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Isikhumbuzo sikaNgcwele Yohane de Brébeuf no-Isaac Jogues, abaFundisi, naMahlawulela abo, abaMartire

Monday, October 19, 2026 · in memory of Ben
Ukuzinikela okulandela iMisa — hhayi okungena esikhundleni sayo.
Ukungeniswa

Igama likaYise, nelikaNdodana, nelikaMoya oyiNgcwele. Makube kuxolo lobubele lukaThixo uSomandla olusezintliziyweni zenu nonke namhlanje.

Ububele

Nkosi, wena ungumthombo wobubele obungapheliyo, yiba nenceba kuthi. Kristu, wena usikhanyisela ebumnyameni betsi, yiba nenceba kuthi. Nkosi, wena usibiza ukuba sibe ngabantwana bakho bonaphakade, yiba nenceba kuthi.

♪ “Nkosi Sihawukele (Piano & Strings)” — A song for Ben
Lizwi likaThixo
Ukufundwa kokuqala · Efese 2:1-10
Bazalwana, nina naba nifile ngenxa yeziphoso zenu nezono zenu, enaza nahlala kuzo kudala ngokuhambisana neli hlabathi, ngokwabaluleki bamandla asezulwini, umoya osebenzayo ngoku kubantu abangaweviyo uMthetho. Thina sonke siphila phakathi kwabo kudala ngokunqwenela inyama yethu, sisenza izinto ezifunwa yinyyama nengqondo, kwaye sasingabantwana bomsindo ngendlela yemvelo nj abanye. Kodwa uThixo, otyebileyo ngenceba, ngenxa yothando lwakhe olukhulu asithanda ngalo, naxa sasifa ngenxa yeziphoso zenu, wasiphilisa noKristu—senzelwe usindiso ngenceba—wasivusa kunye naye, wasihlalisela naye ezulwini kuKristu Yesu, ukuze kwimizi ezayo abonise ubutyebi obungenasiphelo bobubele bakhe ngobubele bakhe kuthi kuKristu Yesu. Kuba nisindisiwe ngenceba ngokholo; kwaye oku akuveli kuni, kuyisipho sikaThixo; akuveli ngemisebenzi, ukuze kungabikho mntu uziqhayisayo. Kuba singumsebenzi wakhe, owadalelwa kuKristu Yesu imisebenzi emihle, eyalungiselelwa nguThixo kwasekuqaleni, ukuze sihambe kuyo.
IHubo Lempendulo · IHubo 100:1b-2, 3, 4ab, 4c-5
R. Nkosi usenze, singabakho. Dumisani uYehova, zizwe zonke; khonzani uYehova ngovunjana; zani phambi kwakhe ngengoma yovuyo. R. Nkosi usenze, singabakho. Yazini ukuba uYehova nguThixo; nguye owasenzayo, singabakho; singabantu bakhe, umhlambi awuselayo. R. Nkosi usenze, singabakho. Ngenani emasangweni akhe ngombulelo, nasezintendelekweni zakhe ngendumiso. R. Nkosi usenze, singabakho. Mbuleleni, libongeni igama lakhe, kuba uYehova ulungile; ububele bakhe bunqunyulwa naphakade, nenyani yakhe kwiimio zizukulwana ngezizukulwana. R. Nkosi usenze, singabakho.
Ivangeli · Luka 12:13-21
Omnye esixukwini wathi kuYesu: “Mfundisi, tsho kumzalwana wam ukuba abelane nam ngelifa.” UYesu wamphendula wathi: “Mntu ndini, ngubani owandenza umgwebi okanye umameli phakathi kwenu?” Waza wathi kubantu: “Qaphelani nilumkele bonke ubuhanaha, kuba ubomi bomntu abukho enGCINI yenala yezinto azizuzeyo.” Wabalisa umzekelo kubo, wathi: “Kwakukho umntu otyebileyo owavelisa intsimi yakhe kakhulu. Wazibuza wathi: ‘Ndiya kwenza njani na, ngokuba ndingenandawo yokugcina isivuno sam?’ Wathi: ‘Ndiya kwenza oku: ndiya kuzidiliza izinqala zam, ndakhe ezinkulu kunezo, ndigcine kuzo zonke iinkozo zam nezinto zam, ndize ndithi emphefumlweni wam: Mphefumlo wam, unezinto ezininzi ezibekelwe iminyaka emininzi; phumla, udle, usele, uvuye.’ Kodwa uThixo wathi kuye: ‘Msweli-lwazi! Ngobu busuku umphefumlo wakho uya kufunwa kuwe; zona izinto ozilungisileyo ziya kuba ngekabani na?’ Kunjalo ke kulowo uzigcinela ubutyebi, engatyebanga kuThixo.”
Nkosi usenze, singabakho.
Isifundo

Kukho imizuzu lapho umhlaba uzolile khona kakhulu, lapho ukujonga kwakho kuwela phezu kwezinto ezincinci ezishiwo ngumntu omthandayo… mhlawumbi yincwadi yezandla ezibhala ikhowudi yekhompyutha, okanye umzobo omdala owenziwe ngabantwana. Cinga ngaloo mzuzu uBenjamin Vo awayehlala ngayo ekhaya, ephindaphinda amagama ezindiza zakhe ezintsha, edala inkampani yamaphupha akhe awayeyibiza ngokuthi 'con chim airlines'. Wayencuma nje ngokukhululeka, egigitheka kancinci xa ethetha ngaloo ndiza yakhe esuka emhlabeni isiwa emafini. Kwakungeyona nje imidlalo yomntwana; kwakuyintliziyo eyayibona ikamva elingenasiphelo, eyayazi ukuba ubomi abuvaliwe apha emhlabeni kuphela. Ben wayengumfana owayephethe ukukhanya okukhulu, enqwenela ukubona izinto zihamba kakuhle kwabo bonke abamngqongileyo.

Namhlanje, kwiNcwadi ka-Efese, uPawulos usitsalela phezulu kakhulu. Uthi: 'Kodwa uThixo, otyebileyo ngenceba, ngenxa yothando lwakhe olukhulu asithanda ngalo, naxa sasifa ngenxa yeziphoso zethu, wasiphilisa noKristu.' Masiyimele kancinci le ndinyana… Awuthi uThixo wasikhangela kuphela esenza kakuhle. Uthe naxa sasifile ezonweni zethu, naxa umthwalo wawunzima, uthando lwakhe lwaphula udonga lwaqhawula amafu lweza kuthi. UBen wayeyazi le nyaniso ngendlela yakhe ethuleyo. Khumbula ukuba xa wayeneminyaka elishumi nanhlanje, unina noyise bakhumbula umnqweno wakhe wokunikela ngayo yonke imali yasebhange encinci yakhe ukuncede umalume wakhe uWilliam owayehlaselwe yimivumbo. Wayengazange ayiphule loo ngulube yemali, yayingekho imfuneko yokuba ayiphule ngenxa yokuba umalume wayene-inshurensi. Kodwa loo mnikelo wangoqobo, lowo mbono womntwana owayezimiseleyo ukunikela ngako konke okwakhe ngaphandle kokubala, usixelela ukuba uBen wayenesipho esikhulu sothando olungenamiqathango.

KwiVangeli yanamhlanje kaLuka, sifumana umntu oza kuYesu esithi: 'Mfundisi, tsho kumzalwana wam ukuba abelane nam ngelifa.' UYesu uyaphendula, abuqaphele ubudlelwane obonakeleyo benyama nemali, kwaye uyamxwayisa umntu ngamoyo wamarhubuluza: 'Qaphelani nilumkele bonke ubuhanaha, kuba ubomi bomntu abukho enGCINI yenala yezinto azizuzeyo.' UYesu ulandelisa ngomzekelo waloo mntu otyebileyo owakha izinqala ezinkulu ukuze azigcinele ubutyebi, kodwa uThixo athi kuye: 'Zumnyama, ngobu busuku umphefumlo wakho uya kufunwa kuwe.' Loo mzekelo usixelela ngokucacileyo ngale nto iphilayo phakathi kwethu namhlanje. Ubomi abukho kwezo zinto sizigcinayo; busekubeni sisityebi phambi koThixo.

Alan, Thao, nawe Ryan mfowethu omncane, ndiyazi ukuba kule minyane minne idlulileyo ukususela ngowe-13 kuJuni 2026, iintlungu ziza ngamanye amaxesha ngendlela embi kakhulu. Kukho amandla emphefumlo aphelileyo, kukho ubusuku obude lapho ukungabikho kwesitulo sikaBen okanye ukungaphulaphuli kwakhe amabanga ayethethwa nguyise kubangela isikhewu esingazalisekiyo. Kodwa mamela le nyaniso namhlanje: uThixo akamlibalanga uBen, kwaye akakubalelanga nani. Kwizinto ezenzekayo ebudeni bokugula, abazali abaninzi bazithwala ngokwabo umthwalo wokuzisola: 'Ngaba kukhona endinokukwenza ngcono? Ngaba ndiphosile?' Mamele kakuhle, Alan noThao: uThixo akakubeki icala. UBen akakubeki icala. Ezo zifo aziziswanga zizinto owazenzayo okanye ongazenzanga. Kweli hlabathi, kukho izinto ezenzeka ngaphandle kolawulo lomntu, ngaphandle kwempazamo yomzali. Awuphosanga nto. Uthando lwakho lwalucocekile, lwaluphelele, kwaye uBen wayesazi ukuba unothando olungaka kubazali bakhe nakuRyan. Khipha elo litye lokuzisola ezintliziyweni zenu namhlanje. UBen akajongi iziphoso; ujonge phezulu kuThixo, kwaye uqhubeka esithi kuwe: 'Ba, Mama, musani ukukhala kakhulu, ndikhuselekile.'

Ryan, mfowethu omncane, ndiyazi ukuba ukhumbula uBen kakhulu. Xa ucinga ngemidlalo yenu, ngale roller coaster enayikhwela ngeziganeko ezimnandi, yazi ukuba uBen akakushiye. Ukhona ecaleni kwakho, eqhubeka ekusebenza njengesikhokelo sothando. UBen wayengumfana owayenenqgondo enkulu yezibalo ne-AI, kodwa ikratshi lakhe elikhulu kwakuwukuba ngumntwana omhle owayehlonipha abazali bakhe.

Masithathe oku namhlanje: uBen wasishiya isipho sothando esingapheliyo. Kwisikhumbuzo sabangcwele abasifundisa ukuba nibe nesibindi sokuma ngenxa kaKristu, masime nathi namhlanje siqinisekile ukuba ubomi bukaBen abuphelanga ethuneni. Usemthekweni wasezulwini, apho i-'con chim airlines' yakhe ibhabha ngokuphakamileyo phambi kobuso bukaThixo. Hamba ke namhlanje uphumle, uthembe ukuba uThixo uyakuthanda, kwaye uBen ulinda wena ngoncumo lwakhe oluqhelekileyo. Amen.

Ukuzindla
♪ “Ubuhle Bendalo (Version B)” — A song for Ben
Izicelo

For the intentions entrusted to Ben on our prayer wall:

“Hheyi Ben - Bengikuphupha kakhulu. Ngethemba ukuthi uyazijabulisa laphaya ezulwini. Sicela usibhekele umndeni wethu. Khumbula ukuza uzosibingelela nsuku zonke. Sikukhumbula kakhulu!” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, ebuthongweni uHuy ukubonile uza kumvakashela, kukunika umthandazo wokuba niphinde nitholane. Kwangathi uNkulunkulu angawamukela umthandazo wakho, uBen ajabulele ukuthula okuphakade eceleni kukaNkulunkulu. Uma kungenzeka, sicela uphinde uze ungivakashele emaphuphweni alandelayo, noma kungaba nje ukubingelela noma ukumamatheka okumnandi njengakuqala.”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, mfana wami omnandi, ngikukhumbula kakhulu. Ngiyabonga ngokuvakashela mina no-Chú Chris izolo ebusuku. Uthe ukubone undiza ngenqwelomoya—ukhululekile, ujabule, futhi unamandla lapho phezulu. Lapha phansi, mina nomama wakho sikhala nsuku zonke. Ingxenye yenhliziyo yami ifile ngokuphelele ngaphandle kwakho, Ben. Sicela usiqaphe, uthandazele umama wakho, umfowenu u-Ryan, kanye nami, futhi usinike amandla okuqhubeka. Sikuthanda kuze kube phakade.” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, ebuthongweni uHuy ukubonile uza kumvakashela, kukunika umthandazo wokuba niphinde nitholane. Kwangathi uNkulunkulu angawamukela umthandazo wakho, uBen ajabulele ukuthula okuphakade eceleni kukaNkulunkulu. Uma kungenzeka, sicela uphinde uze ungivakashele emaphuphweni alandelayo, noma kungaba nje ukubingelela noma ukumamatheka okumnandi njengakuqala.”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Namuhla sekuyizinsuku eziyi-100 ungekho. Ngikukhumbula kakhulu Ben. Zizwe ukhululekile ukuza uvakashele noma nini! Sizobonana mngani! Ngikuthanda kakhulu!” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, namuhla u-M uye e-Cam Ranh ukuyolungisa amaphepha, wadlula e-Cam Ranh Airport. Khona manjalo izingxoxo ngezindiza zika-Ben zabuya emqondweni, ngikhumbula izinkumbulo eziningi ngo-Ben (u-M uzozigcina ziyimfihlo kakaka). Ganyane elincane, ukucabanga ngawe kungenza ngiphatheke kabi kakhulu. Hamba uye ezindaweni u-Ben afuna ukuya kuzo futhi ungakhohlwa ukuhlale ukhumbula umndeni wakithi, ngikuthanda kakhulu mfowethu. Sengathi... !!!!!!!!!”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Kwenzekeni ndodana yami? Sekudlule izinyanga ezintathu wasishiya. Ngikukhumbula kakhulu umzimba wami wonke ubuhlungu. Umama uyakhala nsuku zonke manje... Sizokwenzenjani manje Ben? Sicela usikhulekele.” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“We Ben, uRafael Rizzo nomfowabo omncane uBen baludinga ngempela usizo lwakho njengamanje. Sicela ubabusise ngempilo enhle futhi ubanike amandla okudlula kulokhu ndawonye. Sicela ugade nempilo kaBrandon noFlor futhi. Ngikukhumbula kakhulu impela. Ngiyazi ukuthi uphezulu ezulwini usigadile sonke. Noma nini lapho ukwazi khona, udlule uzosivakashela, angithi? Ngiyakuthanda futhi ngikukhumbula kakhulu!” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.

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Umkhuleko WeNkosi

Ngosizo loMsindisi futhi sifundiswe yimfundiso yaphezulu, silokotha sithi:

Baba wethu osezulwini, malingcweliswe igama lakho; umbuso wakho mawuze, intando yakho mayenziwe emhlabeni njengasezulwini. Siphe namuhla isinkwa sethu semihla ngemihla, usithethelele izono zethu, njengoba nathi sibathethelela abasonayo; ungasifaki ekulingweni, kodwa usikhulule ebubini. Amen.

Ukuvumelana koMoya
Nkosi yam uYesu Kristu, ndiyakholwa ukuba ukhona kwiSakramente eliCilekileyo leAltare. Ndiyakuthanda ngaphezu kwezinto zonke, kwaye ndinqwenela ukuba nawe emphefumlweni wam. Njengoko ndingenako ukukwamukela ngoku kwiSakramente, nceda uze emphefumlweni wam ngendlela yomoya. Ndiyakwamukela njengokuba sele ukhona, kwaye ndibophelela kuwe ngokuphelele; musa ukuvumela ukuba ndahlukane nawe nanini na. Amen.
Ingoma Yokuhlanganyela
♪ “Sinkwa Sokuphila (Version B)” — A song for Ben
Isibusiso sokuvala

Makube uThixo uSomandla onikhuselayo, onipha uxolo olunzulu, kwaye onikhokelela ekukhanyeni kwakhe namhlanje naphakade. Amen.

✝ May almighty God bless you: the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Amen.

Ingoma Yokuvala
♪ “Sihamba Nawe (Version A - Piano & Strings)” — A song for Ben
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