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Isikhumbuzo sikaSaint Frances Xavier Cabrini, Intombi

Friday, November 13, 2026 · in memory of Ben
Ukuzinikela okulandela iMisa — hhayi okungena esikhundleni sayo.
Ukuvulwa

Egameni likaYise, neloNyana, neloMoya oyiNgcwele. Amen. Makube nani uxolo lukaThixo nenceba yakhe.

Isibongozo

Nkosi, sihawukele. Kristu, sihawukele. Nkosi, sihawukele.

♪ “Nkosi Sihawukele (Organ & Cello)” — A song for Ben
Ilizwi likaThixo
Isifundo sokuqala · 2 John 4-9
Ndavuyiswa kakhulu kukufumana abanye babantwana bakho behamba enyanisweni, njengoko sayalelwa nguYise. Kodwa ngoku, Nkosikazi, ndiyakucela, kungekhona ngokungathi ndibhalela umyalelo omtsha, kodwa lowo sasinaye kwasekuqaleni: masithandane. Kuba oku kuthando, ukuba sihambe ngokwemiyalelo yakhe; lo ngumyalelo, njengoko nivile kwasekuqaleni, ekufuneka nihambe kuwo. Abakhohlisi abaninzi baphume baya ehlabathini, abo bangavumiyo ukuba uYesu Kristu uze enyameni; onjalo ngumkhohlisi nalo-Kristu. Zilumkeleni ukuze ningalahlekelwa koko sakusebenzelayo, kodwa nifumane umvuzo opheleleyo. Nabani na othi 'aqhubele phambili' angahlali emfundisweni kaKristu akanaye uThixo; ohlala emfundisweni unaye uYise noNyana.
Indumiso · Psalm 119:1, 2, 10, 11, 17, 18
R. Banoyolo abo bahamba ngomthetho weNkosi! Banoyolo abahamba ngendlela egqibeleleyo, abahamba ngomthetho weNkosi. R. Banoyolo abo bahamba ngomthetho weNkosi! Banoyolo abagcina imithetho yakhe, abamfuna ngentliziyo yabo yonke. R. Banoyolo abo bahamba ngomthetho weNkosi! Ngentliziyo yam yonke ndikufuna; musa ukundiyekela ndiphambuke kwimithetho yakho. R. Banoyolo abo bahamba ngomthetho weNkosi! Entliziyweni yam ndiyigcina isithembiso sakho, ukuze ndingoni kuwe. R. Banoyolo abo bahamba ngomthetho weNkosi! Yiba nomusa kumkhonzi wakho, ukuze ndiphile ndize ndigcine amazwi akho. R. Banoyolo abo bahamba ngomthetho weNkosi! Vula amehlo am, ukuze ndibone imimangaliso yomthetho wakho. R. Banoyolo abo bahamba ngomthetho weNkosi!
IVangeli · Luke 17:26-37
UYesu wathi kubafundi bakhe: 'Njengoko kwakunjalo ngemihla kaNowa, koba njalo ngemihla yoNyana woMntu; babesitya, besela, betshata, besendisa, kude kube lolo suku uNowa angena ngalo emkhunjini, yaza imbalela yeza yabatshabalalisa bonke. Ngokufanayo, njengoko kwakunjalo ngemihla kaLote: babesitya, besela, bethenga, bethengisa, betyala, besakha; ngaloo mini uLote waphumayo eSodom, umlilo nesulfure kwana esibhakabhakeni kwabatshabalalisa bonke. Koba njalo nangemini aya kutyhilwa ngayo uNyana woMntu. Ngaloo mini, lowo uya kuba ephezu kwendlu, impahla yakhe isendlwini, makangahli ayithathe, nalowo usemasimini makangabuyeli kwizinto ezishiywe emva. Khumbulani umfazi kaLote. Nabani na ofuna ukugcina ubomi bakhe uya kubulahlekelwa, kodwa nabani na obulahlekelayo uya kubusindisa. Ndithi kuni, ngaloo busuku koba nabantu ababini kukhukho lunye; omnye uya kuthathwa, omnye ashiywe. Koba nabafazi ababini besila kunye; omnye uya kuthathwa, omnye ashiywe.' Baphendula bathi kuye, 'Phi, Nkosi?' Wathi kubo, 'Apho isidumbu sikhoyo, apho aya kuhlanganisana khona amaxhalanga.'
Banoyolo abo bahamba ngomthetho weNkosi!
Intshumayelo

Cinga ngomzuzu apho ubona umntu ehamba endleleni, ejonge phambili, kodwa intliziyo yakhe isabambelele kwinto awayishiya emva. Mhlawumbi yindlu, mhlawumbi yimpahla, okanye mhlawumbi yinkumbulo yexesha elidlulileyo elalibonakala likhuselekile. KwiVangeli yanamhlanje, uYesu usinika isilumkiso esinzulu ngenxa yale ndlela intliziyo yomntu ithanda ngayo ukubambelela: 'Khumbulani umfazi kaLote.' Masiyimele kancinci le ndinyana… Kutheni uYesu esicela ukuba sikhumbule umfazi kaLote? Akukho ngenxa yokuba wayefuna ukusigweba, kodwa ngenxa yokuba wayesazi ukuba ukubuyela emva ngengqondo nasentliziyweni kusithintela ukuba sibone ubomi obutsha uThixo asibekela phambili. UYesu uthi: 'Nabani na ofuna ukugcina ubomi bakhe uya kubulahlekelwa, kodwa nabani na obulahlekelayo uya kubusindisa.' Oku akuthethi ukuba kufuneka sishiye izinto esizithandayo, kodwa kuthetha ukuba kufuneka sibe nentliziyo ekhululekileyo, intliziyo engabambeleli kwizinto zeli hlabathi ngendlela yokuba silibale ukuba ikhaya lethu lokwenyani likuThixo.

UBenjamin Vo wayeyiqonda le nyaniso ngendlela yakhe emangalisayo. Khumbula indlela awayethanda ngayo ukujonga iinqwelo-moya, ngakumbi i-Boeing 737. Wayehlala ehleli nobawo wakhe, bejonge phezulu, bebona indlela ezi nqwelo-moya zihamba ngayo, zisuka emhlabeni ziye kude. UBen wayengumfana owayenengqondo eqaqambileyo eyayikwazi ukubala imigama, ukuyila iinkqubo ze-AI, nokucinga ngale nkampani yakhe ye-'con chim airlines' eyayimenza agcigcise kwaye amomotheke ngalo lonke ixesha ethetha ngayo. Kodwa uBen wayengabambeleli ezintweni eziphathekayo. Wayengumfana owayenentliziyo evulekileyo, intliziyo eyayikwazi ukunika—njengaxa wayefuna ukunikela ngayo yonke imali yakhe yasebhange ukuze ancede umalume wakhe uWilliam. Wayengumfana owayesazi ukuba ubomi abukho kwizinto esizigcinayo, kodwa kuthando esilunika abanye.

Kodwa masiyimele inyaniso namhlanje. Alan noThao, nawe Ryan mfowethu omncane, ndiyazi ukuba kule minyane minne idlulileyo ukususela ngowe-13 kuJuni 2026, iintlungu ziza ngamanye amaxesha ngendlela embi kakhulu. Kukho amaxesha apho ukungabikho kukaBen kwenza ikhaya libe ngenye indlela. Kukho ukudinwa okungafani nokudinwa komzimba; kukudinwa komphefumlo. Mamele kakuhle, Alan noThao: uThixo akakubeki icala. UBen akakubeki icala. Ezo zifo aziziswanga zizinto owazenzayo okanye ongazenzanga. Kweli hlabathi, kukho izinto ezenzeka ngaphandle kolawulo lomntu, ngaphandle kwempazamo yomzali. Awuphosanga nto. Uthando lwakho lwalucocekile, lwaluphelele, kwaye uBen wayesazi ukuba unothando olungaka kubazali bakhe nakuRyan. Khipha elo litye lokuzisola ezintliziyweni zenu namhlanje. UBen akajongi iziphoso; ujonge phezulu kuThixo, kwaye uqhubeka esithi kuwe: 'Ba, Mama, musani ukukhala kakhulu, ndikhuselekile.'

KwiNcwadi kaYohane namhlanje, sifunda amazwi asikhumbuza indlela yokuphila: 'Ndiye ndavuya kakhulu ukufumana abanye babantwana bakho behamba enyanisweni.' Masiyimele kancinci le ndinyana… UYohane uthetha ngendlela uThixo asibiza ngayo ukuba siphile ngokuthandana, ngokuhamba emthethweni wakhe. UBen wayeyiphila le nto. Wayengumfana owayeyihlonipha inyaniso, owayehlonipha abazali bakhe, kwaye owayehlala enentliziyo ehlambulukileyo. Wayengumfana owayengafuni ukuzibonakalisa njengomntu omkhulu, kodwa owayefuna ukuba ngumntwana kaThixo ophilayo. UBen wayengumzekelo wendlela yokuhamba 'enyanisweni' apho uthando lwakhe lwalungapheliyo.

Ryan, mfowethu okhoyo apha, ndifuna uthathe oku nawe. UBen akakushiye. Ukhona ecaleni kwakho, eqhubeka ekusebenza njengesikhokelo sothando. UBen wayengumfana owayenenqgondo enkulu yezibalo nolwazi, kodwa ikratshi lakhe elikhulu kwakuwukuba ngumntwana omhle owayehlonipha abazali bakhe. UBen uya kuhlala ekukhuthaza, nangona ungamboni ngamehlo, kodwa uya kumva entliziyweni yakho. Uthando lwenu njengabazalwana luyinto engunaphakade. Xa uziva usodwa, khumbula ukuba uBen ukhona, uyaqhubeka, kwaye uya kuhlala ephila kuthando lukaThixo olungapheliyo. UBen akakho nje kwimbali yenu; ukwikhona apho uThixo enza khona yonke into ibe ntsha.

Masithathe oku namhlanje: uBen wasishiya isipho sothando olungapheliyo. Kwisikhumbuzo sesidlo sasezulwini, lapho indlu kaThixo izele khona ngabantu abavela kude nakufi, masime nathi namhlanje siqinisekile ukuba ubomi bukaBen abuphelanga ethuneni. Usemthekweni wasezulwini, apho i-'con chim airlines' yakhe ibhabha ngokuphakamileyo phambi kobuso bukaThixo. Hamba ke namhlanje uphumle, uthembe ukuba uThixo uyakuthanda, kwaye uBen ulinda wena ngoncumo lwakhe oluqhelekileyo. Uthando lwakho, Ben, lusaqhubeka luhamba emhlabeni, lusaqhubeka lukhanya, kwaye lusaqhubeka lukhumbuza wonke umntu okwaziyo ukuba uThixo uyamthanda umntwana wakhe ngaphezu kwayo yonke into. Hlalani neli themba. Hlalani nolu thando. UBen ukhona, uyaqhubeka, kwaye uya kuhlala ephila kuthando lukaThixo olungapheliyo. Amen.

Ukuzindla
♪ “Ubuhle Bendalo (Version A)” — A song for Ben
Izicelo

For the intentions entrusted to Ben on our prayer wall:

“Nha Trang, mhlaka 31/10/2026, uMinh ucabanga kakhulu ngawe, Ben. Ngiyakukhumbula futhi ngiyakuthanda!!!”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Heyi Ben - mina nawe siyakukhumbula kakhulu. Ngikubone izikhathi ezimbalwa emaphusheni ami emasontweni adlule! Woza uzosibingelela nsuku zonke kulungile?” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ngicabanga ngawe mngane wami! Dlula uzosho sawubona noma nini lapho ungakwazi khona, kulungile? Ngiyakuthanda Ben”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Hheyi Ben - Bengikuphupha kakhulu. Ngethemba ukuthi uyazijabulisa laphaya ezulwini. Sicela usibhekele umndeni wethu. Khumbula ukuza uzosibingelela nsuku zonke. Sikukhumbula kakhulu!” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, ebuthongweni uHuy ukubonile uza kumvakashela, kukunika umthandazo wokuba niphinde nitholane. Kwangathi uNkulunkulu angawamukela umthandazo wakho, uBen ajabulele ukuthula okuphakade eceleni kukaNkulunkulu. Uma kungenzeka, sicela uphinde uze ungivakashele emaphuphweni alandelayo, noma kungaba nje ukubingelela noma ukumamatheka okumnandi njengakuqala.”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, mfana wami omnandi, ngikukhumbula kakhulu. Ngiyabonga ngokuvakashela mina no-Chú Chris izolo ebusuku. Uthe ukubone undiza ngenqwelomoya—ukhululekile, ujabule, futhi unamandla lapho phezulu. Lapha phansi, mina nomama wakho sikhala nsuku zonke. Ingxenye yenhliziyo yami ifile ngokuphelele ngaphandle kwakho, Ben. Sicela usiqaphe, uthandazele umama wakho, umfowenu u-Ryan, kanye nami, futhi usinike amandla okuqhubeka. Sikuthanda kuze kube phakade.” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Ben, ebuthongweni uHuy ukubonile uza kumvakashela, kukunika umthandazo wokuba niphinde nitholane. Kwangathi uNkulunkulu angawamukela umthandazo wakho, uBen ajabulele ukuthula okuphakade eceleni kukaNkulunkulu. Uma kungenzeka, sicela uphinde uze ungivakashele emaphuphweni alandelayo, noma kungaba nje ukubingelela noma ukumamatheka okumnandi njengakuqala.”
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.
“Namuhla sekuyizinsuku eziyi-100 ungekho. Ngikukhumbula kakhulu Ben. Zizwe ukhululekile ukuza uvakashele noma nini! Sizobonana mngani! Ngikuthanda kakhulu!” — Dad
… simnika uBen, oluyisa eNkosini.
℟ Ben, sikhulekele.

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Umkhuleko WeNkosi

Ngosizo loMsindisi futhi sifundiswe yimfundiso yaphezulu, silokotha sithi:

Baba wethu osezulwini, malingcweliswe igama lakho; umbuso wakho mawuze, intando yakho mayenziwe emhlabeni njengasezulwini. Siphe namuhla isinkwa sethu semihla ngemihla, usithethelele izono zethu, njengoba nathi sibathethelela abasonayo; ungasifaki ekulingweni, kodwa usikhulule ebubini. Amen.

Ubudlelwane boMoya
Nkosi yam uYesu, ndiyakholwa ukuba ukhona kwiSakramente eliNgcwele. Ndiyakuthanda ngaphezu kwako konke, kwaye ndinqwenela ukukwamkela emphefumlweni wam. Njengoko ngoku ndingenakukwamkela ngokwenyama, nceda uze emphefumlweni wam ngomoya. Ndiyakwamkela njengokungathi sele ukhona, kwaye ndizidibanisa ngokupheleleyo nawe. Ungandivumeli ndahlukane nawe nanini na. Amen.
Ingoma Yokuhlanganyela
♪ “Sinkwa Sokuphila (Version A)” — A song for Ben
Ukuvalwa

Ngamana iNkosi ingasigcina, isikhusele, kwaye isinike uxolo lwayo olungapheliyo. Hamba ngoxolo.

✝ May almighty God bless you: the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Amen.

Ingoma Yokuvala
♪ “Sihamba Nawe (Version B - Organ & Cello)” — A song for Ben
Izinsuku Zakudala
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