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Isikhumbuzo sikaSaint Josaphat, uBhishophu kunye noMartire

Thursday, November 12, 2026 · in memory of Ben
Ukuzinikela okulandela iMisa — hhayi okungena esikhundleni sayo.
Ukuvula

Egameni likaYise, nelikaNyana, nelikaMoya oyiNgcwele. Makube noxolo lweNkosi yethu uYesu Kristu kunye nani nonke.

Ukuguquka

Nkosi, siwela phantsi kwenceba yakho. Kristu, sikhokele elukhanyeni lwakho. Nkosi, siphilise entliziyweni yakho.

♪ “Nkosi Sihawukele (Organ & Cello)” — A song for Ben
Ilizwi likaThixo
Isifundo sokuqala · Philemon 7-20
Sithandwa: Ndifumene uvuyo olukhulu nenkuthazo eluthandweni lwakho, kuba iintliziyo zabangcwele ziye zahlaziywa nguwe, mzalwana. Ngoko ke, nangona ndinelungelo elipheleleyo kuKristu lokukuyalela ukuba wenze okufanelekileyo, ndikucela ngothando, njengoko ndinjalo, uPawulos, indoda endala, kwaye ngoku ndilibanjwa likaKristu Yesu. Ndikucela ngenxa yomntwana wam uOnesimus, endibe nguyise kuye ekubanjweni kwam, owayengaseluncedo kuwe kodwa ngoku uluncedo kuwe nakum. Ndiyakuthumela, oko kukuthi, intliziyo yam, ndiyibuyisela kuwe. Bendithanda ukumgcina am, ukuze andikhonze endaweni yakho ekubanjweni kwam ngenxa yeVangeli, kodwa bendifuna ukungenzi nto ngaphandle kwemvume yakho, ukuze okulungileyo okwenzayo kungabi ngenkani kodwa kube ngokuzithandela. Mhlawumbi esi sesona sizathu sokuba emke kuwe okwethutyana, ukuze umbuyisele ngonaphakade, kungasengumkhonzi kodwa ngaphezu komkhonzi, umzalwana, othandekayo ngokukhethekileyo kum, kodwa ngakumbi kuwe, njengomntu naseNkosini. Ngoko ke ukuba undithatha njengomlingane, mamkele njengokuba unokundamkela mna. Kwaye ukuba ukwenze naluphi na ubugwenxa okanye ukutyala nantoni na, kubale kum. Mna, Pawulos, ndibhala ngesandla sam: Ndiya kuhlawula. Andifuni ukukuxelela ukuba undityala ubomi bakho. Ewe, mzalwana, mandizuze kuwe eNkosini. Hlaziyani intliziyo yam kuKristu.
Indumiso · Psalm 146:7, 8-9a, 9bc-10
R. Unoyolo lowo uncedo lwakhe lunguThixo kaYakobi. INkosi ikhusela ubulungisa babacinezelekileyo, inika ukutya kwabalambileyo. INkosi ikhulula amabanjwa. R. Unoyolo lowo uncedo lwakhe lunguThixo kaYakobi. INkosi inika ukubona kwiimfama. INkosi iphakamisa abo bagobekileyo; iNkosi iyabathanda abalungileyo. INkosi ikhusela abaphambukeli. R. Unoyolo lowo uncedo lwakhe lunguThixo kaYakobi. Inkedama nomhlolokazi iyabaxhasa, kodwa indlela yongendawo iyayithintela. INkosi iya kulawula ngonaphakade; uThixo wakho, O Ziyon, kuzo zonke izizukulwana. Alleluia. R. Unoyolo lowo uncedo lwakhe lunguThixo kaYakobi.
IVangeli · Luke 17:20-25
Ebuziwe ngabaFarisi ukuba ubuKumkani bukaThixo buza nini, uYesu waphendula wathi, 'Ukuza kobuKumkani bukaThixo akunakubonwa, kwaye akukho bani uya kumemezela, "Nanko, bulapha," okanye, "Bulaphaya." Kuba nanko, ubuKumkani bukaThixo buphakathi kwenu.' Wathi kubafundi bakhe, 'Iya kufika imihla apho niya kunqwenela ukubona imihla yoNyana woMntu, kodwa aniyi kuyibona. Kuya kubakho abo baya kuthi kuni, "Nanko, ulaphaya," okanye "Nanko, ulapha." Musani ukuya phaya, musani ukubaleka niphuthuma. Kuba kanye njengombane oqhwanyazayo uze ukhanyise isibhakabhaka ukusuka kwelinye icala ukuya kwelinye, uya kuba njalo uNyana woMntu ngemini yakhe. Kodwa kuqala ufanele ukubandezeleka kakhulu aze alahlwe sesi sizukulwana.'
Unoyolo lowo uncedo lwakhe lunguThixo kaYakobi.
Intshumayelo

Cinga ngomzuzu apho ubona umntu ethatha into enzima, mhlawumbi umthwalo, aze awubeke ecaleni ukuze amkelelwe umhlobo. KwiNcwadi kaPawulos eya kuFilemon namhlanje, sifunda ngesicelo esinzulu: 'Ndiyakucela ngenxa yomntwana wam uOnesimus... ndimthumela, okuthetha ukuthi, intliziyo yam, ndiyibuyisela kuwe.' Masiyimele kancinci le ndinyana… UPawulos akathethi nje ngomkhonzi obuyayo; uthetha ngomntu owayejongwa njengongenamsebenzi, kodwa oye waba yinxalenye yentliziyo yakhe. Lo nguThixo wethu. UThixo akajongi ukuba siluncedo kangakanani na ngokwemithetho yeli hlabathi; ujonge intliziyo yethu, ujonge indlela esithandana ngayo.

UBenjamin Vo wayengumfana owayeyiqonda le ndlela yokujonga ubomi. Khumbula indlela awayethanda ngayo ukuthetha ngale nkampani yakhe ye-'con chim airlines'. Wayengumfana owayenengqondo eqaqambileyo, ehlala ecwangcisa, ecinga ngendlela i-AI okanye i-cloud infrastructure inokusebenza ngayo. Kodwa ngalo lonke ixesha wayethetha ngale 'con chim airlines', wayengayenzi loo nto ngenxa yokuba efuna imali okanye udumo; wayeyenza ngenxa yokuba wayeyithanda indlela izinto ezibhabha ngayo, indlela ezikhululekileyo ngayo. Xa wayegigitheka emva kokuba ethethe ngale nkampani yakhe, wayebonisa ukuba ubomi abukho kwizinto ezinkulu esizenzayo, kodwa kukuba nentliziyo ekhululekileyo, intliziyo ehlala imomotheka phambi kobuso bukaThixo.

Kodwa masiyimele inyaniso namhlanje. Alan noThao, nawe Ryan mfowethu omncane, ndiyazi ukuba kule minyane minne idlulileyo ukususela ngowe-13 kuJuni 2026, iintlungu ziza ngamanye amaxesha ngendlela embi kakhulu. Kukho amaxesha apho ukungabikho kukaBen kwenza ikhaya libe ngenye indlela. Kukho ukudinwa okungafani nokudinwa komzimba; kukudinwa komphefumlo. Mamele kakuhle, Alan noThao: uThixo akakubeki icala. UBen akakubeki icala. Ezo zifo aziziswanga zizinto owazenzayo okanye ongazenzanga. Kweli hlabathi, kukho izinto ezenzeka ngaphandle kolawulo lomntu, ngaphandle kwempazamo yomzali. Awuphosanga nto. Uthando lwakho lwalucocekile, lwaluphelele, kwaye uBen wayesazi ukuba unothando olungaka kubazali bakhe nakuRyan. Khipha elo litye lokuzisola ezintliziyweni zenu namhlanje. UBen akajongi iziphoso; ujonge phezulu kuThixo, kwaye uqhubeka esithi kuwe: 'Ba, Mama, musani ukukhala kakhulu, ndikhuselekile.'

KwiVangeli yanamhlanje, uYesu usixelela into engaqhelekanga: 'Umbuso kaThixo awubonakali... kuba nanko, ubuKumkani bukaThixo buphakathi kwenu.' Masiyimele kancinci le ndinyana… Abantu babefuna ukwazi ukuba ubuKumkani buza nini, ubuza phi, kodwa uYesu wathi: 'Buphakathi kwenu.' UbuKumkani bukaThixo abukho kwizinto ezinkulu okanye kwizikhundla; buseentliziyweni zethu xa sithandana. UBen wayeyiphila le nto. Khumbula lowo mzuzu apho uBen, eneminyaka elishumi elinesihlanu, waxelela abazali bakhe ukuba wayezimisele ukunikela ngayo yonke imali yasebhange yakhe encinci ukuze ancede umalume wakhe uWilliam owayehlaselwe zizifo. Akazange ayiphule loo ngulube, akazange ayikhuphule imali leyo, kodwa isipho sasingaphakathi entliziyweni yakhe: umntwana owayeselula kodwa onentliziyo enkulu eyayifuna ukunceda wonke umntu ngaphandle kokucingela yena. Oku kukunika okungenamkhawulo, oku kuthando olungaphaya kwemida yeli hlabathi. UBen wayengumntwana owayephila njengombuso kaThixo ophilayo.

Ryan, mfowethu okhoyo apha, ndifuna uthathe oku nawe. UBen akakushiye. Ukhona ecaleni kwakho, eqhubeka ekusebenza njengesikhokelo sothando. UBen wayengumfana owayenenqgondo enkulu yezibalo nolwazi, kodwa ikratshi lakhe elikhulu kwakuwukuba ngumntwana omhle owayehlonipha abazali bakhe. UBen uya kuhlala ekukhuthaza, nangona ungamboni ngamehlo, kodwa uya kumva entliziyweni yakho. Uthando lwenu njengabazalwana luyinto engunaphakade. Xa uziva usodwa, khumbula ukuba uBen ukhona, uyaqhubeka, kwaye uya kuhlala ephila kuthando lukaThixo olungapheliyo. UBen akakho nje kwimbali yenu; ukwikhona apho uThixo enza khona yonke into ibe ntsha.

Masithathe oku namhlanje: uBen wasishiya isipho sothando olungapheliyo. Kwisikhumbuzo sesidlo sasezulwini, lapho indlu kaThixo izele khona ngabantu abavela kude nakufi, masime nathi namhlanje siqinisekile ukuba ubomi bukaBen abuphelanga ethuneni. Usemthekweni wasezulwini, apho i-'con chim airlines' yakhe ibhabha ngokuphakamileyo phambi kobuso bukaThixo. Hamba ke namhlanje uphumle, uthembe ukuba uThixo uyakuthanda, kwaye uBen ulinda wena ngoncumo lwakhe oluqhelekileyo. Uthando lwakho, Ben, lusaqhubeka luhamba emhlabeni, lusaqhubeka lukhanya, kwaye lusaqhubeka lukhumbuza wonke umntu okwaziyo ukuba uThixo uyamthanda umntwana wakhe ngaphezu kwayo yonke into. Hlalani neli themba. Hlalani nolu thando. UBen ukhona, uyaqhubeka, kwaye uya kuhlala ephila kuthando lukaThixo olungapheliyo. Amen.

Ukuzindla
♪ “Ubuhle Bendalo (Version A)” — A song for Ben
Imithandazo

For the intentions entrusted to Ben on our prayer wall:

“Nha Trang, mhlaka 31/10/2026, uMinh ucabanga kakhulu ngawe, Ben. Ngiyakukhumbula futhi ngiyakuthanda!!!”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Heyi Ben - mina nawe siyakukhumbula kakhulu. Ngikubone izikhathi ezimbalwa emaphusheni ami emasontweni adlule! Woza uzosibingelela nsuku zonke kulungile?” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ngicabanga ngawe mngane wami! Dlula uzosho sawubona noma nini lapho ungakwazi khona, kulungile? Ngiyakuthanda Ben”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Hheyi Ben - Bengikuphupha kakhulu. Ngethemba ukuthi uyazijabulisa laphaya ezulwini. Sicela usibhekele umndeni wethu. Khumbula ukuza uzosibingelela nsuku zonke. Sikukhumbula kakhulu!” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, ebuthongweni uHuy ukubonile uza kumvakashela, kukunika umthandazo wokuba niphinde nitholane. Kwangathi uNkulunkulu angawamukela umthandazo wakho, uBen ajabulele ukuthula okuphakade eceleni kukaNkulunkulu. Uma kungenzeka, sicela uphinde uze ungivakashele emaphuphweni alandelayo, noma kungaba nje ukubingelela noma ukumamatheka okumnandi njengakuqala.”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, mfana wami omnandi, ngikukhumbula kakhulu. Ngiyabonga ngokuvakashela mina no-Chú Chris izolo ebusuku. Uthe ukubone undiza ngenqwelomoya—ukhululekile, ujabule, futhi unamandla lapho phezulu. Lapha phansi, mina nomama wakho sikhala nsuku zonke. Ingxenye yenhliziyo yami ifile ngokuphelele ngaphandle kwakho, Ben. Sicela usiqaphe, uthandazele umama wakho, umfowenu u-Ryan, kanye nami, futhi usinike amandla okuqhubeka. Sikuthanda kuze kube phakade.” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, ebuthongweni uHuy ukubonile uza kumvakashela, kukunika umthandazo wokuba niphinde nitholane. Kwangathi uNkulunkulu angawamukela umthandazo wakho, uBen ajabulele ukuthula okuphakade eceleni kukaNkulunkulu. Uma kungenzeka, sicela uphinde uze ungivakashele emaphuphweni alandelayo, noma kungaba nje ukubingelela noma ukumamatheka okumnandi njengakuqala.”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Namuhla sekuyizinsuku eziyi-100 ungekho. Ngikukhumbula kakhulu Ben. Zizwe ukhululekile ukuza uvakashele noma nini! Sizobonana mngani! Ngikuthanda kakhulu!” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.

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Umkhuleko WeNkosi

Ngosizo loMsindisi futhi sifundiswe yimfundiso yaphezulu, silokotha sithi:

Baba wethu osezulwini, malingcweliswe igama lakho; umbuso wakho mawuze, intando yakho mayenziwe emhlabeni njengasezulwini. Siphe namuhla isinkwa sethu semihla ngemihla, usithethelele izono zethu, njengoba nathi sibathethelela abasonayo; ungasifaki ekulingweni, kodwa usikhulule ebubini. Amen.

Ubudlelwane boMoya
Nkosi yam uYesu, ndiyakholwa ukuba ukhona kule Sakramente eNgcwele. Ndiyakuthanda ngaphezu kwayo yonke into, kwaye ndinqwenela ukukwamkela emphefumlweni wam. Ekubeni ndingenakukwamkela ngoku ngokwasemzimbeni, nceda uze kum ngomoya. Ndiyakwamkela njengokungathi sele ufikile, kwaye ndizidibanisa nawe ngokupheleleyo. Ungaze undivumele ndohlukane nawe. Amen.
Ingoma Yokuhlanganyela
♪ “Sinkwa Sokuphila (Version A)” — A song for Ben
Isiphelo

Nkosi, busisa aba bantwana bakho, ubaphe uxolo olungapheliyo, uze ubagcine bethandana ngonaphakade. Amen.

✝ May almighty God bless you: the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Amen.

Ingoma Yokuvala
♪ “Sihamba Nawe (Version B - Organ & Cello)” — A song for Ben
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