo ne-AI, kodwa ikratshi lakhe elikhulu kwakuwukuba ngumntwana omhle owayehlonipha abazali bakhe. UBen uya kuhlala ekukhuthaza, nangona ungamboni ngamehlo, kodwa uya kumva entliziyweni yakho. Uthando lwenu njengabazalwana luyinto engunaphakade. Xa uziva usodwa, khumbula ukuba uBen ukhona, uyaqhubeka, kwaye uya kuhlala ephila kuthando lukaThixo olungapheliyo.

Masithathe oku namhlanje: uBen wasishiya isipho sothando olungapheliyo. Kwisikhumbuzo sabangcwele abasifundisa ukuba nibe nesibindi sokuma ngenxa kaKristu, masime nathi namhlanje siqinisekile ukuba ubomi bukaBen abuphelanga ethuneni. Usemthekweni wasezulwini, apho i-'con chim airlines' yakhe ibhabha ngokuphakamileyo phambi kobuso bukaThixo. Hamba ke namhlanje uphumle, uthembe ukuba uThixo uyakuthanda, kwaye uBen ulinda wena ngoncumo lwakhe oluqhelekileyo. UBen akakho nje kwimbali yenu; ukwikhona apho uThixo enza khona yonke into ibe ntsha. Uthando lwakho, Ben, lusaqhubeka luhamba emhlabeni, lusaqhubeka lukhanya, kwaye lusaqhubeka lukhumbuza wonke umntu okwaziyo ukuba uThixo uyamthanda umntwana wakhe ngaphezu kwayo yonke into. Hlalani neli themba. Hlalani nolu thando. UBen ukhona, uyaqhubeka, kwaye uya kuhlala ephila kuthando lukaThixo olungapheliyo. Amen.

Ukuzindla
♪ “Ubuhle Bendalo (Version B)” — A song for Ben
Izicelo

For the intentions entrusted to Ben on our prayer wall:

“Ngicabanga ngawe mngane wami! Dlula uzosho sawubona noma nini lapho ungakwazi khona, kulungile? Ngiyakuthanda Ben”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Hheyi Ben - Bengikuphupha kakhulu. Ngethemba ukuthi uyazijabulisa laphaya ezulwini. Sicela usibhekele umndeni wethu. Khumbula ukuza uzosibingelela nsuku zonke. Sikukhumbula kakhulu!” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, ebuthongweni uHuy ukubonile uza kumvakashela, kukunika umthandazo wokuba niphinde nitholane. Kwangathi uNkulunkulu angawamukela umthandazo wakho, uBen ajabulele ukuthula okuphakade eceleni kukaNkulunkulu. Uma kungenzeka, sicela uphinde uze ungivakashele emaphuphweni alandelayo, noma kungaba nje ukubingelela noma ukumamatheka okumnandi njengakuqala.”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, mfana wami omnandi, ngikukhumbula kakhulu. Ngiyabonga ngokuvakashela mina no-Chú Chris izolo ebusuku. Uthe ukubone undiza ngenqwelomoya—ukhululekile, ujabule, futhi unamandla lapho phezulu. Lapha phansi, mina nomama wakho sikhala nsuku zonke. Ingxenye yenhliziyo yami ifile ngokuphelele ngaphandle kwakho, Ben. Sicela usiqaphe, uthandazele umama wakho, umfowenu u-Ryan, kanye nami, futhi usinike amandla okuqhubeka. Sikuthanda kuze kube phakade.” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, ebuthongweni uHuy ukubonile uza kumvakashela, kukunika umthandazo wokuba niphinde nitholane. Kwangathi uNkulunkulu angawamukela umthandazo wakho, uBen ajabulele ukuthula okuphakade eceleni kukaNkulunkulu. Uma kungenzeka, sicela uphinde uze ungivakashele emaphuphweni alandelayo, noma kungaba nje ukubingelela noma ukumamatheka okumnandi njengakuqala.”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Namuhla sekuyizinsuku eziyi-100 ungekho. Ngikukhumbula kakhulu Ben. Zizwe ukhululekile ukuza uvakashele noma nini! Sizobonana mngani! Ngikuthanda kakhulu!” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, namuhla u-M uye e-Cam Ranh ukuyolungisa amaphepha, wadlula e-Cam Ranh Airport. Khona manjalo izingxoxo ngezindiza zika-Ben zabuya emqondweni, ngikhumbula izinkumbulo eziningi ngo-Ben (u-M uzozigcina ziyimfihlo kakaka). Ganyane elincane, ukucabanga ngawe kungenza ngiphatheke kabi kakhulu. Hamba uye ezindaweni u-Ben afuna ukuya kuzo futhi ungakhohlwa ukuhlale ukhumbula umndeni wakithi, ngikuthanda kakhulu mfowethu. Sengathi... !!!!!!!!!”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Kwenzekeni ndodana yami? Sekudlule izinyanga ezintathu wasishiya. Ngikukhumbula kakhulu umzimba wami wonke ubuhlungu. Umama uyakhala nsuku zonke manje... Sizokwenzenjani manje Ben? Sicela usikhulekele.” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.

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Umkhuleko WeNkosi

Ngosizo loMsindisi futhi sifundiswe yimfundiso yaphezulu, silokotha sithi:

Baba wethu osezulwini, malingcweliswe igama lakho; umbuso wakho mawuze, intando yakho mayenziwe emhlabeni njengasezulwini. Siphe namuhla isinkwa sethu semihla ngemihla, usithethelele izono zethu, njengoba nathi sibathethelela abasonayo; ungasifaki ekulingweni, kodwa usikhulule ebubini. Amen.

Ukunxulumana ngokomoya
Nkosi yam uYesu, ndiyakholwa ukuba ukhona kule Sakramente yothando. Nangona ndingenako ukukwamkela ngoku ngokwasemzimbeni, ndiyakumema entliziyweni yam ngomoya. Ndiyakwamkela, ndimanyane nawe ngokupheleleyo; musa ukundivumela ukuba ndohlukane nawe nanini na. Amen.
Ingoma Yokuhlanganyela
♪ “Sinkwa Sokuphila (Version B)” — A song for Ben
Isiphelo

Ngamana uThixo onamandla angakusikelela, akugcine, kwaye akukhaphe ngoxolo lwakhe. Hamba ngoxolo.

✝ May almighty God bless you: the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Amen.

Ingoma Yokuvala
♪ “Sihamba Nawe (Version A - Piano & Strings)” — A song for Ben
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