Daily Word

Friday of the Eighteenth Week in Ordinary Time

Friday, August 7, 2026 · in memory of Ben
A devotion that follows the Mass — not a substitute for it.
Opening Greeting

In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen. Welcome to this Liturgy of the Word, where we gather in the peace and mercy of our Savior.

Penitential Act

Lord Jesus, you call us to take up our cross and follow you: Lord, have mercy. Christ Jesus, you promise that whoever loses his life for your sake will find it: Christ, have mercy. Lord Jesus, you restore your people and announce peace to every heavy heart: Lord, have mercy.

♪ “Penitential Act (Piano)” — A song for Ben
Liturgy of the Word
Reading 1 · Nahum 2:1, 3; 3:1-3, 6-7
See, upon the mountains there advances the bearer of good news,  announcing peace! Celebrate your feasts, O Judah, fulfill your vows! For nevermore shall you be invaded by the scoundrel; he is completely destroyed. The LORD will restore the vine of Jacob, the pride of Israel, Though ravagers have ravaged them  and ruined the tendrils.Woe to the bloody city, all lies, full of plunder, whose looting never stops! The crack of the whip, the rumbling sounds of wheels; horses a-gallop, chariots bounding,  Cavalry charging, the flame of the sword, the flash of the spear, the many slain, the heaping corpses, the endless bodies to stumble upon! I will cast filth upon you, disgrace you and put you to shame; Till everyone who sees you runs from you, saying, “Nineveh is destroyed; who can pity her? Where can one find any to console her?”
Responsorial Psalm · Deuteronomy 32:35cd-36ab, 39abcd, 41
♪ “25th Sunday in Ordinary Time, Year C” — CJM Music (cjmmusic.com)
Gospel · Matthew 16:24-28
Jesus said to his disciples, “Whoever wishes to come after me must deny himself, take up his cross, and follow me. For whoever wishes to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake will find it. What profit would there be for one to gain the whole world and forfeit his life? Or what can one give in exchange for his life? For the Son of Man will come with his angels in his Father’s glory, and then he will repay each according to his conduct. Amen, I say to you, there are some standing here who will not taste death until they see the Son of Man coming in his Kingdom.”
Alleluia
♪ International Liturgy Publications (ilpmusic.org)
It is I who deal death and give life.
Homily

“See, upon the mountains there advances the bearer of good news, announcing peace!”

The prophet Nahum speaks those words to a weary people, reminding them that even after times of great trial, God’s restoring love has the final word. The Lord promises to heal what was broken and to gather His children into everlasting comfort.

And in today’s Gospel, Jesus reveals the deep truth behind that promise: “Whoever loses his life for my sake will find it.”

To lose one’s life for Christ is not a loss at all… it is the secret of eternal life. It is choosing love over self, and quiet kindness over self-preservation.

We saw that Christ-like, self-giving spirit so beautifully in Benjamin Vo. Benjamin was a boy whose brilliant mind was matched by a quiet, extraordinarily generous heart. Think of his tender selflessness—like the time he was ready to offer his entire piggy bank savings without a moment’s hesitation to help his uncle in a time of need. At such a young age, Ben already understood that what we hold onto in this world matters far less than what we give away in love.

It has been seven weeks since Benjamin went home to God. Seven weeks where the home can feel far too quiet, and where missing him weighs heavily on the spirit.

Yet Jesus assures us today: a life lived in love is never lost. Benjamin is alive in the fullness of God’s Kingdom, wrapped in the Savior’s infinite peace.

To Alan, Thao, and dear Ryan: the Lord sees every tear you shed and every quiet act of love you continue to offer. Keep drawing close to Jesus and Our Lady, standing strong together, and surrounding Ryan with your strength.

To Ben’s aunts and uncles, everyone joining us from afar, children who are suffering today, and every family bearing a heavy cross: Christ walks beside you in the storm.

Benjamin Vo rests safely in the Father’s warm embrace… watching over us with his gentle smile, where peace reigns forever.

Meditation
♪ “The Solid Ground (Organ)” — A song for Ben
Universal Prayer

For the intentions entrusted to Ben on our prayer wall:

“Hey Ben - sitting on the plane thinking of you. Life is so short. I still can’t believe that you’re no longer here with us. Thanks for being my Son on this earth for 15 years. I hope to reunite with you forever in Heaven someday. In the meantime please ‘watch over’ your parents like you promised me in my dreams. I love you so much Ben.” — Dad
… we entrust to Ben, who carries it to the Lord.
℟ Ben, pray for us.
“Ben, today I'm tossing and turning again, my eyes are closed but I can't sleep. I think about you so much. I love you so much, Ben.”
… we entrust to Ben, who carries it to the Lord.
℟ Ben, pray for us.
“Missing you more and more each day Ben. hope you’re meeting new friends in Heaven. Please help ease our pain and please help any parents out there in the world that are going through the same thing that we're going through. May they find some sort of comfort, love, and some kind of hope to move forward.”
… we entrust to Ben, who carries it to the Lord.
℟ Ben, pray for us.
“I miss you so much Ben” — Dad
… we entrust to Ben, who carries it to the Lord.
℟ Ben, pray for us.
“I miss you so much my Son - my best friend - my ps5 gaming buddy! Please watch over our family.” — Dad
… we entrust to Ben, who carries it to the Lord.
℟ Ben, pray for us.
“Mommy and Daddy miss you so much Ben. Please pray for Moms’s health as she hasn't been sleeping much. Please pray for your family on earth and to learn how to navigate this life without you.” — Dad
… we entrust to Ben, who carries it to the Lord.
℟ Ben, pray for us.
“Ben, may your spirit live on in joy and peace with Heavenly Father, and may He send His angels to watch over your parents and brother. May they be comforted daily with His love and grace, and may you all be reunited together forever one day as an eternal family. Sending our love to you!!!”
… we entrust to Ben, who carries it to the Lord.
℟ Ben, pray for us.
“I miss you, Ben. Please help Mom and me. We are suffering and in deep pain daily. Please help us figure this out... How do we continue living with this pain? Why do our hearts feel like they are six feet outside our bodies? Please pray for us so that we can carry on and take care of your brother.”
… we entrust to Ben, who carries it to the Lord.
℟ Ben, pray for us.

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The Lord’s Prayer

At the Savior’s command and formed by divine teaching, we dare to say:

Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name; thy kingdom come, thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread, and forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us; and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. Amen.

Spiritual Communion
My Jesus, I believe that You are present in the Most Holy Sacrament. I love You above all things, and I desire to receive You into my soul. Since I cannot at this moment receive You sacramentally, come at least spiritually into my heart. I embrace You as if You were already there and unite myself wholly to You. Never permit me to be separated from You. Amen.
Communion Song
♪ “Living Bread (Choir & Piano)” — A song for Ben
Concluding Blessing

May the peace of Almighty God, the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit, rest upon you and remain with you always. Amen.

✝ May almighty God bless you: the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Amen.

Closing Song
♪ “Send Me Out (Version B)” — A song for Ben
Earlier Days
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