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ᐅᓪᓗᑕᒫᑦ ᐅᖃᐅᓯᖅ

33-ngi Ubluuluni Aulallutik

Sunday, November 15, 2026 · in memory of Ben
ᑐᒃᓯᐊᕐᓂᖅ ᒫᔅ ᑭᖑᓂᐊᒍᑦ ᒪᓕᒃᑕᐅᔪᖅ — ᒫᔅ-ᒥᒃ ᐃᓇᖏᖅᓯᙱᑦᑐᖅ.
Aulallutik

Ataniup atianik, Ataataup, Irniup, anirnialu Iluarniqtuup. Ubluumi, Ataniup asannininga qanittuq kikkutuinnarnut, tusaajumajut quviasuktut.

Nalligivik

Ataniq, nalligivik, nalligivik. Kristu, nalligivik, nalligivik. Ataniq, nalligivik, nalligivik.

♪ “Kyrie - Version A (Thánh Ca)” — A song for Ben
Ataniup Uqausinga
Ataniup Uqausinga · Proverbs 31:10-13, 19-20, 30-31
Kikkut piujuq arnaq, taanna piujuq. Taanna piujuq, ataniup asannininga. Taanna qaujimajavut, qaujimajavut inuusiup iluani, qanuq inuusiq asanniniqarpalaurmat.
Psalm · Psalm 128:1-2, 3, 4-5
♪ “Psalm 128 (Version B - Pipe Organ & Cello)” — A psalm for Ben
Ataniup Uqausinga · 1 Thessalonians 5:1-6
Kikkut inuusiup iluani, inuusiup iluani, qanuq inuusiq asanniniqarpalaurmat. Kikkut inuusiup iluani, inuusiup iluani, qanuq inuusiq asanniniqarpalaurmat.
Gospel · Matthew 25:14-30
Jesus uqalaurmat: 'Well done, my good and faithful servant. Since you were faithful in small matters, I will give you great responsibilities. Come, share your master's joy.'
Alleluia
♪ A song for Ben
Quviasukput kikkut Ataniq kappiasuktut.
Uqausiq

Pivalliajut inuusiup iluani, qanuq inuusiq asanniniqarpalaurmat. Qiviartariaqarpugut silami, qanuq inuusiq takujariaqarpugut. Paulusa titiraqtuq 1 Thessalonians-mi, uqaqtuq: 'But you, brothers and sisters, are not in darkness... For all of you are children of the light and children of the day.' Taanna uqausiq, 'children of the light,' qanuippa? Taanna uqausiq takujariaqarpugut inuusiup iluani, qanuq Benjamin asanniniqarpalaurmat. Benjamin, taanna qaujimajavut, taanna qaujimajavut tallimat pivalliajut, nuannaartuq, qajangnartuq, pinniqtuq. Taanna nalligivikluq, nalligikpatiklu qitiqquqsimajuq. Ilisimaliqput inuusiup iluani, qanuq Benjamin asanniniqarpalaurmat, qanuq ataniq asannininga kikkutuinnarnut tunijaupalaurmat. Taimanna atautikkut, qaujimajavut qanugitilluta. Benjamin, taanna 'con chim airlines'-mik uqalaurmat, quviasulluni. Taanna qajuqtuq inuusiup iluani, ataniup asannininga ilisimallugu. Ilisimaliqput taanna asanniniq, kikkut nalligijavut aniguqtilaaqtut.

Alan and Thao, I know the weight of these past five months. I know the way the world can seem to lose its color when you are carrying such a heavy cross. But look at the Gospel, look at the way Jesus speaks of the Kingdom: 'Well done, my good and faithful servant. Since you were faithful in small matters, I will give you great responsibilities. Come, share your master's joy.' The Kingdom is not something you chase down the road; it is the presence of love that remains even when the body is gone. Benjamin is there, resting in the light, smiling that gentle, brilliant smile. He is not lost; he is found in the heart of the Father. Ryan, my dear brother, your brother Ben loved you. He was your partner. When you look at the sky, when you see a plane soaring high, remember that Ben's spirit is soaring too. He is free, he is full of light, and he is watching over you with a bright, gentle smile.

Kikkut ilissik uqumaittumik atuqtut, kikkut uqalurialiqtut iluani, nalligivikluq ataniq qaninganiittuq. Ilisimajariaqarpugut ataniq qaninganiittuq. Ilissik ilisimajariaqarpugut asanniniq aniguqtilaaqtuq. Benjamin, taanna qaujimajavut Benjamin, qaujimajavut inuusiup iluani, qanuq inuusiq asanniniqarpalaurmat. There is a memory that stays with me, a small, quiet moment that reveals the depth of his spirit. You remember the offer he made, unprompted, to give his entire piggy bank to his uncle William. He didn't break it. He didn't empty it. He didn't need to. The offer itself was the truth of his soul. It was the declaration of a boy who knew that everything he had—every coin, every dream, every hour of his life—was meant to be poured out for those he loved. This is the 'faith' that Jesus asks for in the Gospel today: not a faith that calculates, but a faith that offers.

Think of the way Ben lived. He was a boy who looked at the world and saw not obstacles, but opportunities to share. Whether it was his excitement over his 'con chim airlines' or the way he sat with Ryan, sharing a meal and a laugh, he was always looking outward. He was a steward of the joy he found in the smallest things. He lived with his hands open. And that is why he is at peace now. He is at the 'Banquet of Heaven,' and he is still that same, vibrant, curious boy. When Ryan dreams of the roller coaster, when Mom hears a voice in the middle of the night, when Dad feels the presence of his son in a dream—these are not tricks of the mind. They are the ways the Lord, our Shepherd, leads us beside the restful waters. He is telling you that the bond you share is not broken. It is merely held in a space where death has no dominion.

I want to speak to those of you who are watching from afar, perhaps carrying a cross of your own that feels too heavy to lift. Maybe you are a parent who has lost a child, or a sibling who feels the silence of a missing brother, or someone who is simply tired of the struggle. You feel like the servant who buried his talent, perhaps out of fear or exhaustion, wondering if your efforts matter. Hear the words of the Lord: 'Well done, my good and faithful servant.' You are not walking that valley alone. God is in the valley with you. He is the one who catches your tears. He is the one who understands the 'why' that you cannot answer. You don't have to be strong today. You don't have to have it all figured out. You only have to be present, and let the Shepherd lead you.

We are all, in a way, like the servants in the parable. We are all walking through a world that is cold and often indifferent. We are all carrying our own burdens, our own little treasures, our own fears. The call today is to be brave enough to share. If you are grieving, share your sorrow with God. Don't hide it. Don't pretend it isn't there. If you are feeling the love of Benjamin, share that with the world. Let his legacy flow, bringing life to those who are parched. Let his kindness be the way you speak to a stranger, the way you listen to a friend, the way you wake up and choose to keep going for his sake, and for the sake of the love that still connects you.

Benjamin is not a memory. He is a life that has been transformed, not ended. He is a part of the 'perfect four' that exists in the heart of God. He is watching over you, Alan, Thao, and Ryan, with that same gentle, braces-filled smile that used to light up a room. He is cheering for you as you navigate this new, difficult landscape. He is waiting for you at the finish line, where the math will finally make sense, where the planes will all be on time, and where there will be no more goodbyes.

So, what do you carry out the door today? Carry the freedom of the healed. You have been loved by a boy who knew how to give everything away, and you are loved by a God who gave His own Son so that you would never be alone. When you feel the ache, breathe in the grace of that reality. When you feel the weight, remember that you are an heir to eternal life. You are held. You are seen. You are home, even when you are walking through the dark. And that is enough. That is everything.

Meditasi
♪ “Con Xin Phó Thác (Version B)” — A song for Ben
Qinujaat

For the intentions entrusted to Ben on our prayer wall:

“Nha Trang, ᐅᓪᓗᖓ 31/10/2026, Minh ᐃᓱᒪᒋᔭᖃᕐᔪᐊᖅᑐᖅ Ben-ᒥᒃ. ᐃᖅᑲᐅᒪᒋᕙᒋᑦ ᓇᒡᓕᒋᓪᓗᑎᓪᓗ!!!”
… Ben-ᒧᑦ ᑐᓂᕙᕗᑦ, ᐊᑕᓂᕐᒧᑦ ᑎᑭᐅᑎᑦᑎᕙᒃᑐᒧᑦ.
℟ Ben, ᐅᕙᑦᑎᓐᓄᑦ ᑐᒃᓯᐊᕆᑦ.
“ᕼᐊᐃ ᐱᓐ - ᒫᒪᓗ ᐅᕙᖓᓗ ᐊᒃᓱᐊᓗᒃ ᑭᖕᐅᒪᕙᑦᑎᒋᒃ. ᑕᑯᖃᑦᑕᖅᓯᒪᔭᒋᑦ ᓯᓐᓇᑦᑐᒪᓂᒃᑯᑦ ᐱᓇᓱᐊᕈᓯᐅᓚᐅᖅᑐᓂ! ᖃᐃᖃᑦᑕᕆᑦ ᕼᐊᐃᕆᐊᖅᑐᕐᓗᑎᑦ ᖃᐅᑕᒫᑦ, ᐊᑏ?” — Dad
… Ben-ᒧᑦ ᑐᓂᕙᕗᑦ, ᐊᑕᓂᕐᒧᑦ ᑎᑭᐅᑎᑦᑎᕙᒃᑐᒧᑦ.
℟ Ben, ᐅᕙᑦᑎᓐᓄᑦ ᑐᒃᓯᐊᕆᑦ.
“ᐃᓱᒪᒋᕙᒋᑦ ᐱᖃᓐᓇᕆᔭᑯᓘᒃ! ᖃᖓᑐᐃᓐᓇᖅ ᐱᔪᓐᓇᑐᐊᕈᕕᑦ ᐅᐸᖃᑦᑕᕐᓂᐊᖅᐳᑎᑦ ᐊᐃᓐᖓᐃᕆᐊᕐᓗᑎᑦ, ᓈᒻᒪᑉᐸ? ᓇᒡᓕᒋᕙᒋᑦ Ben”
… Ben-ᒧᑦ ᑐᓂᕙᕗᑦ, ᐊᑕᓂᕐᒧᑦ ᑎᑭᐅᑎᑦᑎᕙᒃᑐᒧᑦ.
℟ Ben, ᐅᕙᑦᑎᓐᓄᑦ ᑐᒃᓯᐊᕆᑦ.
“ᐊᐃ Ben — ᓯᓐᓇᑐᖃᑦᑕᖅᓯᒪᕗᖓ ᐃᓕᖕᓂᒃ ᐊᒥᓱᐃᖅᓱᖅᖢᖓ. ᓂᕆᐅᑉᐳᖓ ᕿᓚᖕᒥ ᖁᕕᐊᓱᑦᑎᐊᕐᓂᕐᓂᒃ. ᐃᓚᑦᑎᓐᓂᒃ ᒥᐊᓂᕆᓂᐊᖅᐳᑎᑦ. ᐳᐃᒍᖅᑕᐃᓕᒋᑦ ᖃᐅᑕᒫᑦ ᐊᐃᕆᐊᖃᑦᑕᕐᓂᕐᒥᒃ. ᐊᒃᓱᐊᓗᒃ ᐃᕆᓂᒋᕙᑦᑎᒋᑦ!” — Dad
… Ben-ᒧᑦ ᑐᓂᕙᕗᑦ, ᐊᑕᓂᕐᒧᑦ ᑎᑭᐅᑎᑦᑎᕙᒃᑐᒧᑦ.
℟ Ben, ᐅᕙᑦᑎᓐᓄᑦ ᑐᒃᓯᐊᕆᑦ.
“Ben, Huy siniktillugu takulaurtutit pulaarialauravit, tuksiautimillu tunisillutit nanisigunnalarniagatta. Guutiup tuksiautitit naalaullit, saimaninganik tunisilluni isumananngittumik Guutiup saniani. Ajurnanngippat, Ben, pulaakkanniarlutit Huy siniktillugu, hiiliuraluarlutit qungallutilluunniit suli nagligigakkit.”
… Ben-ᒧᑦ ᑐᓂᕙᕗᑦ, ᐊᑕᓂᕐᒧᑦ ᑎᑭᐅᑎᑦᑎᕙᒃᑐᒧᑦ.
℟ Ben, ᐅᕙᑦᑎᓐᓄᑦ ᑐᒃᓯᐊᕆᑦ.
“Ben, con trai ngọt ngào của ta, ta nhớ con nhiều lắm. Cảm ơn con đã ghé thăm ta và Chú Chris tối qua. Chú ấy bảo đã thấy con đang lái trực thăng—thật tự do, vui vẻ và mạnh mẽ trên đó. Dưới này, mẹ con và ta ngày càng khóc nhiều hơn. Một phần trái tim ta như đã chết hoàn toàn khi thiếu vắng con, Ben ạ. Xin hãy dõi theo chúng ta, cầu nguyện cho mẹ con, em trai Ryan và ta, rồi ban cho chúng ta sức mạnh để tiếp tục bước đi. Chúng ta yêu con mãi mãi.” — Dad
… Ben-ᒧᑦ ᑐᓂᕙᕗᑦ, ᐊᑕᓂᕐᒧᑦ ᑎᑭᐅᑎᑦᑎᕙᒃᑐᒧᑦ.
℟ Ben, ᐅᕙᑦᑎᓐᓄᑦ ᑐᒃᓯᐊᕆᑦ.
“Ben, Huy siniktillugu takulaurtutit pulaarialauravit, tuksiautimillu tunisillutit nanisigunnalarniagatta. Guutiup tuksiautitit naalaullit, saimaninganik tunisilluni isumananngittumik Guutiup saniani. Ajurnanngippat, Ben, pulaakkanniarlutit Huy siniktillugu, hiiliuraluarlutit qungallutilluunniit suli nagligigakkit.”
… Ben-ᒧᑦ ᑐᓂᕙᕗᑦ, ᐊᑕᓂᕐᒧᑦ ᑎᑭᐅᑎᑦᑎᕙᒃᑐᒧᑦ.
℟ Ben, ᐅᕙᑦᑎᓐᓄᑦ ᑐᒃᓯᐊᕆᑦ.
“ᐅᓪᓗᒥ 100-ᓂᒃ ᐅᓪᓗᓂᒃ ᐊᓂᒍᖅᑐᖅ ᐃᓕᖃᙱᖦᖢᑕ. ᐊᒃᓱᐊᓗᒃ ᐃᖅᑲᐅᒪᕙᒋᑦ, Ben. ᐳᓛᕆᐊᕈᓐᓇᖅᑐᑎᑦ ᖃᖓᑐᐃᓐᓇᖅ! ᑕᑯᓛᖅᐳᒍᑦ ᐱᖃᓐᓃᖅ! ᓇᒡᓕᒋᕙᒋᑦ!” — Dad
… Ben-ᒧᑦ ᑐᓂᕙᕗᑦ, ᐊᑕᓂᕐᒧᑦ ᑎᑭᐅᑎᑦᑎᕙᒃᑐᒧᑦ.
℟ Ben, ᐅᕙᑦᑎᓐᓄᑦ ᑐᒃᓯᐊᕆᑦ.

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ᐱᐅᓕᔨᑦᑕ ᑎᓕᐅᕆᓂᖓᒍᑦ ᐊᒻᒪᓗ ᒎᑎᐅᑉ ᐃᓕᓐᓂᐊᖅᑎᑦᑎᓂᖓᒍᑦ, ᐅᖃᕈᓐᓇᖅᓯᕗᒍᑦ:

ᐊᑖᑕᕗᑦ ᕿᓚᖕᒦᑦᑐᑎᑦ, ᐊᑎᖅᐱᑦ ᐃᑉᐱᒋᔭᐅᑦᑎᐊᕐᓕ; ᐊᖓᔪᖅᑳᕆᔭᐅᓂᖅᐱᑦ ᑎᑭᓪᓕ, ᐱᔪᒪᔭᐃᑦ ᐱᔭᐅᓕ ᓄᓇᒥ ᕿᓚᖕᒥᑐᑦ. ᐅᓪᓗᒥ ᑐᓂᓯᒋᑦ ᐅᕙᑦᑎᓐᓄᑦ ᓂᕿᒃᓴᑦᑎᓐᓂᒃ ᐅᓪᓗᑕᒫᖅᓯᐅᑎᒥᒃ, ᐊᒻᒪᓗ ᐃᓱᒪᒋᔪᓐᓃᕐᓗᒋᑦ ᐱᐅᙱᓕᐅᕈᑎᕗᑦ, ᓲᕐᓗ ᐅᕙᒍᑦ ᐃᓱᒪᒋᔪᓐᓃᖅᑕᕗᑦ ᐱᐅᙱᓕᐅᖅᑐᑦ ᐅᕙᑦᑎᓐᓄᑦ; ᐊᒻᒪᓗ ᐆᒃᑐᖅᑕᐅᓂᕐᒧᑦ ᐱᑎᑦᑎᑦᑕᐃᓕᒋᑦ, ᐱᐅᙱᑦᑐᒥᓪᓕ ᐊᓐᓇᐅᒪᑎᒋᑦ. ᐋᒥᓐ.

Asanniniq
Ataniq Jesus, ilisimaliqpunga qaninganiittutit. Asagivagit inuusiup iluani. Tikitainnaq, quviasukpunga iluani. Pijumavagit irniiq, qaninganiinnut. Taimanna, ataniq, ilisimaliqpunga asannininga nungunngittuq. Amen.
Lagu Komuni
♪ “Tình Yêu Hiến Tế (Version A)” — A song for Ben
Nigirnaq

Ataniup asannininga ilissinnut atautikkut, ubluumi uvlullu tamaat. Ataniup asannininga qaninganiittuq.

✝ ᒎᑎ ᐊᔪᙱᓐᓂᓕᒫᓕᒃ ᓴᐃᒻᒪᖅᓴᐃᓕ ᐃᓕᔅᓯᓐᓂᒃ: ᐊᑖᑕ, ᐃᕐᓂᖅ, ᐊᒻᒪᓗ ᐊᓂᕐᓂᖅ ᐱᐅᔪᖅ. ᐋᒥᓐ.

Lagu Panutup
♪ “Vững Bước Ra Đi (Version B)” — A song for Ben
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