Daily Word

Memorial of Saint Bernard, Abbot and Doctor of the Church

Thursday, August 20, 2026 · in memory of Ben
A devotion that follows the Mass — not a substitute for it.
Opening Greeting

In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, the love of God, and the communion of the Holy Spirit be with you all.

Penitential Act

Lord Jesus, you cleanse our hearts and renew our spirits: Lord, have mercy. Christ Jesus, you invite us to the banquet of your Kingdom: Christ, have mercy. Lord Jesus, you clothe us in your everlasting love: Lord, have mercy.

♪ “Penitential Act (Organ)” — A song for Ben
Liturgy of the Word
Reading 1 · Ezekiel 36:23-28
Thus says the LORD: I will prove the holiness of my great name,  profaned among the nations,  in whose midst you have profaned it. Thus the nations shall know that I am the LORD, says the Lord GOD, when in their sight I prove my holiness through you. For I will take you away from among the nations, gather you from all the foreign lands, and bring you back to your own land. I will sprinkle clean water upon you to cleanse you from all your impurities, and from all your idols I will cleanse you. I will give you a new heart and place a new spirit within you, taking from your bodies your stony hearts and giving you natural hearts. I will put my spirit within you and make you live by my statutes, careful to observe my decrees. You shall live in the land I gave your ancestors; you shall be my people, and I will be your God.
Responsorial Psalm · Psalm 51:12-13, 14-15, 18-19
♪ “Be merciful O Lord for Ash Wednesday” — Br Michael Herry fms — Marist Music
Gospel · Matthew 22:1-14
Jesus again in reply spoke to the chief priests and the elders of the people in parables saying,  “The Kingdom of heaven may be likened to a king who gave a wedding feast for his son. He dispatched his servants to summon the invited guests to the feast, but they refused to come. A second time he sent other servants, saying, ‘Tell those invited: “Behold, I have prepared my banquet, my calves and fattened cattle are killed, and everything is ready; come to the feast.”’ Some ignored the invitation and went away, one to his farm, another to his business. The rest laid hold of his servants, mistreated them, and killed them. The king was enraged and sent his troops, destroyed those murderers, and burned their city. Then the king said to his servants, ‘The feast is ready, but those who were invited were not worthy to come. Go out, therefore, into the main roads and invite to the feast whomever you find.’ The servants went out into the streets and gathered all they found, bad and good alike, and the hall was filled with guests. But when the king came in to meet the guests he saw a man there not dressed in a wedding garment. He said to him, ‘My friend, how is it that you came in here without a wedding garment?’ But he was reduced to silence. Then the king said to his attendants, ‘Bind his hands and feet, and cast him into the darkness outside, where there will be wailing and grinding of teeth.’ Many are invited, but few are chosen.”
Alleluia
♪ International Liturgy Publications (ilpmusic.org)
I will pour clean water on you and wash away all your sins.
Homily

“I will give you a new heart and place a new spirit within you… taking from your bodies your stony hearts and giving you natural hearts.”

In our first reading, the Lord makes a tender promise through the prophet Ezekiel. God does not ask us to construct our own holiness. Instead, He promises to wash us clean, to soften what is hard, and to give us a heart of flesh—tender, responsive, and filled with His own Spirit.

And in the Gospel, Jesus speaks of the Kingdom of Heaven as a joyful wedding banquet prepared by the King. The feast is ready. The invitation goes out to the highways and byways, calling everyone into the warmth of the Father’s hall.

What is the wedding garment that clothes a soul for God’s banquet? It is the garment of love… a heart made gentle, generous, and pure by grace.

We saw that beautiful, natural heart so clearly in Benjamin Vo.

Ben did not have to be taught how to care for others; empathy was woven into the very fabric of who he was. When his uncle faced sudden health trials, fifteen-year-old Ben did not hesitate for a second—he immediately offered his entire piggy bank, wanting only to help and bring comfort. That was Ben. Beneath his brilliant intellect was a deeply unselfish boy… always smiling, always kind, and full of natural goodness.

It has been nine weeks since Ben was called home to God. Nine weeks where the quiet in your home can feel heavy, and missing his bright presence brings a deep ache.

Yet today’s Gospel assures us that Benjamin is seated at the King’s eternal banquet. Clothed in the radiant light of Christ, his gentle soul is forever home in the Father’s joy.

To Alan, Thao, and dear Ryan: may the Lord comfort your hearts and renew your strength day by day. Lean into each other’s embrace, and keep walking forward with courage and love for Ryan.

To Ben’s aunts and uncles, to all joining our prayer from near and far, to children carrying heavy burdens, and to every family enduring grief: Our Lady wraps you in her maternal mantle. You are seen, loved, and held by God.

Benjamin rests in the everlasting peace of the banquet of Heaven… where love never ends.

Meditation
♪ “The Solid Ground (Choral)” — A song for Ben
Prayers of the Faithful

For the intentions entrusted to Ben on our prayer wall:

“Ben - I miss you so much. Please help come say hi as much as you'd like. Help us carry-on without so much pain my son. Please pray for us.”
… we entrust to Ben, who carries it to the Lord.
℟ Ben, pray for us.
“Lord, Please welcome my younger brother's soul into Your presence. Please forgive him and let him rest peacefully in the Kingdom of Heaven. Please grant peace to our family and give me the strength to overcome. I entrust him into Your hands.” — Anh huy
… we entrust to Ben, who carries it to the Lord.
℟ Ben, pray for us.
“Please Jesus and Mother Mary and Saint John the Baptist, please watch over my family. Please protect Benjamin in your arms. Please take care of him like the way we took care of him for the past 15 years on earth. Please allow Ben to come say hi to us as often as possible.”
… we entrust to Ben, who carries it to the Lord.
℟ Ben, pray for us.
“Father, please accept my brother and forgive all my shortcomings on earth. May God support our souls, give us a firm belief that one day we will be reunited with you in His love. Amen.”
… we entrust to Ben, who carries it to the Lord.
℟ Ben, pray for us.
“Ben please pray for Aunt Maria Tran Ngoc Lan to rest in peace.”
… we entrust to Ben, who carries it to the Lord.
℟ Ben, pray for us.
“Hey Ben, please pray for Grandma. She's still in the hospital recovering from pneumonia. Please give her the strength to recover and come back home to Grandpa. Please ask Jesus to send his blessing to take care of our family”
… we entrust to Ben, who carries it to the Lord.
℟ Ben, pray for us.
“Hey Ben - sitting on the plane thinking of you. Life is so short. I still can’t believe that you’re no longer here with us. Thanks for being my Son on this earth for 15 years. I hope to reunite with you forever in Heaven someday. In the meantime please ‘watch over’ your parents like you promised me in my dreams. I love you so much Ben.” — Dad
… we entrust to Ben, who carries it to the Lord.
℟ Ben, pray for us.
“Ben, today I'm tossing and turning again, my eyes are closed but I can't sleep. I think about you so much. I love you so much, Ben.”
… we entrust to Ben, who carries it to the Lord.
℟ Ben, pray for us.

🕯 Light your own prayer on the prayer wall →

The Lord’s Prayer

At the Savior’s command and formed by divine teaching, we dare to say:

Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name; thy kingdom come, thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread, and forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us; and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. Amen.

Spiritual Communion
My Jesus, I believe that You are present in the Most Holy Sacrament. I love You above all things, and I desire to receive You into my soul. Since I cannot at this moment receive You sacramentally, come at least spiritually into my heart. I embrace You as if You were already there and unite myself wholly to You. Never permit me to be separated from You. Amen.
Communion Song
♪ “Living Bread (Pipe Organ & Cello)” — A song for Ben
Concluding Blessing

May the Lord bless us, protect us from all evil, and bring us to everlasting life. In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.

✝ May almighty God bless you: the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Amen.

Closing Song
♪ “Send Me Out (Version A)” — A song for Ben
Earlier Days
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