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ISonto lama-29 ngonyaka oMqhelekileyo

Sunday, October 18, 2026 · in memory of Ben
Ukuzinikela okulandela iMisa — hhayi okungena esikhundleni sayo.
Ukuvulwa

Egameni likaYise, neloNyana, neloMoya oyiNgcwele. Amen. Makube nani uxolo nobubele bukaThixo uYise neNkosi yethu uYesu Kristu.

Umthandazo wenceba

Nkosi, sihawukele. Kristu, sihawukele. Nkosi, sihawukele.

♪ “Nkosi Sihawukele (Piano & Strings)” — A song for Ben
Ilizwi likaThixo
Isifundo sokuqala · Isaya 45:1, 4-6
Utsho uYehova kumthanjiswa wakhe, kuKoresi, endimphatha ngesandla sokunene, ukuba ndithobise iintlanga phambi kwakhe, ndikhulule amabhanti ezinqulu zeekumkani, ndivule iingcango phambi kwakhe, amasango angavalwa: Ngenxa kaYakobi, umkhonzi wam, nangenxa kaSirayeli, onyuliweyo wam, ndikubize ngegama lakho, ndikunike isihloko, nangona ubungandazi. NdinguYehova, akukho wumbi; akukho Thixo ngaphandle kwam. Ndikubophelele, nangona ubungandazi, ukuze bazi, ukususela ekuphumeni kwelanga kude kuse ekutshoneni kwalo, ukuba akukho wumbi ngaphandle kwam. NdinguYehova, akukho wumbi.
Indumiso · INdumiso 96:1, 3, 4-5, 7-8, 9-10
R. Nikani iNkosi uzuko nodumo. Hlabelelani eNkosini ingoma entsha; hlabelelani eNkosini, nina nonke mhlaba. Balisani ubuqaqawuli bayo phakathi kweentlanga; imisebenzi yayo emangalisayo phakathi kwazo zonke iintlanga. R. Nikani iNkosi uzuko nodumo. Kuba inkulu iNkosi, ifanele ukudunyiswa kakhulu; iwoyikeka ngaphezu kwabo bonke oothixo. Kuba bonke oothixo beentlanga zizithixo nje, kodwa iNkosi yenza amazulu. R. Nikani iNkosi uzuko nodumo. Nikani eNkosini, nina zizwe zeentlanga, nikani eNkosini uzuko nodumo; nikani eNkosini uzuko olufanele igama layo! Zisani iminikelo, ningene ezintendelezweni zayo. R. Nikani iNkosi uzuko nodumo. Nqulelani eNkosini ngesinxibo esingcwele; thuthumelani phambi kwayo, nina nonke mhlaba; yithini phakathi kweentlanga: INkosi iyikumkani, iyazigweba izizwe ngobulungisa. R. Nikani iNkosi uzuko nodumo.
Isifundo sesibini · 1 kwabaseThesalonika 1:1-5b
UPawulos, noSilvanus, noTimoti, bebandla labaseThesalonika, elikuThixo uYise neNkosi uYesu Kristu: Makube nani ubabalo noxolo. Siyambulela uThixo ngamaxesha onke ngani nonke, sinikhumbula emithandazweni yethu, sisikhumbula ngokungapheziyo umsebenzi wenu wokukholwa, nokubulaleka kwenu kothando, nonyamezelo lwenu lwethemba leNkosi yethu uYesu Kristu, phambi koThixo uYise wethu; sisazi, bazalwana abathandwa nguThixo, ukunyulwa kwenu. Kuba ivangeli yethu ayifikanga kuni ngelizwi lodwa, kodwa ifike nangamandla, nangoMoya oyiNgcwele, nangenkolelo eninzi.
IVangeli · Mateyu 22:15-21
Baya ke abaFarisi, bacebisana ngendlela abaya kumtyhola ngayo ngamazwi. Baya kuye abafundi babo, kunye nabaseHerode, besithi, 'Mfundisi, siyazi ukuba ungumntu wenyaniso, nokuba uyifundisa indlela kaThixo ngokwenyaniso, ungenaxhala ngamntu, kuba akukhethi buso mntu. Sixelele ke, uthini na: Kulungile na ukunika uKesari irhafu, okanye akulungile?' Ekwazi ukukhohlisa kwabo, uYesu wathi, 'Nindilingela ntoni, nina bakhohlisi? Ndingabonise imali yerhafu.' Bamnika ke imali yaseRoma. Wathi kubo, 'Ngowakabani lo mfanekiso nesi sibhalo?' Bathi kuye, 'NgokaKesari.' Wathi kubo, 'Buyiselani ke kuKesari okukaKesari, nakuThixo okukaThixo.'
Nikani iNkosi uzuko nodumo.
Intshumayelo

Kukho imizuzu apho umhlaba ubonakala ngathi uthule kakhulu, apho ukujonga nje into elula—njengemifanekiso yezindiza uBen awayezithanda okanye ikhowudi ayebhale ngobunono—kwenza intliziyo ibethe ngamandla. Namhlanje, kwiVangeli, uYesu ubekwa phambi kombuzo onobuqhinga malunga nemali yentela kaKesari. Abaphengululi bomthetho bafuna ukumtyhola, befuna ukubona ukuba uya kuthini na. Kodwa uYesu, ngobulumko obungapheliyo, uthi: 'Bonisani imali yentela.' Xa bayibonisa, ubabuza umbuzo othi: 'Ngowakabani lo mfanekiso?' Baphendula bathi, 'NgokaKesari.' UYesu ke uthi: 'Ngaloo ndlela, buyiselani kuKesari okukaKesari, nakuThixo okukaThixo.'

Masimi apha kancinci… Masicinge ngalo mfanekiso. Imali inemifanekiso yabalawuli bomhlaba, kodwa thina? Thina sithwele mfanekiso bani? UGenesis usifundisa ukuba umntu wadulwa 'ngomfanekiso kaThixo.' Ben, uBenjamin Vo, wayengumfana owayethwele loo mfanekiso kaThixo ngendlela eqaqambileyo. Wayengumfana owayenengqondo ezingela imfihlo yezibalo, kodwa wayenentliziyo eyayikwazi ukubona ngaphaya kwamanani. Ukhumbula xa wayefuna ukunikela ngayo yonke imali yasebhange encinci yakhe ukuze ancede umalume wakhe uWilliam? Wayengazange ayiphule loo ngulube yemali, kodwa loo mnqweno wawusisiqhamo somfanekiso kaThixo owayephila ngaphakathi kuye. Wayengumfana owayengaziboni nje njengomntu ophilayo, kodwa njengomntu owayesazi ukuba ukunika—ukunika konke—yindlela yokubonisa uThixo emhlabeni.

Alan, Thao, nawe Ryan, ndiyazi ukuba kule minyane minne idlulileyo, kukho amaxesha apho lo mfanekiso kaBen ubonakala ukude, ubonakala ngathi uyafiphala ngenxa yeenyembezi. Kukho imizuzu apho uzibuza ukuba kutheni na umfana owayenjalo, owayenomdla kangaka, owayenoncumo olukhanyisa indlu, wathathwa ngaphambi kokuba asenze i-'con chim airlines' yakhe ibe yinyaniso. Ndifuna ukunixelela le nyaniso: uBen akalahlekanga. Usemfanekisweni kaThixo, kwaye uThixo akalahli mfanekiso wakhe. Xa ucinga ngaye, xa ucinga ngendlela awayehlala ngayo ejonge phezulu—nokuba yayikukujonga iindiza okanye ukujonga ikamva elizele luvuyo—yazi ukuba loo ntliziyo yayizele luthando yayingeyiyo eyakho kuphela; yayiyisipho esivela kuThixo.

KwiNcwadi ka-Isaya, uThixo uthi kuKoresi: 'Ndikubize ngegama lakho, ndikunike isihloko, nangona ubungandazi.' UThixo uyamazi uBen. Uyamazi ngamagama, ngobuchule bakhe, nangothando lwakhe. UThixo akazange amlibale uBen, kwaye akazange anilibale nani. Xa ucinga ngaloo mbono kaAlan, apho wena noBen nanihleli emgceni nithenga i-ayisikrimu, loo nto ayiyiyo nje iphupha; yindlela kaThixo yokukuxelela ukuba unxibelelwano lwenu aluphelanga. UBen ukhona, uyamthanda, kwaye usaqhubeka esebenza njengesikhokelo senu sothando.

Ndifuna ukuthetha nani ngalo mthwalo wokuzisola. Ndiyazi ukuba abazali abaninzi bazibuza: 'Ngaba ndiphosile? Ngaba kukhona endinokukwenza?' Mamele kakuhle: uThixo akakubeki icala. UBen akakubeki icala. Ukugula akwanga kwenzeka ngenxa yezinto owazenzayo okanye ongazenzanga. UThixo akazange amthumele uBen ukuba agule; uThixo uyamthanda uBen, kwaye uyamthanda nawe. Masisuse elo litye lokuzisola ezintliziyweni zenu namhlanje. Ubenze konke okusemandleni enu, nithande ngendlela engenamiqathango. Uthando lwenu lwaluyisipho esikhulu kuBen, kwaye nalo lusaqhubeka lukhanya.

Ryan, mfowethu omncane, wena ukhumbula uBen njengomntu owayehlala nawe, owayehamba nawe kwiindawo ezininzi. UBen akakushiye. Xa ucinga ngekamva, xa ucinga ngale robotics class okanye ngale nqwelo-moya, yazi ukuba uBen ukuthembile. UBen ukhangele phantsi kuwe ngovuyo. Uthando lwenu njengabazalwana luyinto engunaphakade. UBen uya kuhlala ekukhuthaza, nangona ungamboni ngamehlo, kodwa uya kumva entliziyweni yakho.

Masithathe oku namhlanje: uBen wayengumfana owayesazi ukuba ukunika yindlela yokuba ngumntu. Masifunde nathi ukunika. Masinike iintlungu zethu kuThixo. Masinike ukuzisola kwethu emthandazweni. Masinike uthando lwethu kwabo basijikelezileyo. Njengokuba uBen wayenomdla wokunceda umalume wakhe, masincedane nathi. Uthando lukaBen lusaqhubeka luhamba emhlabeni ngale 'Well of Love' eCà Mau, apho amanzi acocekileyo eza kunceda abantu abaninzi. Loo ntliziyo yakhe, leyo yafuna ukunika yonke into, isaqhubeka iphila kwaye isebenza.

Landani kule nyaniso: uThixo uyamthanda uBen, uyamthanda uAlan, uyamthanda uThao, uyamthanda uRyan. UBen ukhuselekile. Usemkhono kaThixo, apho akukho ntlungu, apho akukho zifo, apho kukho kuphela uthando olungenasiphelo. Hamba ke namhlanje ukhululekile emthwalweni wokuzisola. Bamba isandla sikaYesu, uthembe ukuba uYisease usezintliziyweni zenu, kwaye uBen ulala ngokuthula ekhanyeni likaThixo, esikhangela sonke ngovuyo olungunaphakade. UBen akakho nje kwimbali yenu; ukwikhona apho uThixo enza khona yonke into ibe ntsha. Uthando lwakho, Ben, lusaqhubeka luhamba emhlabeni, lusaqhubeka lukhanya, kwaye lusaqhubeka lukhumbuza wonke umntu okwaziyo ukuba uThixo uyamthanda umntwana wakhe ngaphezu kwayo yonke into. Hlalani neli themba. Hlalani nolu thando. UBen ukhona, uyaqhubeka, kwaye uya kuhlala ephila kuthando lukaThixo olungapheliyo. Amen.

Ukuzindla
♪ “Ubuhle Bendalo (Version B)” — A song for Ben
Imithandazo yabathembekileyo

For the intentions entrusted to Ben on our prayer wall:

“Hheyi Ben - Bengikuphupha kakhulu. Ngethemba ukuthi uyazijabulisa laphaya ezulwini. Sicela usibhekele umndeni wethu. Khumbula ukuza uzosibingelela nsuku zonke. Sikukhumbula kakhulu!” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, ebuthongweni uHuy ukubonile uza kumvakashela, kukunika umthandazo wokuba niphinde nitholane. Kwangathi uNkulunkulu angawamukela umthandazo wakho, uBen ajabulele ukuthula okuphakade eceleni kukaNkulunkulu. Uma kungenzeka, sicela uphinde uze ungivakashele emaphuphweni alandelayo, noma kungaba nje ukubingelela noma ukumamatheka okumnandi njengakuqala.”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, mfana wami omnandi, ngikukhumbula kakhulu. Ngiyabonga ngokuvakashela mina no-Chú Chris izolo ebusuku. Uthe ukubone undiza ngenqwelomoya—ukhululekile, ujabule, futhi unamandla lapho phezulu. Lapha phansi, mina nomama wakho sikhala nsuku zonke. Ingxenye yenhliziyo yami ifile ngokuphelele ngaphandle kwakho, Ben. Sicela usiqaphe, uthandazele umama wakho, umfowenu u-Ryan, kanye nami, futhi usinike amandla okuqhubeka. Sikuthanda kuze kube phakade.” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, ebuthongweni uHuy ukubonile uza kumvakashela, kukunika umthandazo wokuba niphinde nitholane. Kwangathi uNkulunkulu angawamukela umthandazo wakho, uBen ajabulele ukuthula okuphakade eceleni kukaNkulunkulu. Uma kungenzeka, sicela uphinde uze ungivakashele emaphuphweni alandelayo, noma kungaba nje ukubingelela noma ukumamatheka okumnandi njengakuqala.”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Namuhla sekuyizinsuku eziyi-100 ungekho. Ngikukhumbula kakhulu Ben. Zizwe ukhululekile ukuza uvakashele noma nini! Sizobonana mngani! Ngikuthanda kakhulu!” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, namuhla u-M uye e-Cam Ranh ukuyolungisa amaphepha, wadlula e-Cam Ranh Airport. Khona manjalo izingxoxo ngezindiza zika-Ben zabuya emqondweni, ngikhumbula izinkumbulo eziningi ngo-Ben (u-M uzozigcina ziyimfihlo kakaka). Ganyane elincane, ukucabanga ngawe kungenza ngiphatheke kabi kakhulu. Hamba uye ezindaweni u-Ben afuna ukuya kuzo futhi ungakhohlwa ukuhlale ukhumbula umndeni wakithi, ngikuthanda kakhulu mfowethu. Sengathi... !!!!!!!!!”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Kwenzekeni ndodana yami? Sekudlule izinyanga ezintathu wasishiya. Ngikukhumbula kakhulu umzimba wami wonke ubuhlungu. Umama uyakhala nsuku zonke manje... Sizokwenzenjani manje Ben? Sicela usikhulekele.” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“We Ben, uRafael Rizzo nomfowabo omncane uBen baludinga ngempela usizo lwakho njengamanje. Sicela ubabusise ngempilo enhle futhi ubanike amandla okudlula kulokhu ndawonye. Sicela ugade nempilo kaBrandon noFlor futhi. Ngikukhumbula kakhulu impela. Ngiyazi ukuthi uphezulu ezulwini usigadile sonke. Noma nini lapho ukwazi khona, udlule uzosivakashela, angithi? Ngiyakuthanda futhi ngikukhumbula kakhulu!” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.

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Umkhuleko WeNkosi

Ngosizo loMsindisi futhi sifundiswe yimfundiso yaphezulu, silokotha sithi:

Baba wethu osezulwini, malingcweliswe igama lakho; umbuso wakho mawuze, intando yakho mayenziwe emhlabeni njengasezulwini. Siphe namuhla isinkwa sethu semihla ngemihla, usithethelele izono zethu, njengoba nathi sibathethelela abasonayo; ungasifaki ekulingweni, kodwa usikhulule ebubini. Amen.

Umthandazo wokumanyana ngokomoya
Nkosi yami uYesu, ndiyakholwa ukuba ukhona kule Sakramente eNgcwele. Ndiyakuthanda ngaphezu kwazo zonke izinto, kwaye ndinqwenela ukukwamkela emphefumlweni wam. Njengoko ndingenako ngoku ukukwamkela ngokwenyama, nceda uze kum ngokomoya. Ndiyamkela njengokuba sele ulapha, kwaye ndizimanyanisa nawe ngokupheleleyo. Ungaze undivumele ndahlukane nawe. Amen.
Ingoma Yokuhlanganyela
♪ “Sinkwa Sokuphila (Version B)” — A song for Ben
Isiphelo

Makube nani uxolo lukaThixo, kwaye makukhanye ubuso bakhe phezu kwenu ngalo lonke ixesha. Amen.

✝ May almighty God bless you: the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Amen.

Ingoma Yokuvala
♪ “Sihamba Nawe (Version A - Piano & Strings)” — A song for Ben
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